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boyfriend help
Ok, so i have a boyfriend, pico and i like him and he likes me but it just seems like hes gettin kinda like too obsessive and i want to break up with him but i don't want to break up with him and i don't know what do do....please help me!
Notes:
- he's "flirted" wit my friend but it was just a joke (as he says)
- tons of other girls have asked him out but hes said no becuz he loves me sooo much
- he says that i'm the best thing a guy can have
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awww he sounds sweet...i would keep him...and if he is too obsessive tell him like one night...heyy i just want to go out with me and (a girl friend) tonight...i hope you dont mind we can go out some other time...then that way you have your space and you did hurt his feelings
hope i helped
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guys flirt with other girls for fun. 65 % of guys do that. only 5 % of guys flirt with other girls cuz they don't liek who they are with .if i were you : i would stay with him unless you absolutley kno this should be the end.
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aww it sounds like he's really sweet! don't brake up with him yet. try talking to him first about what bothers you that he does. if he really likes you that much then he'll understand and he won't get mad at you. just tell him nicely though.if it's just too much that you can't stand it and he won't listen to you when you try and talk to him, maybe you should brake up with him, but otherwise, wait and see what happens.
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Well im in a bit of a similar situation. tell him that u need some space ( but ur still going out ) unless you want to break up with him. then tell him exactly how you feel.
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It sounds like he likes you. You didn't mention anything I'd consider particularly obsessive. If you feel like you might want to break up though then I think you should. Maybe you just need a break. The thing is, if you do break up...prepare to see him dating other girls. :)
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well...comming from a guy, i get the impression that my girlfriend feels ALMOST the same about me, about obesessive...but all i do is what i think i should be doing during a relationship, and thats giving her attention. That is probably all he is trying to do, give you the attention that he deserves, and (this is my opinion) i would think it is absolutly crap to get dumped cause my girl doesnt get that i am doing all i can. All i would want her to do is talk to be about it, thats what you should prolly do to him, tell him that you know he isnt, but you get the feeling he is obsessive and you would like him to "calm down" as my girl said it. Then go a lil slower. Ok, with him supposably flirting with your friend, 99.999999% of the time that a girl flirts with a guy, especally if he is half attractive and used to girls flirtin with him, he will flirt back, its instinct, ive done it, i know other guys do it, its just...i dunno, habit for lack of better word...so try not to get bent out of shape because of it, and everything else he does, well i would take advantage of it, i get really mad whenever my girl ignores me and i do all i can to get her attention, she takes a little advantage, but she doesnt ever give me anything back, if you want to keep him happy (this is down the road info) then give him some attention too, and if you are really getting irritated with him, just tell him you wanna take a break, not break up, just go a few months without really talking or seeing each other, that way you have time to truly think about what you want to do... OR if all else fails, do what i do...flip a coin, God will provide the answers, you just have to look...
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well first decide if you wanna break up with him or not lol.....and if you do then just tell him straight up that you want a break. and make sure thats its nothing against him (even though it may be)...just try to make yall's break up as painless as possible for both you and him! let me know how it goes!
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calm down and really get to kno him and how he feels about u, if u really dont feel the same away about him then think about endding it but calm down relax and have some fun for a while, dont be scared of the feelings he has for you be ovbiously really likes u, if u really really want to get out do it now before its too late and he gets to emotional about it..
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Don't break up with him so fast! Talk about it with him, tell him he is suffocating you. Establish times for you to call each other, once a day. He sounds sweet, give it time, maybe your relationship is starting to freak you out a little. It will go away. Just don't lose something like that over nothing.
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Just sounds to me that he likes you alot.. maybe just see what happens for a while then decide wheather or not you want to break up with him
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aww! it sounds like he really likes you! i think you should keep on going out with him until he does something that you really dont' like... talk about everything that you don't like to him.. because if he likes you just the way that it seems to me then i bet he will be willing to listen and take evetyhng into concideration...!! if all else fails make a list (pro's con's) and if you have more con's then he's just not right for you!
ps. Pro's means good things and Con's are bad things... (just in case you didn't know!)
-Good luck!!
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