about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

Hey i have a b/f and i really like him but there is this guy that likes me too and every1 says we make a great couple and hes is my best friend and im starting to like him and then theres this other guy that every1 says liks me b/c he is always 2 flirty and just told me that he`d burn me a cd of this band b/c i told him it was really good and i was goin to buy it and hes lik no i`ll burn it for you i have all the cd`s i`ll burn all the good songs and so he is gonna do that and im really startin 2 lik him 2 but i like mi best friend as a guy and mi boyfriend more and im lik wut if he asks me out ?? Wut do i do??

ok here is what i am goin to say first i am goin to say FALLOW YOUR HEART dont listen to WHAT other people say.. i mean it is your life and your the one who is going to go out with him not them... you need to think about who you like more and who you want to go out not who your friends want you to go out with you...think about which one respects you? and if you boyfriend isnt a good boyfriend then i think you should break up with him and go out with the best guy friend because you like him. hope this helps you out..
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok, I want a treadmill, cause i luv running.
The thing is, i'm not rich and from the looks of most treadmills they're REALLY EXPENSIVE!
Does anyone know of a treadmill website or something that has cheap treadmills?

i would say go to walmart.com i got a treadmill there and it cost 89 dollars so it wasnt that expensive. hope this helsp.
*~Stephanie~*

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There this guy that I like and he likes me too ( we might be going out soon.. he told me he wanted to ask me an important question after I came back from vacation ) and it's just kinda been bothering me in my mind like ( cause I'm kinda preppy/girly )," What are we gonna do whenever we hang out together out in like public like the mall? He'll want to go into Hot Topic and stuff and I'll want to go into Hollister and Abercrombie..." and I feel very outta place around his friends and stuff cause they're all in black and skater clothes and I'm sitting there all in like Hollister shirts and stuff. I really want to go out with him, that's just been nagging in the back of my head for awhile now. And it's just whenever I hang out with him I have SO much fun and if we do have some stuff in common like I do like alotta punk bands and stuff and etc., I just hate how everyone out there will freak out basically ( at least at my school ) if punks are dating punks/goths or preps aren't dating jocks and preps and stuff, I mean why can't people just let people date people? =/ Please help!!





Love,
Labeled Love =/

you are sooo right! dont do the same thing as those other people are doin i mean we live in America and we can do whatever the hell you want it is a free contry but yea if you like this guy go 4get. you never know mayb you will change the way your school is.. and then people will stop carin about like prppys datin the punky. hope this helps you out. and o ye afallow your heart and listent to what other people say. well take care.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok so my parents left town for the weekend and im here with my college cousin. My mom told me not to go to this one guys house but hes having a huge party this weekend. I really want to go but ims cared to death that my mom will find out or something bad will happen and then im screwed for the rest of highschool. should i go or not go?

i dont think you should go.. if you are already havin second thoughts about it then dont go it might end up in a dissaster and then you could get in trouble with your mom and you could loose your mothers trust.. i dont think you want that to happen? it is really hard to gain peoples trust once you lose it. hope this helps you out. and that you make a good choice.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay heres the downlow. Whenever my boyfriend is around girls he always flirts with them, even if i'm right there. then when i talk to him about he'll either say i never did that or oh i'm sorry i won't do it again, but he never changes! I don't know what i should do. Part of me wants to break up with him and another part of me doesn't! So what should i do!!??

I'm 13,Female

ok if he doesnt repect you like you should and treat you like the on,y girl he wants in his life he isnt worth it. you should break it off with him. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay my friend got fingured by her boyfriend. shes just about 2 weeks late for her period, and she keeps asking me if that could have affected her period track. she keeps thinking shes pregant, but i know that cant be the case. can someone finguring you cause you to skip a period? or any thing? please post and fast with advice!!

i dont think your friend can be pregnant because there would have to been a lot of sperm on his fingures to furtlize an egg. if she is soo werid tell ehr to take a pregnance test.. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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What are different ways to style sidesweeping bangs? Im getting them tomorrow - should I cut them to the bottom of my ear? Cheekbone? Longer?

ok i got mine a lil bit shorter then my checkbone. i dont think it is a good idea to have them really short because sometimes they can get in the way and if they are really short then you cant get them out of your face. hope this helps you out.
~*Stephanie~*

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i wear glasses and i dont want to take them off when i make out
what do i do is it possible to make out with him if you wear glasses?

