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Okay...Im like a mad fun person to chill with. I love having fun. If you can make me laugh i automatically love you..lol! Dancing, cheerleading, and listening to music are my thing. I'm a "good" girl, but I know when to have fun and pary! I am a really loyal friend. When people want me to keep a secret for them I do, because I'm not the type to tell everyone someone else's business. I can't stand people who are two-faced. I know I'm not perfect...but I decided to make my own avice column so I could help people who are in the same kind of situation I was once in before. And that's basically about it. I hope you like my column :)

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Well ive had a crush on this real nice guy ad we talk alot and he told me about his ex who broke up with him twice in 2 weeks. I told her that I liked him cause she was going out with someone and she told me she was over the guy i liked and that we should go out...she gave me soo much hope. Then the nxt day she comes in and tells me that shes breaking up with her b/f and that she thinks the guy I like (her ex) thinks that she likes him again because she kept asking him who he liked. I was mad cause i trusted her but thats not it. The guy I like told me that she was telling people that she liked him again....Rite after I told herow i felt! Ughe everyone sais shes a slut cause shes gone out with everyone on our sports team!!!! Was she jus trying to screw me or is this a coincidence???? HELP ME.... he said all this bad stuff to me about her but now they are going back out!!! Shes "wooing" him!

Trust me...this is no coincidence. When you told her that you you started like this guy old feelings started bubbling inside of her. She probably got jealous that he might have actually liked you back. She just wants to prove a point, to herself, that she can get him back at anytime if she really wanted to. It seems that this girl just goes out with guys to mess with their head especially since she broke up with her boyfirend just to get back with an ex only after you told her how you felt. As for the guy that you liked ...what he did isn't right. But old things die hard. Maybe he wanted to give her a second chance because their previouse relationship had unfinished business to it. give everything time. Im sure there plenty of other guys at your school to pick from and I'm sure that a couple probably like you too. Just be open to new people...you never know what could happen!

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theres a movie I remember watching a few years back and I loved it, but all I remember now from it is There were 2 people, a man and a woman, and they were like jewel theives and they were preparing for a huge, major robbery, and the girl had to weave her way through a big maze like thing of laser alarms to get to the jewel, so they had her practicing with like red yarn set up in place of laser beams and she had to practice getting through them. Does anyone know what movie this is? Thanks in advance

I'm sorry I don't know the answer to your question, but I do know the movie you are talking about. The woman is Catherine Zeta-Jones and the man is Sean Connery. I hope that helps at least a little bit. Sorry I dont know the name again.

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what does it mean when a guy "eats out" a girl?

When a guy "eats out" a girl he is orally stimulating her. So he is basically going to pleasure a girl using his mouth. He could lick, kiss, or suck on your vagina and/or clitoris.

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can anyone recommend a good reliable music download site? One that is easy to access and I won't have to install a whole bunch of stuff, because I want to be able to access from work or at home. And what is the price range per tune? I'd heard it's roughly $ .99 to $2.50 each?

Thanks :) I'll rate

You should go to http://www.limewire.com you ca ndownload music, videos, and a whole bunch of other stuff. When you get there click on where it says "Get it Now." Then there are going to be with one column with checkmarks, and aother with some x's. At the bottom of the one with the x's it will say basic. Click that on that. if you pick pro then you will have to pay about $20. I have the basic one and it works really well. Its free an you don't have top pay anything to get the songs you want. Hop I helped :)

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i babysit this little boy and i am not so good with cooking. any ideas for cooking for a little boy. he likes chocolate and milk and he also likes cheese, but i don't know what to make for him that he likes or will like. any ideas? i rate really high!

