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I've been with my girlfriend for over 18 months. I'm 19 and female and i just transfered schools. She's 18 and is just going in to college. We're only going to be about an hour apart, but for some reason she thinks she's going to get her heart broken. I keep telling her that we will have to work together to make it work, but for some reason she doesn't think so. Is it possible that she wants out? Can our relationship survive while we're in college? (link)
If you make it survive then you can. Make sure to visit alot, chat on aol, or call on the phone. Write to each other, but don't get nasty. Keep the conversation flowing and smooth, so that she won't get scared off.

KenniSki10


I was just wondering if anyone knew...
during most one-person shows at the just for laughs festival, is there an intermission? this may sound like a really stupid question, but i'd appreciate answers! thanks in advance! (link)
Take part in the boring part so you won't have to pay intermission


I have this ex-girlfriend, ok? And see what happened is she just broke up with the guy that she broke up with me for. And I'm kinda worried that she might try to go back out with me just because I'm their and I'm familiar. Plus we also were lightly flirting last time we were together, which was about a month ago so I think I'm safe. What should I do to let her know, without a doubt, that I won't get back with her now, but do it lightly so it's not really noticeable? (link)
Well you don't even know if she WANTS to get back with you. So don't assume anything. If she starts to heavily flirt, and get intimite, then just tell her that SHE was the one that broke up with YOU and that you guys are over.

KenniSki10


My cousin julie is coming over in a few weeks and we are planing on having, well lets say fun. I have allready had fun, but i want my friends to do it. Alex is def. coming to try it, and i really want krissy to come, but i also want ina to come try it. Ina usually tells her cousin everything, and krissy dosnt want he cousin knowing about this. so krissy said if ina gos, she wont. SO i dont know if i should let just krissy go, or just ina go...Krissy said its fine if i let ina go and not her, but im going to feel bad... please help me choose which one i should choose. XOXO thanks!
-Rachel (link)
What are you talking about? Bring the friend you trust most


I wanna dye my hair pink, but not permanent maybe like a week, or sumthing, but not more than 2 weeks. How can I do it? I mean like where can i find the dye? or can i do in naturally? with like with stuff i hav from my house? i heard coolaide (sp) works or sumthin! I hav dark brown hair, please help?1 thnx (link)
Go to your hair cuttery place, and ask them for Pink Hair Dye!


KenniSki10


my parents are so over protective. im 13 and they wont even let me jog aroung my block or go to the mall with a friend it gets on my nerves cause my dad always bring up these stories of about these 25 yr olds who get kidnapped raped and killed i told him to sign me up 4 self defense if hes so paranoied but he just gets mad he wont listen. Please help @ this rate i will be a prisoner without freedom and locked away in a tower at age 45.




thanks ill rate high! (link)
LoL. You sound really funny. Still, you should chat with your dad and your parents, about how you feel. If you've already tried that, ask them WHEN you will be able to. Make a deal with them, if you can go to the mall by yourself, then if nothing bad happens, you will be alowd to. Same deal with everything else.

Hope I Helped---

KenniSki10


i REALLY want to move back to the place i used to live. I want to so bad,the people here are mean/snobs [[some..and they leave you out]] I've been in this new town for a year..and i hate it..i hate the way i am now. I just want to move back to my old city,how can i talk my mom into moving back? [[my brother wants to move back as well]] (link)
Sit down with your mom, and your brother, and talk about it. Talk to your mom about moving back, and I don't know why you moved [ur moms job, relatives, etc.] but if she finally can agree, then it will all work out! List the reasons why your brother and you want to move back to your old city, and how it changed you and your lifestyle when you moved.

~~Hope I Helped~~
KenniSki10


Me and my friend Jay have been very close friends since the 8th grade. We are Juniors in highschool now, and in the beginning of last year he became very attractive. I developed a crush on him, and recently it's become really intense. We've expressed some intress in one another, he used to like me at one point this year, and vice versa, but neither of us told eachother. (i found out from my friend). I've been itching to tell him how i feel, because we hang out almost every day and i just feel it necessary. But last week he told me, unexpectedly that he likes my best friend, lindsay. They never hang out, and if they ever do, it's with me. She already has two guys that she's with and it would bad of me to say this, but she really is in some way a slut. I don't know what to do. I've built up all of these emotions for Jay, and now i really cannot tell him about it. When he told me about his crush on Linds, i acted a bit weirded out and he caught on a bit. Since then we havent hung out or talked. What should i do? (link)
Jay seems like a good guy. He liked you in one point of the year, so now all you have to do, is convince him that lindsey already has 2 guys liking her, which is true, and that you like him, and how much you mean to him, since you have developd a crush for Jay.

