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Ok i broke up w/ my boyfriend like 4 days ago because he had sex w/ some other chick. Well his bestfriend and me were good friends. His best friend asked me out the next day and i said yes. I think part of the reason is just because i wanted to make my x jelous. Now i really miss my x. I think i still have feelings for him though is it to soon to be going out w/ anybody else.

I bet you do miss your x, as do y and z. It seriously isn't that hard to type ex.

Now to your question. Yeah, you just want a rebound boyfriend it sounds like. Don't continue on with your ex's friend. You're just going to hurt him, hurt your ex, and cause loads of drama and problems.

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I was just wondering..
Ive heard gross things about mcdonalds hamburger meat. Like I heard that they used to the cheeks of a cow for some of the meat. ew.
But does anyone know for sure what the meat is made of? ♥ Thanks!

Their meat is made of beef. There is nothing wrong with it except its overly greasy.

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right i think i like two guys and i can't pick between them they both told me they have feelings for me and they have both asked me out and because i could not pick i said no to them both. So heres the thing Jacks a muslim it will never be allowed by my mum if she found out she would go mad. James would be allowed its just i don't spend much time with james everyone says how cute me and james would be... but james just seems like he never wants to be with me in college. i am not sure what to do.someone help please. thank you.

Decide on which one is going to be a famous doctor, and which one is going to manage a McDonalds, and choose the doctor.

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Ugh, you have no idea how fed up I am with periods.. I get depressed because I get them. Basically my question is, is there any chance that I can make the flow a little less and is there any way I get rid of periods by surgery?? By like removing the eggs or something.. Please help!! I just want to die.. grr

Why don't you whine and bitch about it some more? Its part of life and you're just going to have to deal with it. You're only thirteen years old, you couldn't get a surgery even if you wanted to and had the money. Just tough it up.

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well there is this guy in my class, matthew, hes a goth. well he seems to always talk to me, and at lunch my group sits near his group, like 6 meters apart. and he sits with his girlfriend but he seems to look at me alot. can you give me some tips on how to tell if a guy likes you? does matthew like me?

Gothic kids are weird, they don't do anything like normal human beings. Just ignore his actions.

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How can you tell if someone is cheating on you without asking them?

Catch them in the act?

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well me and my boyfriend broke up 4 or 5 days ago, and I talked to him today and I mentioned that I am talking to a x bf of mine,and he didnt sound very happy, I asked him if he was ok he said yea....but he didnt sound like he wanted me to date another guy, when he broke up with me he told me from his heart that I was the hardest girl to break up with cause he really cared for me, and he barely has emotional feelings for girls but he was CRYING on the phone when he told me that he just wanted to be close friends.... can ya please give me some advice on if he still cares for me...

Well, sorry for your ex, but you guys aren't together. As much as he may not like it, you have every right to talk to other guys. He's either going to have to get over you, or just not be the friends he wants to be. He can care for you all he wants, but unless you want to get back with him, then its pointless. So yeah, let him know that you are your own person, and you can date if you want to.

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As dumb as this may sound, I didn't actually realize how horrible it is, when you eat chicken & hamburgers. I didn't actually understand the concept that for me to eat a hamburger, is for an innocent cow to just die. My friend sent me an e-mail with a video about fur trade in China, and how dogs & cats are skinned and killed everyday just for fur. But, it got me to thinking how horrible that actually is. I really have been thinking about it today, and I think just eating hamburgers & chicken is disgusting especially knowing that an animal died for that. I'm really considering turning into a vegetarian. Do you believe that this is a good enough reason to want to turn vegetarian? Thanks so much. ♥

What about the millions of starving people in this world who would kill for that meat you are considering not eating. What about the thousands of those who die everyday? Do you care about those people? Who cares if some stupid cows have to die, its not like we steal wild cows and randomly slaughter them. Anyways, MILLIONS of small animals (snakes, mice, other field creatures) die from harvesting wheat fields, are you going to stop eating all together? Unless you grow all of your own food or have a health/religious issue with meat, becoming a vegetarian is no better. Animals will die no matter what choice you make, so at least eat the product of the animal instead of it rotting away in a field.

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My friend Chelsea is on Birth Control and she always has something wrong with her. such as bad headaches,cramps, and a few times shes had to switch medicine because of the side effects and go to the hospital. and she said something the other day like. I wish i never started these things. I have been thinking about getting on BC so that way i would know when my period is coming and such (im 15) but i was just wondering is birth control that bad with everyone? Because if so im scared to get on it.

You should not go the path of Chelsea and just not have sex.

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I like this guy, and we talk all the time but as friends. i mean we flirt alot and stuff. we used to tell eachother we liked eachother and we used to hook up alot (this was lke a week ago) but thenhe hooked up with this random girl on an act of drunkness. we still talk and stuff alot but not the same way, and we only hungout once since then ( other than school). i want to get over him because i see him as a different person now, but its hard becasue i always think of the time we spent together and stuff. he is freaking everywhere i look and we hangout with the same peoople. but i want to find another guy, but he seems like the only one im after. HELP me get over this gggguuuuuuy :(

You guys weren't dating, therefore he didn't do anything wrong. You should think about this next time you decide to hook up with someone who is just a friend.

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okay... 12/f 5"3 and for halloween im hanginn with a bunch of my friends and probly going trick or treatingg... but i have no clue what to be i want to be cute and kinda sexy but not slutty
any suggestions??