There are sooo many options that you have. You can make him grilled cheese sandwiches (instead of frying it just pop two slcices of bread with cheese in the toaster). If your not that great of a cook look around the house for microwavable foods like chef boyarde products. Since he likes chocolate you can make smores with him. Get Hershey's kisses in that huge bag they have (the kisses are small because its made for cooking) and put some in a bowl. Melt in the microwave. Do the same with marshmallows. Get graham crackers and plastic knives and put the chocolate and marshmallows on the crackers. Have him help you make it...that way he doesn't get bored. There are also smiley shaped french fries in the frozen food section. You should get him those (you just place a sheet of aluminum paper in the toaster and put them there or put them in the microwave) and get cheese dip. Hope I helped:)

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can anybody suggest a really good men's cologne for me. I'm 15/m and i'm looking for something masculine, sexy and powerful, and it has to last. My price limit is $100.

* Curve * CoolWater for men * Black * Tommy Boy * Hope I helped :)

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sometimes my face would get like really oily, and I'm starting highschool in september, and I really want to get rid of the oil. what can I use or do to get rid of excess oil for a long period of time, or atleast long enough to get me through 7-8 hours of school

Go to the nearest drugstore/pharmecy and get an exfoliator for your face. Make sure the container it comes in say..."for oily skin." You should wash your face for it everday in the morning when you wake up, and at night before you go to bed. After that apply a face moisturizer that is oil free. I forgot which brand ...but their is a company that makes these little tissues for your face. You pat in on your face and it absorbs the excess oil. Also do you use make-up? If so make sure it is oil free. Good Luck

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ok well i change my mood so fast. it doesnt happen every day but it happens in like every couple of weeks. what happens is i can b all happy and normal but then i can juss become annoyed buy everyone i can start cryin im so mad but there is no reason. is there something wrong with me? please help ill rate high

Okay if you are a girl then it could be PMS. Nothing is wrong with you. PMS affects alot of people...inluding me *lol* so you shouldn't worry about it. It occurs around the week right before you get your period. During those days you can also become very emtional and cry for no reason. It's all about the hormones...haha. Hope I helped :)

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Hey guys, this is gonna sound really retarded, but I'll ask anyway. Well it started when my brother asked me if I'd read the harry potter books and I said no, they're really stupid. But then he convinced me to read them, and now I'm on the 5th book. I really like them, it's kind of funny, because I always thought they were stupid. But anyway, I'll get to my question. My best friend likes them too, so we wanna have a harry potter party. I know, we're so stupid! So does anyone know what we can do, other than watch the movies and stuff? We already decided on making shirts. I'm making mine say I love Snape. Haha, don't ask. Is there anything else we can do though? Thank you!!

I love the Harry Potter books ...they're great! Although I have never heard of anyone throwing a Harry Potter party...but hey whatever floats your boat right? Anyways, to make your party more interesting you could have all your friends dress up like characters from the book. Or you can all buy black robes and wands and stuff. If you choose to dress up like characters then make sure people tell you who they are going to be beforehand so there aren't that many repeated costumes. This might sound a bit retarded but...you could get a giant poster of Harry Potter and get lightning bolt stickers and blindfold people and have them stick the sticker closest to his scar. Kind of like pin the tail on the donkey. Hope I helped and have tons of fun :)

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Is it normal to gain weight during or right before your period? I am 13 years old and I weigh 100 pounds. Is that normal? Now I weigh 103 pounds.

It is completely normal. When us girls get our periods we get bloated and we gain lots of water-weight. Don't worry about it. When your period is over the weight should be gone. Hope I helped ...:)

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Would any of you agree with "a drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts"?

The other night, my friend, who had had a few, told me he liked me, he thinks it can work between us, even that im the girl he sees himself marrying. The next day I asked him about it. I asked if he remembered what he said and he said yes. So I asked him if he meant it, and he said yes. I really like him. but im scared to take it any further because I don't know it its true.

