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Question Posted Friday July 22 2005, 5:35 pm

Hey i have a b/f and i really like him but there is this guy that likes me too and every1 says we make a great couple and hes is my best friend and im starting to like him and then theres this other guy that every1 says liks me b/c he is always 2 flirty and just told me that he`d burn me a cd of this band b/c i told him it was really good and i was goin to buy it and hes lik no i`ll burn it for you i have all the cd`s i`ll burn all the good songs and so he is gonna do that and im really startin 2 lik him 2 but i like mi best friend as a guy and mi boyfriend more and im lik wut if he asks me out ?? Wut do i do??


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nvme119 answered Friday July 22 2005, 8:02 pm:
Ask yourself this...If you were to break up with your current boyfriend would you regret it? If zso then you probably should just forget about the other two guys. But if you feel like things between you and your boyfriend aren't that great than you should definately talk to one of those guys. You should pick the guy who would burn the CD for you because you don't want to ruin the friendship between you and the other guy. If you choose to stay with your bf, one of the other guys ask you out then you should definately say no. It wouldn't be fair to your bf to leave him for another guy. You should end things with your bf before you start a a new relationship. Good Luck :)

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ncblondie answered Friday July 22 2005, 7:49 pm:
Since you like your best friend as a guy, it would be better to not get into a relationship with him. Continue your friendship with him but leave your heart out of it. Since you say you're happy with your boyfriend, I would suggest staying with him. If it doesn't work out with the him, you can always go for the other guy.

If your friend asks you out, simply tell him that you're flattered but you enjoy your friendship and don't want anything to mess that up. If the other guy asks you out, tell him if you weren't already taken, you would be interested. Then give your boyfriend a big hug and let him know how special he is to you.

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Friday July 22 2005, 6:59 pm:
ok here is what i am goin to say first i am goin to say FALLOW YOUR HEART dont listen to WHAT other people say.. i mean it is your life and your the one who is going to go out with him not them... you need to think about who you like more and who you want to go out not who your friends want you to go out with you...think about which one respects you? and if you boyfriend isnt a good boyfriend then i think you should break up with him and go out with the best guy friend because you like him. hope this helps you out..
*~Stephanie~*

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ThugGirl041790 answered Friday July 22 2005, 6:35 pm:
Well decide who you like the most and go with that person.. but seriously it counds really complicated so take your time and make sure you make the right chioce.. and the best friend guy you might want to keep as a best friend.. but like i said its your chioce.. ♥ Dez

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advicegal26 answered Friday July 22 2005, 6:14 pm:
well there is a multitude of things that you can do...some will probably take you down the wrong road though...#1:you have mixed feelings so stick with the guy you have and deal #2:if the guy that you are dating is not real fun dating then tell him and go with the other guy he seems fun too but it could create some problems down the road with thee other guy that you dumped**my advice hopihelped***

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mylinhthan answered Friday July 22 2005, 6:13 pm:
anonymous -

Stay with your boyfriend.

You get flattered easily and could be reading the other guys signs wrong. So what if he wants to burn a cd for you? He's probably just being nice to save you the trouble. And define flirty? If he talks to you a bunch, he's just talking to you a bunch!

Make it clear that you're taken. That way, you won't have to worry about flirty guys.

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