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My cousin julie is coming over in a few weeks and we are planing on having, well lets say fun. I have allready had fun, but i want my friends to do it. Alex is def. coming to try it, and i really want krissy to come, but i also want ina to come try it. Ina usually tells her cousin everything, and krissy dosnt want he cousin knowing about this. so krissy said if ina gos, she wont. SO i dont know if i should let just krissy go, or just ina go...Krissy said its fine if i let ina go and not her, but im going to feel bad... please help me choose which one i should choose. XOXO thanks!
-Rachel (link)
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ok this whole thing is confusing but if i were you id invite the closer friend or the person you trust the most maybe you should invite krissy if you really want her to go idk
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i need help!!! i am 14 and i am having a baby and my mom is really strict...should i tell her about it? hide it from her? what do i do!!! help me! i rate high!!! (link)
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how far are you into your pregnancy...my mom is really strict to and she has always told me that if i ever got pregnant to tell her she maybe mad at first but she will help you...the best thing i would do is tell her...and just be ready for the consequences...i dont know you and i dont know your mom so i cant say how she will react but all i am going to say is tell her and i will pray for you...just whatever you do dont run away..
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okay theres this boy and his name is chuckie he is so mean to me when my mom isn't around then when I trie to tell my mom what he did she never beleives me or takes up for him like yesturday his older brother was just playing the computer and chuckie came up and slapped him across the back I told my mom and she let him go with it I am sick of this and I need some help on how I can get this kid to stop lieing to my mom and getting my mom to beleive him oh and yesturday he hit my sister really hard for no reason and always buds in on my sisters phone calls and messes with are stuff if we tell him to stop he will get mad and some times hit us or grab us around the neck and I cant set rules because he is older then me so please help I will rate high for good answers / or serious please answer and answer quickly (link)
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my brothers like that from time to time the best thing to do is tell your mom hes lieing to her and maybe if you have a video camera you can hide it in a room or you can have your sister prove he is doing by her being in the roomm too...tell your brother to stop and that its hurting you seeing this.....tell him this is abuse and its not funny anymore
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So I am at school right now and I just found out people have been talking about me and my friend going out, but she is a girl. I am not bisexual nor am I a lesbian. People are starting rumors and they dont even know me. I am new at this school and I dont know how to cope with it. Lately everyone has been acting like they dont want me here. I've just came for advice on what I should do because right now no one will listen to me. I've tried about everything to just get friend, but I will never change who I am. I know my sexuality and I know I am straight. I wouldn't say I'm not something if I really was. I mean ever since someone started that rumor people will come up to me and ask me if I am a lesbian! It is irritating. Holyoke has been the worst ever since i moved here.Everyone who knows me is back in chicopee, and I just miss everything and the way things used to be. (link)
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Ignore them...people will always be mean if life so you just get over it and its perfectly fine to be dating someone of the same sex but maybe if you know you are straight than tell her...but tell her you still want to be friends but you just dont want to date her right now or you can tell the people at ur school how it hurts your feelings
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How can I be sure that I am ready for sex? I want it, but im scared. So how will i know? (link)
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if you are scared than you arent ready and if you really like this person and know you will be together no matter what than follow your heart but the best thing to do before having sex is get tested for aids/hiv because you definately dont want tht
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i have a problem. for awhile my vagina has been very itchy. and i'm only 13. what is it? (link)
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it could be if you wear tampons or have had your period and they are scented....you could be allergic but it may help if you buy new underwear or a bigger pair
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My mother has been getting on my nerves since i was 7 years old. She judges me, yells at me, swears at me, makes fun of me, and flat out makes me sick. I even started to cut myself because of her, but i eventually stopped after 1 year because my friends helped me out. But i cannot take it anymore. My dad & I are bestfriends, i tell him everything, but i dont tell him about my mother. Just because i dont want them to split up or anything. What can i do to make my mom shutup? Plus, i have many brothers, she loves them, talks to them, hugs them, and compliments them. Its just plain sick. Im sick of her act shes pulling agaisnt her ONLY DAUGHTER. Sometimes i do NOTHING and she says, oh god i wish i had another son. I havent told anyone about this, but all my friends know how she is, and i have always hated her. I see all my close friends spending time with thier moms and having close relationships. I run to my friends house to get away sometimes or just sit outside. Even this past mother's day i bought her a card & flowers, she threw the flowers away. What should i do?
