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my boyfriend's friend keeps hitting on me even tho he know im in a relationship with his close friend. the other day we were at this party and he pulled me up to this room and he raped me. he grabbed me and touched my body. im really scared and he hurt me. i feel strange. i couldnt do anything hes a football player and he held me down and i couldnt stop him. he shove something in my mouth so i couldnt scream. wut do i do?? i cant tell my boyfriend or he will kick the living shit out of him.the guy said if i tell anyone he will do it again. i know i can get some reasonable advice here.

HELP (link)
Go to the police. Now. Don't shower, don't change your clothes, ect. Go to the police and tell them the name of the person and demand to have a rape test done.

If this is too late, then you know for future reference.

I pray it's not too late andf I am sorry this couldn't be prevented, but this isnt a matter for you or your boyfriend to sort out. this boy who did this is a criminal and he commited and illegal act on YOUR BODY. Your body is yours, only yours, and no one has the right to treat it that way without your permission.

Also, you may want to look into counseling to see how you feel about this and explore why you think it happened to you and your feelings on the matter.

:)


ok i have this boyfriend his name is greg.. well he went on vacation with his family 2 puerto rico.. while he was gone i met this other guy ricky. ricky is rele sweet nd charming and we slept with each other at least 5 times. i dunno .. i don't feel the same with greg as i do with ricky.. ricky is wayy better in bed.. i ain't a slut or nothin.. well maybe i am but seriously what should i do? HELP i'll rate HIGH if you do `-MARIE (link)
stay with ricky.. cause a girl always needs a guy thats good in bed and if he's sweet and charmin' then that's a plus lol `♥//


i told my parents to f**k off and i got grounded for 2 weeks. do you think this is fair? because i was really pissed off.. i coulndt help it. lol. (link)
this is totally fair. i am 16 years old and i never told my parents to f**k off ... maybe that i was f**ked up but never that. your lucky that it's only 2 weeks.. with my parents it would be forever. try 2 hold your temper 4 now on.. `♥//


theres this gurl i ask out and we went out 4 a day we went out and she beoke up wit me the next day and i really liked her she said she want to get to know mw better and thisother girl ask me out do i wait o her to we can ghet to kknow each other or should i go out with the other girl who ask me out wat should i do????! reel confused! (link)
i am a girl so i would say that you should wait on the girl you liked first cuz if you dont then she will think you are a player and will get mad at you 4 a long time. anyway if you really like this girl than you already know the answer. think about it! if you go out with the other girl then the first girl will think you just wanted fool around but you wasnt serious and now that she doesnt wanna go as fast as you than you are ready to move on.thats what she will think. sorry its long.


My guy friend & I like eachother as more than friends. I'm a bit worried because it'll be my first relationship & I'm not sure what to expect. Can anyone fill me in? Thank you!

xO* bReE (link)
aww i remember my first relationship.. ahh memories..haha juss be yourself..i mean if he likes you for you then juss be you. it's gonna be so different at first & weird but you'll get used 2 it in a couple of weeks or a month. but other than that it's gonna be great.. gl `♥//


whaT DO you do if u hear your parents ummm..... doing it. they're like 48 and i think its wrong. They were both making sounds and i don't want to confront either one. please help me i dont no y but it bothers me.




ill rate high for good answers (link)
it bothers you cause u think about ur parents doing it.. don't next time juss sit back and watch tv , listen 2 music, or juss go outside or something.. `♥//


there is this girl.. n everytime some1 likes a guy.. she somehow takes him from the girl.. n she is doing it to me this time.. and I don't wanna let that happen! cause I realllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy like him and I have for a while.. what can I do to stop her? (link)
why don't u juss ask the guy out urself? or don't tell her you like him keep it a secret? you could always juss teach the bitch a lesson also that always works.. of course it could backfire lol `♥//


my dad is sooo annoying.. and he is soo strict.. and won't let me do anything hardly.. I always have to go to my mom... what can I do to try and get him to calm down.. cause he is mad all the time.. and what can I do to let me do stuff more? (link)
ha seems like my dad and your dad should hang out sometime.. lol ok like my dad is exactly the same what i did that help me improve his trust with me is 2 have him talk 2 your friends parents/guardians before going out, also tell him what you will be doing.. who your going with.. why your going... ect. try to show him your responsible and that he can trust you out on your own with friends. he could always check in with a cell fone sometimes juss 2 make sure your with him.. so yeaah juss be responsible `♥//


i just got a bird and i dont know what to do with it? I NEED HELP?!?!? can u help me?
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uhhhhh u give it a cracker


Sitting around, watching TV
Looking for something to do
When all of a sudden a commercial comes on
And says, "Hey! Go to the zoo!"

So me and my friends, we piled in the car
Didn't have much gas, good thing we didn't have to go too far
Didn't have to go too far

First thing's first, we got some ice cream
And then we headed over to tease the monkeys
Stook my tongue out and made the monkey frown
Trying to be cool with my friends around

Well I guess he had enough of me
'Cause when I turned my head that little monkey stole my ice cream
That little monkey stole my ice cream and everybody laughed at me

That little monkey stole my ice cream
And everybody made fun of me
That little monkey made a monkey out of me

As the day came to an end
We walked right by the monkey again
Then as he was swinging from tree to tree
I swear that monkey was laughing at me!

Don't monkey with a monkey
Don't monkey with a monkey
Don't monkey with a monkey
Don't monkey with a monkey
That little monkey made a monkey out of me
That little monkey made a monkey out of me

Don't monkey with a monkey
Don't monkey with a monkey
Don't monkey with a monkey
That little monkey made a monkey out of me! (link)
hahahahha melissa!! i remember that! cant wait to go to the movies with u payne and tori tommaro!


