ok, this might seem a bit confuseing but here it goes. Ok me and this guy Brian and his mom and my mom were hanging out by the pool. Brian is 17 by the way. When we first got there Brian asked me how old i was. And I told him i was 13. Then after a while of talking and swimming. He comes and sits beside me while our moms are gone to get something to eat. Right out of nowhere he says " Well what do u think about me?" Then I got so imbarassed and told him what I thought. He kept going on and on and on about how he would kick his youger sisters ass if she botherd me ( who is in my grade). Then after a few minutes he comes and sits beside me again and says " You know what?" " I can spoil you." I looked at him and said " Oh yea, I bet you can" Then he goes " I can give you a missage and that will spoil you." I loked at him funny and said " I don't think so "
Does he like me. ( plz ezcuse the messed up spelling and crap.) I rate high 4 good answers!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? nvme119 answered Saturday July 30 2005, 12:58 am: Okay...I don't think he likes you the way you think he might. But I DONT think that he is trying to take advantage of you either. I just think that he was trying to have fun with you and flirt with you that's all. People tend to flirt with other people just for the hell of it. But you never know I might be wrong, if you end up finding out later that he does like you then I think that you should definately go for it. He is older than you but sometimes relationships work even with the age difference. [ nvme119's advice column | Ask nvme119 A Question ]
lyDia_LoU answered Saturday July 30 2005, 12:06 am: Okay well honestly, he doesn't like you in the way that you hope he likes you. Um.. it's like this.. you're young and inexperienced and he's not. He may want to take advantage of you. At this time in both of your lives it's not normal to have a 4 year age difference. 4 years is a lot when you're a teen. He will most likely use you. Of course, maybe you want that. Then that's your choice. But I highly doubt he's looking at you hoping for a mature relationship that will last more then a couple weeks. I recomend you find someone worthy of you, in your grade or even just a grade older then you. Good luck!
hckypuck answered Thursday July 28 2005, 7:35 pm: unfortunately he sounds like he wants to use you. just to get some. guys who come on that quick are not good guys .. for future reference . if you talk to him again just become friends. nothing more. if you do your taking a high risk of getting hurt. hes 17 ... wut would a 17 year old guy wanna do with a 13 year old girl ... hmmm ::ponders:: yea hes no good ..
karenR answered Thursday July 28 2005, 7:11 pm: I think he might like you. Hes a little old for you I think (next year when he turns 18 he could get in trouble for dating a minor) but yes I think it seems he likes you! :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
X0C0URT answered Thursday July 28 2005, 3:19 pm: He sounds like a loser who can't get any girls his own age. Really, he seems like a creep. Maybe he is interested in you but you shouldn't be interested him. If you need to, tell your mom what he said so she will know that he shouldn't be around you anymore.
crazyoutyamind answered Thursday July 28 2005, 2:12 pm: it sounds like he likes you but i think he just wants to get down your pants so be carful around him and if he makes anymore comments you should tell someone well hope i helped and if you have ne more questions just drop em in my inbox
-kelly [ crazyoutyamind's advice column | Ask crazyoutyamind A Question ]
vickiooos answered Thursday July 28 2005, 1:26 pm: i think he does like you but for the wrong reasons. if he said, "i can spoil you" in a joking tone then yeah, it's just harmless flirting. but if he was acutually being serious, then step away from the child rapist. seriously-- this guy's moves are old and rusty and he thinks it'll be easier to to get some action since you're 13. i might be wrong, but from what you've told me and a whole year's experience of liiking 17 year old guys, i'd say he's trying to get to know you on a different level, if you catch my drift. [ vickiooos's advice column | Ask vickiooos A Question ]
xOxPr3PxOx answered Thursday July 28 2005, 1:21 pm: it really does sound like it...hang out with him more and maybe you can be more than friends...i thiink he has a little crush on u ;) good luck! [ xOxPr3PxOx's advice column | Ask xOxPr3PxOx A Question ]
mkanaspiration answered Thursday July 28 2005, 1:20 pm: yes! ofcourse girl he likes you ALOT! haha it doesnt matter if hes 17 and your 13. age doesnt matter. when he saying he wants to give you a massage hes saying he wants to touch you and he likes you.
TheOldOne answered Thursday July 28 2005, 12:48 pm: I'm sorry to have to tell you this, but he's seventeen. You're thirteen. He was flirting with you. So yes, he "likes" you - that is, he thinks you're cute and he wants to get intimate with you.
But he's seventeen, and you're THIRTEEN. So what he was doing was totally wrong. And creepy. You're too young for that stuff - please believe me, it's really true. And what's more, he could be arrested for statutory rape if he DID get intimate with you.
Worse, you could end up pregnant. Right now, I'm sure that doesn't seem real to you. I probably sound like your mother, or like a teacher, or like those boring movies of the week on TV that are always telling you how to live your life.
But it's true: at thirteen, you probably have the physical equipment to get pregnant. Your *mind*, though, really isn't ready. You're still growing, still developing both physically and mentally. Right now, you're halfway between being a child and being a woman.
So PLEASE wait. You'll really be happier if you do, I *promise*.
SoInToYoUx0x answered Thursday July 28 2005, 12:44 pm: when people are going to answer this question they will probably tell you not to go out with him because he is 17 but i think he does like you but if i were u i would be VERY carefull between only being friends and going out wit him.. i think you should first become friends with him then maybe hook up if you still like him.. most 17 year olds only think about sex and wanting more then what you want to give them.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~* [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
LoveNJstyle answered Thursday July 28 2005, 12:43 pm: hmm that is a bit confusing. i think he is interested but not for the reasons you want him to be interested for. but thats just from the one quote from him i have... the massage thing. you are a bit young and he could take advantage of you so careful but i do think he likes you. hpe this helps! <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Thursday July 28 2005, 12:42 pm: hahaha, yessss.. it definitely SEEMS like he likes you. However, if YOU don't even know him well, how should WE know what he's like, ya know? Perhaps he could treat all girls that way? I guess for now soak it up, have fun.. and see what becomes of it. :D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
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