Sincerely, Tired Of This. 13/F (link)
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You should never hate her but you can dislike her....tell your mom how u fell and that it bothers you with the things she says or does....talking to your mom is the best thing you can do right now and i know how u feel kinda my mom is always yellin and swearing and bitching about everything but i think my moms going through menapause maybe yours is too
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er... well. here goes.
theres a guy I like. He goes to my school. Is in my grade, two of my classes, ect. ect.
I talk to him on AIM, we kinda talk at school, and best of all, he doesn't think I'm fat. (long story. Let's just say I wasn't eating anything and my friends are odd)
But, he knows I like him, and doesn't like me back. He's told me multiple times. (again, my friends are odd) But lately, he's been acting like I'm okay. Usually he acts like he hates me. He even IMed me first on AIM (I know its odd, but hey, I guess I blend in with my friends) which is like, a first. Ever. We've been able to talk more, and we're getting along pretty well.
The bad side is, well, I've liked him for so long, now that he's finally maybe liking me, I don't feel exactly the same. I'm in this odd stage where, I do and don't like him. I mean, he's hurt me so much, but I feel like I love him. I can't control my feelings.
So what I want to know is:
Do you think he likes me?
What should I do if he asks me out?
and
Should I take action?(ME asking him out)
I have NO idea what to do.
(13/f) (link)
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if he asks you out and you really like him alot say yes...He might just like you as a friend and he might want to get to know you....dont ask him out first whatever you do just wait until he says it first or unless you want to ask him out well than go for it and ur young and there are so many more guys out there
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okay so theres this guy that goes to a different school. hes best friends with a lot of my close girl friends but ive only met him about 4 times. i talk to him online all the time and just recently he started liking me. he asked me to go ice skating with him and i accepted. now i'm scared of rushing things too fast and i always have. i'm scared to hold a guys hand and i dont know what to do if he tries to kiss me. please help! I am a 13 year old female! (link)
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its ok...if you dont like this guy you can just say i dont want to ruin our friendship because relationships can do that and if u arent comfortable holding hands or kissing than tell him you arent ready yet
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i can't call boys and he won't call me wut should i do????? (link)
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is he your boyfriend....it might be easier if you talk to him on the internet or in person because some people just cant call boys and its perfectly normal just give it time
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i love my dog to death but she can really piss me off. it then pisses my whole family off. but my dog hurts my majorly like she scratches me, ruins my hw, etc! wut can i do to calm her down? (link)
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my dog is the exact same way and you cant really calm them down but the older they get the more they start relaxing for instance my dog is 4 and the most add dog ull ever meet
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is there any way you can determine when you have your period when youve had it for a year? (link)
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yes...unless you are stressed one month and it may come early but your period is normally every 28 days or so
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hey well i get hot in the car and when i do i freak out and my mom is trying to talk to me when i am freaked out and i get all mad at her and she dont talk to me...she wants to take me to our phycologist and i dont want to.. what do i have?? is this a mental problem?? (link)
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i always get hott in small spaces like a car.. trying putting the air conditioner on or roll down the window. i don't think it's mental but it rele wouldn't hurt if you went 2 you phycologist because i'm not a professional .. something might be wrong and if their is they can help you. but i doubt that u just get parannoyed and it's normal. `♥//
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I've been with my girlfriend for over 18 months. I'm 19 and female and i just transfered schools. She's 18 and is just going in to college. We're only going to be about an hour apart, but for some reason she thinks she's going to get her heart broken. I keep telling her that we will have to work together to make it work, but for some reason she doesn't think so. Is it possible that she wants out? Can our relationship survive while we're in college? (link)
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she probably got hurt before and knows how it feels and doesn't wanna experiance that again. maybe if you guys try and work out the weekends to see each other then you guys can be with eachother more and she'll probably change her mind. Think of ways 2 try and be closer 2 her `♥//
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OK..I ALWAYS go to bed late. If I try to go to bed early, i still don't go to bed until about
3-4AM. I've tried not to stay on the computer and tried to clear my mind and everything and i still cant sleep. After that i have a tendancy to wake up a tiny bit late (10-11 AM)..And i mean a couple times i may get to bed if I'm lucky around 1AM..i dont know what to do and my mom just thinks that i stay up on purpose so she doesnt wanna help me..what do you thinks wrong?? is there anything to prevent this from happening anymore?? thanks!!! (link)
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well you could try using sleeping pills it might work. try going to bed late and making yourself wake up real early then being tired all day go 2 sleep around the time you want 2 and then you'll be refreshed in the morning. you could always juss try going 2 bed without watching tv or listening 2 music it might be a distraction although watch a boring movie and try falling asleep by that..ect. `♥//
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I am 14 years old and I am self-conscience about my breast size. Is there anything that I can do to reduce my breast size? (link)
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Sadly, no. You're still growing, but as you develop more, you may find your body curving to suit your chest. Being fourteen and relatively young in the development process, you may feel extremely self concious about your chest, but your body could soon catch up.
