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he has a big penis
ok well here it goes
i'm 16 female
and i've had sex w/ about 5 guys, yea sounds sluty but o well, well this guy that i'm "sleeping w/" has a pretty good size dick, in the thickness and length, but my problem is, that when we have sex it hurts REALLY BAD, i mean yes he fingers me before hand and all the other stuff to losen me up, but it still hurts, we have had sex only twice, and i figured the second time wouldn't hurt as bad, but it about killed me, and it still hurts even the next day.
so the question is
what is the best thing that i can do, so it want hurt the next time we have sex?
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Maybe the size of his dick isn't the problem. Maybe he just pushes to hard against you while you are having sex. You should try telling him to not be so hard on you. If it still hurts then I'm sorry... I dont'w know what else you can do.
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Take it slowly or try a position with you on top.
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well use a dildo that is as big if not bigger than him that way you are loose and are used to it. but also tell him to take it slow
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i've heard the "cowgirl" position is good for loosing you up because it allows the girl to control the intake so she can slowly work it in rather than the guy just jammin away
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um not trying to sound rude but EEEWWWWW !your 16 you have that rest of your life a head of you your ganna get pregnatte and thats not good.try a diffrent posittion or useing a dildo
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use a lubricant like ky jelly
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To loosen it up more, then use a Dildo that is big enought to loosen it up even more.
Hopefully my advice works.
BlesSes
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Wow! This guy must be big huh?! lol well thats always a good thing! I cant reasure you that it wont hurt again...but I bet it feels good both ways! Just have him finger you alot more and maybe ask him to use more fingers so it loosens you up a bit more! The more you do the less it will hurt is all I can say! Good luck to ya! Hope i helped! Ooo one more thing....if your not scared to you can also try using a vibrator or dildo ..maybe those could help ya out too!
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