yes you can make out with a guy with or without glass. it doesnt matter which eveyr wya you feel more comfrontable with.it isnt like you guys eyes are going to touch. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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omg i cant think of it! okay in the beggining he talks like "oh s**t im high" and then it like goes into song! omg i cant remember it! please help

can you please try remembering more then that so i can help you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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is it possible to make out with a guy if you wear glasses (it would be helpful if people who wear glasses answer this)

yes it is possible if you dont want to take them off hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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15/f.
My bf pissed me off n really hurt my feelings w/o meaning to. now im not so sure and i want to take a break. but im afriad if i find out i do still want/need him he won't want me back... help...

if you like this guy a lot then i think you should try to make it work out.. if not then dont waste your time because there are a lot of guys out there 4 you. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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how do you style side-swept bangs? like would you straighten them, or what. i don't have them, but i want them. and would it look bad if you didn't style them?

i have side swept bangs and i think they look a lot cutier if they are stiraghtened. i always striaghten mine.. it doesnt look bad it just looks werid if you dont striaghten it but it doesnt take long to striaghten it. it takes me 30 seconds. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Im buying a shirt for a friend of mine who is 6`1 and quite thin. Im not sure what size shirts he wears and I dont want to ask him because I want it to be a surprise. Do you think a large or meduim would work best? Looking at both length and width. I dont want him with baggly clothes but I dont want it too short either.

i think you should get him a large. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Is Limewire legal? My friends have been telling me it is, but I'm not so sure.

i think it is. actually you are a loud to download music and lsiten to it but u CANT sell it to other people without the owners permission.
*~Stephanie~*

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On june 13 and june 15 i had sex wit my bf. we had used protection n everythin. then i got my period on june 19...it last bout 5 days and it was a heavy flow..meaning it really was my period n nothin lik "spotting". newyz i havnt had sex since june 15th but now its been 34 days and i havnt had my period. usually i have it around 30-31 days...could i be pregnant?

i dont think you can eb pregenant i think you should wait a couple more days and if you still are woryin then take a pregnancy test.. hope this ehlsp you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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My boyfriend's away in Europe right now & he will be for another week. I'm missing him like crazy & I can only talk to him online because longdistance is expensive. What can I do to get through this time? Any ideas how to get my mind off missing him?

i got an idea for you i used to do this because my ex lived so far away.. if you go to like a liquer store or i think som drug stores have it.. you can get a phonecard for 5 dollars and it has like 200 minutes on it or more i am not sure...

if you want to get your mind off of missing him try ahnging otu with your friends and doing stuff together.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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PLEASE ANSWER I NEED IT!!!

What do you do when you like someone and they like you. But your not sure if you wanna go out with them or not?

Thanks in advance

there r 2 things you can do to solve your problem. 1) tell them how you feel and take a chance and ask them out and try makin it work out with this person or 2) become really close friends with this person and then see how your feelings are for this person and then take a chance and ask them out.

i person think you should do the second so then you know if you have enough feelings 4 the guy to go out wit him or not but in the end you guys can still be friends.

hope this helps you out.

*~Stephanie~*

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Ok, me and this girl have been talkin' 4 a while now (for like 6 months). We were just friends at first but I've always liked her. She's been in really bad relationships and thinks men are dogs and will treat her like dirt. I really like her though and I wouldn't do anything like that. I like her too much. Plus I'm not even that kinda guy. I wanna love her and show her trust, honesty, and loyalty. She's been so hurt that she can't see that I wouldn't do that to her. I wanna be with her; she is the most incredible girl I've ever met. On top of that I think I like her so much it might be turning into Love. I need some GOOD advice. Help!
P.S. I'll rate high.

awwwwwwwwww... that is cute... what you should do is tell her how you feel about her and then tell her that you will treat her with respect and hoesty etc.... but dont only tell her that prove it to her by showin her how much you care about her and that you wont hurt her. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok hi my friend said that if u were a member of advicenators for over 30 days you could me a i think she said like monitor or sumthin she said its wen u check for quesions to see if they are stupoid or not...my question is how do you become one??

aLeX

ur friend is right except you need to meet some requirements check this site and see if you can become one http://advicenators.com/faq.php?t=13
. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I am goin out with this kid and my friend likes him too I think I should tell her that I am goin out with him or should I not But we tell each other like every thing

I will RATED YOU HIGH
Please help mee

Always
Mee

i think you should tell your friend be honest with your friend and dont let her find out the hard way. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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