If you're still uncomfortable with your bust size, there are minimizing bras and the like, but you need to find a good, non painful one. victoria's secret, although expensive, has good, well made ones and people to help you figure your size and comfort needs.
Above all, treat your body well. It's completely yours, and yours forever. Love it! Embrace what you don't like, and concentrate on what you do like. It sounds difficult, but try thinking one good thing about yourself everyday to start off...and soon you'll realize you have so many good qualities, that your "lesser" qualities aren't so bad!
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I work my abs a lot, and I definitely have a 6 pack underneath my stubborn belly fat. Im a normal weight for my age and height, Im 14/f/5'5" and 129 lbs. I'm a little chubby in my lower stomach and I dont know how do get rid of it and let my abs show. I can feel the muscles underneath but i cant see them. I'll rate high (link)
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Females have a small layer of fat in the lower abdomen to protect the ovaries. That's one of the reasons flat up and down models are so unhealthy...they have little or nothing protecting their organs, especially the sensitive repoductive organs.
This may just be an age thing, too. Youre strong throughout your torso, but it may take a day week month year for the belly chub to come off, which sucks, but is one of the benefits of growing up. :)
Sorry there's no quicker fix, but keep exercising and it'll help your whole body and you feel better, regardless of if you can see the muscles.
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hey, so okay when you want to put a picture from a photofbucket or something on a website like myspace whats the code you put before and after the site... its some thing like " img//" haha i have no idea please help i rate highhhh (link)
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to put a pic of someting on myspace you use the code ` < img src="PIC URL" > (take away the spaces) ..or if you use photobucket it's the 2nd thing underneath the pic i think lol `♥//
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every girl i like doesnt like me back...they say they just like me as a friend...and i really need a girlfriend i just dotn know what to do...is there somethin im doin wrong...? (link)
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your doing nothing wrong.. it's just that you haven't found that speacial someone who feels the same way about you as you do of them. just give it time and you'll get a girlfriend `♥//
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does anyone think its bad to bring your bible to school or stuff like that? I mean my friend does and i want to but am scared someone might hurt me because of it! but i really LOVE god and want to like spread him with people but am scared to! thanks! (link)
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I'm glad you're comfortable in your faith. I often bring a Bible to school, because I run a Bible study. bring it if you wish, but don't flash it around, shove it in others faces, or reading aloud from it. Many schools and or states have laws against you preaching, but you may quietly read it or start a club after school to discuss and learn from the Bible, but go through your proper school channels to do this.
You are legally allowed to carry your Bible, and as long as you do it quietly and unobtrusively, you will not be harrassed for it.
As for spreading God, well, if you're evangelizing in school, there are legal repercussions depending on how you do it, and it's, frankly, rude. If you came up to me and told me about Jesus, I'd tell you to shove off, because it's school, not Sunday school or Church. I'd suggest starting a Bible Study or Christian Group after school to help you feel as if you've spread the Lord's word, but going to random people or reading from the Bible, or passing out flyers, whatever, will not help you, I can guarentee you.
Disclaimer-Kelsabelsa is against all forms of evangelism and only wishes to help make the more unuobtrusive.
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