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painful sex
okay well; my boyfriend is.. over 8 inches. he's 17 and i'm 15. (.. he just turned 17) he was my first and we've only had sex twice.. (after over 6 months of dating.) and the first time wasn't so painful i guess.. but the second was a bitch. i'm not loose enough for him.. and he's not even going rough at all.. he's just way too big for me that the second time i had to make him stop. any help on this? i really want to pleasure him and myself.. but it just hurts really badly every time.
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1. You don't have to have sex to pleasure him.
2. He isn't getting you relaxed enough. It has nothing to do with the size. He isn't doing his job. The more relaxed you are, the better it feels.
3. It may be because you are so young to be having sex that you are focusing too much on the act itself, and not how you feel about him.
4. At least he is trying to be gentle, just tell him what feels good and that will help him help you.
5. Use a condom and birth control too if you have to do it. You really don't have to.
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ok..
oOo.. I know you just should try to loosen it up. With a dildo or something.
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- Soraa
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Awww sweety its ok!..its just your 2nd time. If you 2 have sex more often...it wont hurt as bad or as much.....&& ask him to finger you before you 2 have sex so he can loosen you up! But I'm sure everything will be fine! Dont worry too much! Good luck!!
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It helps if you go very slow. Making sure to take time for foreplay and time to get you lubricated will help too. Have him use his fingers to stretch you a little during foreplay. Make sure you're relaxed; take a soothing bath before if necessary. A position that allows you to control how deep he goes will help also. Try the cowgirl (woman-on-top or riding) position.
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