I think your friend genuinely likes you. Especially if he admitted to remembering he told you the next day. If he didn't like you he could have easily said he didn't remember or that he was soo drunk he was just saying shit. I say go for it! You never know what can happen between you two. It's better to know than to regret not going out with him and wondering what could have happened. And since you like him that gives you all the more meaning to work things out with him. Good Luck and tell me how it goes!!! :)

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this will be very long..sorry! well me and my boyfriend have been going through a lot lately..and hes been wanting to me to prove to him how much i love him cause sometimes he wonders! so i went out of my way and paid my friends sister to take me to the mall so i could get him a bracelet he wanted carved with our names on it! so i spent like $74 on that and then i found the cutest card ever! well then since last night he has been acting kinda distant..like we couldnt really talk or anything! well then today he had to go help his grandpa so i thought no big deal ill talk to him when he gets home! well i looked at his buddypic thing and he took my name off and just put he had a girlfriend and added some other girl on there too which scared me! so i texted him and said something..no response! so then i called his house and he talked to me and said hed get online in a minute! well then he tells me hes going on vacation, he just got a job, and hes doing modeling so we wont really talk anymore so he thinks its best for now if we go on a break and i prove to him how much i love him! and he said after i send him his stuff he will read it all and think about it! and he said he cant talk on his cell cause his aunt wont let him and now he cant get on the computer either for like a week! it kills me so much cause ive never felt this way in my life..hes supposably bought me a promise ring and everything else! well i IMed that girl that was on his buddypic and seen what was up and i guess shes in love with him or something! and he was talking to her with me and i found out another girl says she loves him too and im so scared that he will move on although he keeps telling me he wont and those girls are too good of friends! i wanna believe him but its so hard! well i have his password for everything n he has mine too..well then he decides hes gonna change his AIM password and now i dont know what to think..im so scared something might be going on! i just dont know what to do! i have done nothing but cry since i found out! he told me after i send his stuff he will write me a letter back and i guess thats how we have to talk for now! i really dont know what to do cause im use to talking to him all day..it kills me so much! and i dunno what to do! do you have any cute ideas i could do with his card and bracelet that i can send through the mail? thanks so much!

I'm sorry your boyfriend has been acting weird lately. I understand that he asked you to prove to him how much you love him. Alot of guys ask us girls to do that. But what we don't realize is that if they trully loved us back then they wouldn't need us to prove anything. The same applies to your boyfriend. A card and bracelet were a cute gift, but can you honestly say that those to things are equal to love...no. If he is talking to other girls online that tell him they love him, then they and him have no concept of love. I don't think he is cheating on you but I do think it is wrong for him to be talking to other girls as more than friends. I also think that you should definately give him some privacy. Some guys aren't so great in committed relationships althought they have feelings for their partner. Him changing his AIM password is his way of saying that he needs is individuality, independence, and privacy back. I don't think you should send the card and bracelet to him. Tell him straight up, "Do you want to continue our relationship?" It's either yes or no. Don't accept any other answer like, "I don't know, Im confused." Although he really might be confused don't give him time to "think nabout it!" You already know what you want, if he has doubts then it won't work. As much as it may hurt you, you need to stand up for yourself and move on. He isn't worth keeping if he has doubts about your relationship. It isn't fair to you to keep getting hurt. Try and find someone who will treat you right (like a princess LOL). I'm sorry I didnt really answere your question on how to send the card and bracelet. But this is what I think is best. I'm really interested in hearing what happens later on in your relationship with him. So please e-mail me at nvme0212@msn.com and tell me how things go.

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ok, this might seem a bit confuseing but here it goes. Ok me and this guy Brian and his mom and my mom were hanging out by the pool. Brian is 17 by the way. When we first got there Brian asked me how old i was. And I told him i was 13. Then after a while of talking and swimming. He comes and sits beside me while our moms are gone to get something to eat. Right out of nowhere he says " Well what do u think about me?" Then I got so imbarassed and told him what I thought. He kept going on and on and on about how he would kick his youger sisters ass if she botherd me ( who is in my grade). Then after a few minutes he comes and sits beside me again and says " You know what?" " I can spoil you." I looked at him and said " Oh yea, I bet you can" Then he goes " I can give you a missage and that will spoil you." I loked at him funny and said " I don't think so "
Does he like me. ( plz ezcuse the messed up spelling and crap.) I rate high 4 good answers!!