~~Hope I Helped~~
~*KenniSki10*~


ok 1 of my friends told me that his bestfriend liked me but when i called to ask him he started t ostuder & it took him about 2 min. to answers it & this is pretty much what he said " ummmmm i ahh didnt say that i umm think he was ahhhmm probly lien to you"so does that mean he likes me or something. (link)
he totally digs you!
no guy doesnt studder and be shy like that and doesn't like you!
he likes u!

kenniski10


ok so i saw ur column and you answer some good questions and your near my age, ok this is my problem~~~~~~ok my bf i think is cheating on meh, but i dont want to bring it up caus im afraid he will get mad at me for thinking that he would do that but i called his cell once and a girl answered and he lives with his dad and doesnt have a sister but when i heard her say hey i hung up and then started crying, and he never calls me alot anymore and we dont hangout as much but mabe thats cus he has a busy summer but it makes me so sad caus i love him and we have done stuff like kiss and and more then that and i dont want to loose the love of meh life (link)
Ok. Your boyfriend does sound like he's cheating on you, and I'm REALLY sorry to say that. Have you talked to him since the last time you called and hung up because you heard another girls' voice? If not, you need to call him, or see him, and talk to him. Let it out, what you feel, and see how he responds. If he starts to sweat, and look nervous, and look toward the ground, most likely, he's cheating on you. But you really need to talk it out with him, and get all the information.
Luv ya,
KenniSki10


Hey this is eric um my question is...... ok well im single how do i get girls to notice me??? (link)
Ok...Eric.
Girls love it when guys make them feel special. Like when you call them, hold their hand whenever, send them flowers just because, and other things like that. I don't know how you dress, but it doesn't really matter as long as your not a slick city guy. LoL. Well I hope it works out...Because i sure noticed you..;-)

Love,
KenniSki10


Heyy! I am a 14 year old girl
I have a MAJOR problem... I have a boyfriend of almost 5 months and we are really happy! He was my first kiss...let alone that but we haev madeout and french kissed! which sounds like alot but when you see how happy we are you could see why we have done that! The only problem is our parents dont know and we dont plan to tell them any time soon...both of us arent supposed to have a gf/bf until we are 16 or 17.... we are seriously meant for each other and he says he loves me and i love him...i haev never felt this way!
WHAT SHOULD I DO! I dont know if we shoudl tell our parents or just wait to tell them...what would you do???? any advice would be helpful!
thx (link)
dont tell ur parents until you think theyll take it ok and if they ask just be like o we are just really good friends telling the parents isnt smart at all


I'm not sure why, but latley I haven't been so happy lately. I mean I'm so sick of being me. I don't like my hair, im not as pretty as Miss popular. I dont dress as great as them and I've been alone alot latley cause none of my friends have been invitin me over anymore. I've been on a no sode low sugar diet and I lost my baby fat (im 13 and i weigh 105 lbs) so im noT like fat or anything but I somehow got off my diet and I just feel soo crappy I havent gotten back on. I hate me right now, what should I do? (link)
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Hi.
I have acne and whenever I wash my face, it feels tight and starts to get dry and sometimes flakey. What's this mean? Also if it helps I just started using this face wash. (link)
use different face soap and try using lotion after you wash your face cuz that will take all the dry tightness away


ok well theres these too guys i really like well actuly one is my boy friend and the other one has just been my friend for a Long ! time i no he likes me and i guess i kinda like him to but how do i break up with my boyfriend for the other guy and ? and is this all worth it to be with a clos friend ?

please help me !
f/il/--
*counfused* (link)
I've been in your exact same position and if i were you besides the fact to follow your heart make a list of twenty things or more that you like about each guy and than you can find out which one you like more and know more....when you break up with your boyfriend just be like ya know i dont think this is working out and that you just need time apart or tell him you dont feel the "chemistry" anymore.....it might be worth it to be with a close friend cuz than you know more about him but sometimes you can also know to much but sweetheart just go the way you want and if it doesnt work out there will always be other guys out there i promise


hey umm i no this sounds wrong, but i think i really like my cousin. i dont know what to do, i mean hes family and all and he lives like 6 hours away and i dont no if he would ever like me but what can i do? (link)
You like your cousin?? WOW! I used to like my cousin when I was 4 years old, and I don't know how old you are, but if you REALLY have feelings for this guy, then go with it, only if HE is ok with it!

kenniski10


This is kind of embarrassing, but I'm concerned that I'm not normal. What is the usual number of bowel movements a person should have per week?
Ag, Thank you! (link)
Like 3 maybe 2. How many are you having? If it's more then 4, See a doctor!

KenniSki10


whaT DO you do if u hear your parents ummm..... doing it. they're like 48 and i think its wrong. They were both making sounds and i don't want to confront either one. please help me i dont no y but it bothers me.




ill rate high for good answers (link)
Hey--My parents don't ever do that anymore...LoL not that i'm sure of, but I wouldn't confront them about it because maybe you would get in trouble and they might say you were eavsdropping (spying)

Hope I helped---
KenniSki10


look, theres this guy and i mean ive liked him a very long time and he really means a lot to me...i try to stop liking him because i know he messes around w/ these other girls that i dont like...that NO1 likes...but everytime im around him he puts me in this trap and like trys to find a way to hold my hand and stuff and its sweet...what does it mean? i mean we've discussed our liking each other b4 and he f'd things up last time so i told him to f off......but i know now that i really like him...again...and i dont know what to do...please help... (link)
My cousin has the same situation! Her name is Madison and his name is Aaron, and he does the EXACT SAME THING. She's going to keep being friends with the guy, even though he loves her. So keep being friends, but try not to be really intimite



I want to get close with people, but when it comes time to become intimate, I become very scared. I suppose I have some self-esteem issues about my body that contributes to that, but even after that, I'm still hesitant to go for it. I'm not talking about necessarily having sex here, I'm talking about even letting somebody touch me below the waist, or letting somebody see me naked. I'm sure i want to become intimate with somebody, but I'm very self-conscious.

Does anybody have anythign to say on this? (link)
Hi,

I know what your saying. One thing you should not do, if go around in chatrooms looking for sex craved maniacs, who want to see pics of women below their waist. You should find a guy who you can trust, and love, and touch and he can touch, without having sex!

KenniSki10




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