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Break?
15/f.
My bf pissed me off n really hurt my feelings w/o meaning to. now im not so sure and i want to take a break. but im afriad if i find out i do still want/need him he won't want me back... help...
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I think that because you even HAVE those fears, that this break is EXACTLY what the relationship needs. Some time apart will give you time to miss each other.... or.. give each other a reason to MOVE ON without one another. It's really a very important test, Hun. And even if he DOES decide he doesn't want to get back together, it can only be GOOD news. I mean, OF COURSE it will hurt, OF COURSE you'll be upset, OF COURSE things will seem bad.. but honestly...think of it THIS way: what's the point in giving your heart away to someone who isn't willing to give you THEIRS??? Understand my point here? This break will determine if there is even anything TO hold on to, you see?? I know it's a terrible thought to be apart from him, but sometimes it's necessary....
Whatever the outcome, I wish you the best!
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if you like this guy a lot then i think you should try to make it work out.. if not then dont waste your time because there are a lot of guys out there 4 you. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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ok this is a dead serious answer i had same thing happen with my girl jus break up don't wait i did and i missed dating a girl who was some one i truely liked. i didn't want to dump her b/c of the same way you feel so i waited and missed 3 girls jus do it i can guarntee it there is some one wantting you right now jus waitting for you
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Since he didnt mean to hurt you why dont you try to fix things? If he truely still loved you he would take you back but you never know. Before taking a break try to work it out. ♥
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Tell your bf that even though he didn't mean to, he did hurt you, and that you need a couple days to yourself to deal with it. If he really cares about you, he won't mind giving you a day or two to get your mind striaght.
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just take a break..if you find out you still want him you can always get him back! if your bf really loves/likes you he would for sure take you back! hope it helps <33chrissi
OR just like don't hang out with him as often and see if you like being away from him rather then hanging out with him
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A little more information about what he did would be good.. but, as far as I've heard... if he pissed you off, and you want to take a break, then take a break.
You don't need him! Besides, taking a break isn't exactly breaking up. It means that at some point you will probably get back together. And if he doesn't want to get back together, then that's his loss. There are other guys out there.
But if he did something seriously by accident, just remember he's only human. You can't blame him for a mistake. Remember, he didn't mean to hurt you.
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well if he didnt mean to hurt your feelings maybe you should give him another chance?. but if you dont want to and you take a brea from him and you go back to him he may not still be there he might've moved on :-/
vanna :)
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