Would any of you agree with "a drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts"?
The other night, my friend, who had had a few, told me he liked me, he thinks it can work between us, even that im the girl he sees himself marrying. The next day I asked him about it. I asked if he remembered what he said and he said yes. So I asked him if he meant it, and he said yes. I really like him. but im scared to take it any further because I don't know it its true.
Teza answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 7:11 pm: I think that you should belive him. He knows what he is talking about. If you like him go for it. You wont regret it. You should just take the chance. If it doesnt work out you could always be friends! Good luck babe! [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
rikatree2375 answered Monday August 1 2005, 10:53 pm: First of all, really get to know this guy while he's sober!!! If there's any doubts then it can't hurt to really find out what this guy is like. There's a good chance he probably does like you since he remembered and all. So just talk to him and get to know him and it'll work out!!!
nvme119 answered Sunday July 31 2005, 8:15 pm: I think your friend genuinely likes you. Especially if he admitted to remembering he told you the next day. If he didn't like you he could have easily said he didn't remember or that he was soo drunk he was just saying shit. I say go for it! You never know what can happen between you two. It's better to know than to regret not going out with him and wondering what could have happened. And since you like him that gives you all the more meaning to work things out with him. Good Luck and tell me how it goes!!! :) [ nvme119's advice column | Ask nvme119 A Question ]
ncblondie answered Sunday July 31 2005, 7:02 pm: Since he says he feels the same way now that he's sober, I would think his feelings are true. Just take it slow to make sure he really means it. [ ncblondie's advice column | Ask ncblondie A Question ]
Punk*Rock*Prep99 answered Sunday July 31 2005, 6:35 pm: I totally agree with it. Think about it, doesn't it make sense? A sober mans thoughts are brought out when drunk, because all the care of what other people think, just goes away because he is wasted. But of course he remembered, and he couldnt deny it because it was the honest truth and he truly cares for you.
And I would go for it. But I have to agree with another answer, if you are still in your teens, then, well you might want to wait a while. But if you are around the age where you get married, just be calm and make sure you don't make yourself like him just because he likes you.
tuttcutie answered Sunday July 31 2005, 5:42 pm: Well, first of all, he probably was telling the truth about liking you cuz yeah, sometimes people will say the truth abuot something that they wouldn't have said. So ya, I agree that he probably likes you.
Now, with the whole ,marrying you thing, um, if dyou're like still in your teens, tellhim WAY out of the question. ok. you can tell him that you like him, but that you don't want to be all, IO so wnat to marry you unless you really do, but still, if you r in your early teens, or even in your teens, yall can just be boyfriend girl firend for like eternity, and yall don't have to go serious to the max. Hope this helps Rate highy. [ tuttcutie's advice column | Ask tuttcutie A Question ]
icey0990 answered Sunday July 31 2005, 4:56 pm: in my experiences, i agree with that quote. im not saying its always like that..but to me it seems that "a drunk mans words are a sober mans thoughts"
You say you really like him? He said the next day he likes you so this is a goodd sign. take things slow if you want..go on a couple group dates ..hang out with him..and see whre it goes..then after that if things are going well and he seems to like you, go out with him
i hope i helped out
-melissa- :) [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
anne_givings answered Sunday July 31 2005, 4:49 pm: if you really like him then dont be scared cause he probably wouldnt say he liked you that much if he didnt mean it. take a chance, live a little!
<3<3 anne givings [ anne_givings's advice column | Ask anne_givings A Question ]
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