Question Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 10:02 pm
Well ive had a crush on this real nice guy ad we talk alot and he told me about his ex who broke up with him twice in 2 weeks. I told her that I liked him cause she was going out with someone and she told me she was over the guy i liked and that we should go out...she gave me soo much hope. Then the nxt day she comes in and tells me that shes breaking up with her b/f and that she thinks the guy I like (her ex) thinks that she likes him again because she kept asking him who he liked. I was mad cause i trusted her but thats not it. The guy I like told me that she was telling people that she liked him again....Rite after I told herow i felt! Ughe everyone sais shes a slut cause shes gone out with everyone on our sports team!!!! Was she jus trying to screw me or is this a coincidence???? HELP ME.... he said all this bad stuff to me about her but now they are going back out!!! Shes "wooing" him!
nvme119 answered Friday January 27 2006, 1:29 pm: Trust me...this is no coincidence. When you told her that you you started like this guy old feelings started bubbling inside of her. She probably got jealous that he might have actually liked you back. She just wants to prove a point, to herself, that she can get him back at anytime if she really wanted to. It seems that this girl just goes out with guys to mess with their head especially since she broke up with her boyfirend just to get back with an ex only after you told her how you felt. As for the guy that you liked ...what he did isn't right. But old things die hard. Maybe he wanted to give her a second chance because their previouse relationship had unfinished business to it. give everything time. Im sure there plenty of other guys at your school to pick from and I'm sure that a couple probably like you too. Just be open to new people...you never know what could happen! [ nvme119's advice column | Ask nvme119 A Question ]
Courtney answered Friday January 27 2006, 10:52 am: Forget her. Just get to him before she does. You have to. Or when they break up this time, get to him quick and remind him of how betraying she is. Get him before she does. At least try. [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
whabit answered Friday January 27 2006, 2:09 am: Hi there! I think she did it on perpous, maybe she relised she has feelings for him when someone else wanted him... mmm... Keep talking to the guy and kindoff flirt with him but don't be to obvious, smile alot in his company and laught at his jokes, talk about things he likes... just be a really great friend maybe he will start to like you more than her! Its likely that she will not go out with him for very long (as you said, she broke up with him twice in 2 weeks and she dated the whole sports team, that means she's not one for long relationships)
Teza answered Friday January 27 2006, 12:03 am: It was certanly not a coinsidence (sp). No one can change their feelings 100% in a day. She defenetly got jelous of you and she wanted to win him over. I think that was the rudest thing anyone could do. Don't belive that she is a slut because that's just people talking and you don't know that for sure. Right now, stay out of it. Still talk to him and everything, but don't trust her. Pretend that you don't care and that you don't like him anymore and then see what happens. She will probablly break up with him again. I hate these types of girls.. it's so desprate and lame. The guy is messed up too because he was telling you all bull about her and now he's going back out with her?.. wow. Pathetic. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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