Twelve year olds cannot be sexy. Be a Power Ranger or whatever is cool to kids nowadays.

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i cut....
it's so addicting and i can't stop. i love everything about cutting but i know i have to stop this...
please help

Do something else to keep your mind off it. Read a book, start a collection (not of razors), become an advice columist, whatever. Cutting sucks and its good that you realize this.

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What do you do if you want to kiss your girlfriend. But you dont know if you are ready

You learn how to form sentences properly, then you kiss your girlfriend.

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Ok before this question i've asked another on similar but this question is like the sequeal to it. So the qustion before this was I still like my exboyfriend who now lives in L.A. and i'm practicly inlove with him but i'm only 13 so I finally took the peoples advice who answered this and got his number from his friend that I know. So know I really want to call him but i'm nervouse because after I broke up with him for a really stupid reason we havn't talked for like a year but I know he still remembers me because his friend told me that he would always talk good about me. So what i'm asking is should I call him and say that his friend wanted me to call you and tell you that he can't call you because he got grounded would that be good so then we can just lead on from there or what because I refuse and really don't want to say that I just called him just because I want a good exuse( i'm a shy person somtimes) Thanx will rate for helpfull answers( will rate high!)

Well, the thing is that you're thirteen. I seriously doubt you love him, I'm sorry to say. You are still young, obsessing over a guy who lives far away isn't worth it at your age. It wouldn't be bad to maybe bring back a friendship, but to do anything else would be akward for him.

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Okay this is pretty unlike me and I know I'm gonna sound retarded, but this weekend me and a few of my buddys are going to the mall and they're are always reeeeeaaallll fine girls there and even though I'm not a bad looking dude (shallow?) I always never have any courage to approach them, any suggestions? I would be mucho greatful =)

You could always do what the cavemen did. Hit the girl you want over the head with a club and take her home. Or you could do what most people do and start conversations.

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Alright. This is going to be extremley confusing. I'm in a relationship with this guy named *Tom*. We've been dating for 2 months. We only hold hands and cuddle. We don't make out or anything. Haven't even kissed. I kind of regard him as an older brother now.

Now there's this other guy, *mark*. we've been wanting to date for over 7 months, but couldn't because of different reasons. Now we want to go out together. We are fine to talk, cuddle, make out, and even do some physical stuff together. And I really care for him. Deeply.(BUT I HAVE NOT DONE ANY OF THIS WHILE I HAVE BEEN WITH *TOM*)

Now I recently, as in two days ago, met this guy named *Pat*. He's really sweet and fun to talk to, and he likes to treat me sweetly, kiss my hand, hug me, hold hands...but he knows i have a boyfriend. I feel so helpless. like it's not right to say no. He wants me to break with *tom and go with him, but I don't know...*mark* wants me to break with *tom* to go with him too..

I honestly don't know what to do.

I've gotten into a mess...

Please give me valuable advice....

I will rate high

Go for the guy you like the most. Sure it might hurt Tom, but in the long run it'll hurt him more if you like someone else better. Follow your heart, not who will get hurt the least. Getting hurt is a part of life.

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Hey i have a problem with my boyfriend. He's sweet but hes immature and it gets on my nerves cause i dont have patience. He would be a great guy friend but if i break up with him i dont think he'll want to look at me like that. My best friend is also with my boyfriends older brother and they dont get to see eachother unless my best friend is at my house because she lives 45 minutes away from me. i ALSO like one of my boyfriends friends. I cant help who i like, can i?? What should i do?? I dont want to keep my best friend and her boyfriend from seeing eachother.

It sounds like way too much is going on and the situation is impossible to fix. You should move to Europe.

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Ok well me - lets say my names Jessica- and my boyfriend broke up like in the middle of july but i still really like him and one day when i was over my friends house we went online and so was my ex and I told her to ask him " How much did u like "Jessica" when yo wee going out with her?on a scale from 1-10" and he saw a 7.... and i know that a 1 means i didnt lik her a 5 is lik an 0k and a 10 is that he loves her but whats category does a 7 fall in???? PLEASE HELP I RATE 5's

Why does it matter, you two aren't together anymore. Get over him and stop asking him stupid questions.

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what are 4 ways that explorations/transportation has changed since the 1400s?

thanx

Transportation:

1400: We had horses, walking, and wooden boats
2005: Cars, trains, airplanes, a mighty array of boats, spaceships, bicycles, Segways, skatebpoards, and waterskis.

Exploration:

1400: By boat or foot.
2005: By satellite, spaceship, submarine, or well trained animals?

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I've always had this view on cheating. I never understood why people would cheat. I always thought that if you wanted to be or do things with someone else then why not break up with whoever you're with? You obviously didn't care about them if you wanted to cheat on them.

I still think of it that way but I recently was in an incident were I made out with another guy. I completely went against in what I believe in. I knew it was wrong while I was doing it but I couldn't help myself. And at the time my boyfriend and I were not speaking. I know those are not excuses and I have no idea what to do know. I can't even talk to my boyfriend. He was supposed to come over today but I told him not to because I have a load of homework.

How do I handle this? 17/f

Be honest. If you guys break up, well then you shouldn't have cheated on him. You're responsible for your actions, and this is a good time to learn. He might forgive you though. Some people out there somehow have it in them to forgive cheaters. So just be honest, lying to your boyfriend about cheating on him is like cheating on him twice.

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