My dad died when I was ten and I acted wierd. I didn't cry very much at all. I only cried once or twice. Now I'm 13 and I don't cry about it still. It makes me feel guilty, and I don't know why I can't cry. It also makes me mad because everybody thinks I'm over it, but I'm really not. The last time I cryed about it was last night. But the wierd thing is, is about a month ago I whent to these family riunons, and just started crying for no reason. So here is my question: Am I a freak because I don't cry, and how can I make it so that I don't have the sudden outbursts? Can you help? (link)
aw your juss like me... sorta lol. you shouldn't feel guilty because youu were young then i mean seriuosly you prolly didn't understand.. when my grandpa died i was like 9 and i feel guilty 2day b/c at his funeral i was laughing and having a great time w/ my cuz's.. i didn't understand and you prolly dont either. and i have outbursts 2 b/c of when i have problems like when i rele do cry i don't i hold it back and then i juss outbreak maybe it's the same with you? well i hope i helped if not sorry i tryed.. `♥//


my boyfriend's friend keeps hitting on me even tho he know im in a relationship with his close friend. the other day we were at this party and he pulled me up to this room and he raped me. he grabbed me and touched my body. im really scared and he hurt me. i feel strange. i couldnt do anything hes a football player and he held me down and i couldnt stop him. he shove something in my mouth so i couldnt scream. wut do i do?? i cant tell my boyfriend or he will kick the living shit out of him.the guy said if i tell anyone he will do it again. i know i can get some reasonable advice here.

HELP (link)
you rele need 2 tell somebody.. rape is rele serious. i mean i think you should tell your parents and call the police this guy is sick. & your boyfriend is prolly gonna find out at least once b4 so i suggest that you should tell him even tho your nervous i think he has the right 2 kno if you get hurt, you trust each other and he is your boyfriend he can help with the situation. `♥//


i dont no what to do anymore im obssesed with my diet and when i eat something bad i get depresessd i work out everyday and i keep thinking that im fat im 5'0, 120 pounds is that big? all my friends tell me im crazy and cant be artound me anymore help! (link)
well first of all your healthy.. your bmi -body mass index- is 23 that means your healthy. maybe your friends dont wanna be around you anymore because you say your so fat when your rele not.. i mean when people who aren't even fat and say 'omg i'm so fat look at me' i juss wanna slap 'em cuz they ain't fat it's annoying.. i suggest that you stop calling yourself fat because your are healthy and i also suggest if you do wanna become healthier not thinner juss stop eating all the bad things.. hope that helped `♥//


my brother is 17 and he just came out. i mean he told us he was gay. im shocked and i dont know what to do because me and him are close but i feel okward now. im having a hard time accepting this. what do i do? (link)
he's juss gay.. i mean i kno it's kinda ackward and all but he's still the same person before you didn't kno he was gay.. so i would try and talk 2 him about it or juss try 2 accept it `♥//


I found a treadmill online, but it says its manual. Whats the difference between manual and non manual treadmills? And what are the price ranges?

Thanks. (link)
I believe a manual one is where you are the one controlling the speed of it, using your legs. So, if you're not on it, it never moves. A non manual one is when you press a button to set the speed and it will move whether you're on it or not. My mom got her treadmill for $250 but that was 5 years ago [it's a manual].
Anyways,
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AHHHHHHHHHH help pleease i put on that fake tanner crap yesterday and today it looks so gross it's all blotchy and stuff so is there anything taht i can use to take it off or not make it as noticeable! i dont want to ask my mom cause i wasn't suposed to use it without asking

thanks,
meagan (link)
That happened to me last week. I just put some peroxide on an old washcloth, and wiped the areas where it was really blotchy. Don't press hard, and it will turn out to be a nice tan, without the blotches.

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Ok, I'm 100% Serious about this, this is to all the girls... do chicks prefer guys who are

A> Not shaven or trimmed downstairs
B> Shaven Mostly with lil hair remaning
C> Trimmed to a shortish level but not shaven
D> Shaven And trimmed with little hair remaning
E> Completely Shaven

Thanks for your answers ladies >.> (link)
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ok, i want to get into really good shape for the upcoming school year because i plan on working out hard over the course of the year. im trying to get my stomach to get really flat and its not working. i do sit ups every single day and i do a total of at least 4500 in a week. i stretch everyday too and i go on walks as often as possible, probably a few times a week. i swim twice or three times a week too but nothing seems to have any affect on my body. any advice? plz help! i rate high for any reasonable answer (link)
there is only 2 things that could be wrong either you are not eating right or you are stressed out. cuz this is happening to me. i work out hard and try to eat right but i never seem to lose any weight. then i say a comercial and it said that people can also gain weight by stress because of this type of hormone. but anyway keep up the great work.


i have a pimple and it is bugging me like it bugs most people but is there any way i can make it go away or get smaller by tomorrow? would putting toothpaste on it overnight help? (link)
my sister put toothpaste on her's and it burned them and left a perminent scar so DONT DO THAT!!! but i realy dont know what works for real cuz what really works these days anyway?


i was best friends with these 2 girls for 4 years. A couple of weeks ago i decided we shouldnt be best friends anymore. I was always the one being left out and i was jsut fed up of feeling that way so i told them that i just wanted to be friends, Now im regretting that i said that and do want to be their best friend again but i feel like if i do i will just feel the same as i used to be and be treated like JUST A FRIEND. please help me, what do you think i should do? sorry its long
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hey! this happened to me when we were still in school. the best thing to do is tell them how you feel and try to work it out. if things dont change then just stay friends but dont call,talk, or hang out with them as much as you wanted and use to cuz if you do then it will seem like you are desprite! your 2 friends kinda sound like my old friends and i just had to stop being there friends cuz they both hung out with me when is was just me and one of them but when they were 2gether i didnt exist.




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