Okay...I don't think he likes you the way you think he might. But I DONT think that he is trying to take advantage of you either. I just think that he was trying to have fun with you and flirt with you that's all. People tend to flirt with other people just for the hell of it. But you never know I might be wrong, if you end up finding out later that he does like you then I think that you should definately go for it. He is older than you but sometimes relationships work even with the age difference.

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Hello. Im starting to excersize to lose weight and i was wondering..I like to eat salad with just lemon and salt, but i only eat lettuce..lol not much of a salad so basically lettuce in a bowl with lemon and salt on top..is that alot of carbs/calories?

Will rate 5's && send feedback
Thank you!

It's not that healthy to just eat lettuce. Even though salad dressing is more fattening you should use it every once a while. Also you should mix pieces of grilled chicken breast in your salad. It will taste really good I promise. You could also add stake. But that's still a boring salad. So you could add vegetables to the salad like cucumbers, tomatoes, carrots, and couliflower (sorry I couldnt spell that last one right). I hope you lose the weight you want...Good Luck :)

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ok well here it goes

i'm 16 female

and i've had sex w/ about 5 guys, yea sounds sluty but o well, well this guy that i'm "sleeping w/" has a pretty good size dick, in the thickness and length, but my problem is, that when we have sex it hurts REALLY BAD, i mean yes he fingers me before hand and all the other stuff to losen me up, but it still hurts, we have had sex only twice, and i figured the second time wouldn't hurt as bad, but it about killed me, and it still hurts even the next day.

so the question is

what is the best thing that i can do, so it want hurt the next time we have sex?

Maybe the size of his dick isn't the problem. Maybe he just pushes to hard against you while you are having sex. You should try telling him to not be so hard on you. If it still hurts then I'm sorry... I dont'w know what else you can do.

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so i was at the park last night with a couple boys and my best friend. well, this one guy named josh came and sat really close to me and then put his hat on my head. he pretty much only talked to me, and was the only person who'd let have some of his drink. when he left he gave me a hug for a couple minutes. we flirted a whole lot before he left. my best guy friend who was there and my best friend both think he likes me. i dont know what to think. could you help me?

I think it's pretty safe to say that this guy likes you. I think it's pretty cute that he only talked to you and shared his drink with you. He sounds sweet and sincere. Now that you know that this kid likes you, don't try to change yourself to impress him more. He was obviously impressed with the real you. So just be yourself and time will tell what happens. Good luck :)

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is it bad to masterbate?

NO...it is perfectly natural!

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Hey i have a b/f and i really like him but there is this guy that likes me too and every1 says we make a great couple and hes is my best friend and im starting to like him and then theres this other guy that every1 says liks me b/c he is always 2 flirty and just told me that he`d burn me a cd of this band b/c i told him it was really good and i was goin to buy it and hes lik no i`ll burn it for you i have all the cd`s i`ll burn all the good songs and so he is gonna do that and im really startin 2 lik him 2 but i like mi best friend as a guy and mi boyfriend more and im lik wut if he asks me out ?? Wut do i do??

Ask yourself this...If you were to break up with your current boyfriend would you regret it? If zso then you probably should just forget about the other two guys. But if you feel like things between you and your boyfriend aren't that great than you should definately talk to one of those guys. You should pick the guy who would burn the CD for you because you don't want to ruin the friendship between you and the other guy. If you choose to stay with your bf, one of the other guys ask you out then you should definately say no. It wouldn't be fair to your bf to leave him for another guy. You should end things with your bf before you start a a new relationship. Good Luck :)

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i am just wondering why people put lemon juice in there hair. i am not bein mean but i just wanna know what it does
thanks

Lemon juice is used to highlight people's hair. It turns a person's hair even lighter if they go out in the sun.

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Ok, I want a treadmill, cause i luv running.
The thing is, i'm not rich and from the looks of most treadmills they're REALLY EXPENSIVE!
Does anyone know of a treadmill website or something that has cheap treadmills?

You could try somewhere cheap like Wal-mart, K-mart, or Target. Sorry I dont really know of a website or anything. But if you love running and don't have a lto of money than why don't you run around your neighborhood or block for a certain amount of time. You could also run at your school field track thing. Hope I helped :)

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