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his friends that are girls dont like me that much
Have any of you ever felt like you couldnt like someone becasue his friends that are girls dont like you? Well thats the situation im in. I like this boy and im not sure if he likes me but hes always telling me how hot i am and stuff. His friends that are girls dont really like me and i kinda dont like them either, well atleast one of his friends that are girls. Shes such a bitch and i find it kinda hard to like him now becasue they would say bad things about me to him.
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You shouldn't stop liking him just because of his friends that are girls. You can't let them ruin your happiness.
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They are just jealous of you. They know he likes you and it really makes them mad. If you don't like them anyway then don't worry about. Enjoy making their blood boil. :)
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ok, in this possition, i would be the guy, (i am friends with all girls) and you know what, you just dont tell them that you like him, but tell him (if you feel you really need to tell them) then ask him to not tell them. Depending on how he is, he may, he may not. But thats only the first step, the second step is-well first off, you have to like challenges if you want this guy, because its going to be a challenge to get him to like you, as you said, they would more than likely say bad things about you, or atleast laugh when they hear it if they dont like you that much. But to tell you the truth, that shouldnt affect him THAT much, usually most guys go by what they feel, and 85-90% of the time, a girl who likes them and tells them, they will like them too, unless he is goin for another girl. so, if you want me to repeat the steps then continue reading:
Step #
1) tell him you like him, guys dont like clues, we are too dumb to really notice (yes i will freely admit that)
2) tell him you would prefer the other girls not knowing because-then tell him your explanation, he should be understanding
3) try to make him notice you but dont try TOO hard, but just say hi, or wave to him, there is the chance that he could act like you are the geekiest person in the world, but usually, thats a covor up
4) do not do anything to make him not be interested, dont worry about what the girls say, like i said, guys dont usually listen to girl's gossip about other girls, we could pretty much care less...so dont do anything so bad that HE would notice it
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Well, I personally think that you need to just focus on the relationship between you and him. Don't worry about his friends right now... Just establish a relationship that he knows what your all about. If you just like him, get to know him and find out if you really do like him. Well, I hope I helped! Just remember, everything happens for a reason and their are only two people in a relationship. You never know one day you might go out with him and you might see his friends as your friends too. That girl will just have to get over it.
~Linda
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my friend had this problem she really really liked this guy but he was always with the "popular" girls and she didnt knwo what to do, she told him how she felt and he felt the same so they went out for 6 months...
his friend didnt get in the way of there feelings because they were os strong!
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