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What should I do About my Boyfriend?
okay heres the downlow. Whenever my boyfriend is around girls he always flirts with them, even if i'm right there. then when i talk to him about he'll either say i never did that or oh i'm sorry i won't do it again, but he never changes! I don't know what i should do. Part of me wants to break up with him and another part of me doesn't! So what should i do!!??
I'm 13,Female
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I would break up with him casuse he isnt worth it and there are other fish in the sea
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HM..IF I WERE YOU I WOULD DUMP HIS ASS. HA. OR MAYBE YOU SHOULD SIT HIM DOWN AND HAVE A SERIOUS CONVERSATION ABOUT IT SAYING EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL. IF HE DOESNT STOP..THEN HES NOT WORTH IT! YOU NEED A BOY THAT PAYS TOTAL ATTENTION TO YOU AND NOT OTHER GIRLS! GOOD LUCK BABE! xOxOx-<3ALWAYS..LAUr3n
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i dont think you should break up with him. its in a guys blood to flirt with a girl he thinks is cute. he cant help it and doesnt know he is doing it. most likely you flirt with some guys that you think are cute every once in a while even though he is your boyfriend. so you already tried talking to him, so here is another idea. when he is flirting with them try to break it up or take him the other direction when there is a cute girl around. good luck!
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You've already talked to him about it and he doesnt seem to be fixing the problem, so talking to him again wouldnt help at all. I think the only solution now is to break up with him. You're 13, plenty of time left in your life, its not good to tie yourself down to one guy anyone, certainly not if he's going to stay commited to you! Play the field for a while and enjoy yourself.
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If he doesn't respect your wishes, he's not worth your time. You shouldn't be wasting so much of your life with this kid. Break up. Go out with someone who cares about your wishes and will respect you!
♥ Brooke
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if he really cared for you he would try and change but he's oviously a jerk so i'd break it off with him and do better
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If he keeps it up, just break up with him, hes not worth the time.
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what i would do is breakup with him. you definetly deserve better than him! if you're doing everything for him, he should be doing everything for you. not flirting with other girls! especially in front of you. hes not giving you his best, so hes just wasting your time. your totally better than him and he doesnt deserve your lovin. i was in a sim sit...the guy wasnt working as hard as i was in the relationship and finally i let it go because i knew i could get someone better. try to find the strength to let it go and find someone better. hope this all works out!
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My husband does this too. It is just his personality I guess. If he were up to no good he would be flirting behind your back and not with you standing there. It isn't anything to break up over because he probably honestly doesn't think hes flirting. Just give him a playful slap on the arm next time and forget it. :)
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go with your heart and talk to him <3
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If you can live with him flirting with other girls and he's not doing anything more than flirting with the girls, I don't see a reason why you shouldn't stay with him.
However, someone who honestly cares about you would not do something that they know hurts you. Since you've talked to him about it already, he definitely knows. If you can't handle the flirting, give him a limit of time to straighten up his act and if he doesn't, kick him to the curb and find a guy that respects your feelings.
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sweety i think you should dump him because if he always does that even when you confront him about it its not going to change its just the way he is
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I think that you should dump him becoz he isnt treatin you like a grlfriend at all !!
kaitlyn jO*
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omg that like same that happened to me..weird.. anyway the way i dealed with it was to show him that i wasnt joking about it. i easily said to him that i couldnt stand him doing that and if he did it again i would break it off..but sometimes the relationship could end there so choice number 2 would beat him in his own game and flirt with a guy for like 2 minutes while he's around and when he confronts you about it be like i just wanted you to know how i felt when you do it and then he'll understand what he's doing..lol and you could get someone else to confront him like one of your friends and have them talk to him on why he's been flirting and he'll realize that your not just accusing him of something for nothing..lol sorry for it being so long but hope i helped!
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ok if he doesnt repect you like you should and treat you like the on,y girl he wants in his life he isnt worth it. you should break it off with him. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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u should break up with him because if he is going to be a player than maybe hes not rite for u
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alright tell your bf that if he doesnt stop then your not gonna take it anymore. tell him the next time he does that your breaking up wtih him. you can do it!
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When someone flirts with everyone it normally means that he/she is being insecure and looking for attention. It doesn't have to mean that he's not in love with you...
However if it makes you feel insecure and the way he's doing it is disrespectful towards you you should tell him to stick it where the sun don't shine.
I've been there and I accepted it for too long... Don't let that happen to you. You deserve better!
Good luck! x
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Did you ever see that movie where the girl deals with her boyfriend flirting with other girls, and 'accidentally' cheats on her four times and when he breaks up with her for the other girl, she sits around and waits for him to come back, because she knows that being treated that badly is worth being with him. Then, when he comes back, they get married and live miserably after and have children that are infected with the AIDS virus. No? That's because people don't make movies about that. Romance is supposed to be happy and lovely and wonderful.
Ok, maybe that's a little extreme. But this guy doesn't respect you, much less care for you. Why be with a scumbag who isn't as good as his word? You deserve honesty, and someone who will respect what YOU want in a relationship.
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Guys can be like this sometimes & it really sucks. I know you deserve better so you've got to talk to him but be really tough. Tell him this is really hurting you & he can deny it all he wants, it's happening & you want it to stop. You have a right to let him know how you feel & he should in NO way be doing this to you. I know it might be hard but really think about what's best for you. Breaking up with him might be hard at first but if he gets out of hand, it may be the right thing to do. Good luck!!
♥ Montana
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Honestly, Dear.. what's the point in giving your heart away to someone who isn't willing to give you theirs???? It's quite apparent this is really hurting you, but my question is... why hgave you even bothered to put up with it for as long as you have??? You know what needs to be done here. Ditch this immature clown, and move on to someone who is willing to treat you with respect and devotion...
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