Hey i have a problem with my boyfriend. He's sweet but hes immature and it gets on my nerves cause i dont have patience. He would be a great guy friend but if i break up with him i dont think he'll want to look at me like that. My best friend is also with my boyfriends older brother and they dont get to see eachother unless my best friend is at my house because she lives 45 minutes away from me. i ALSO like one of my boyfriends friends. I cant help who i like, can i?? What should i do?? I dont want to keep my best friend and her boyfriend from seeing eachother.
Advicelady6798 answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 4:52 pm: Your friend and her boyfriend should find another way to see each other. Sometimes when friends do that you question whether they are coming to see you or their boyfriend. She sounds like she wouldnt do that. I think that if he is really getting on your nerves then you should break up wit him or at least tell him that he should stop. It might help if you talk to him. Sometimes when you break up with someone you wont always be able to become friends again but sometimes it does work out. You have to decide whether you are willing to take the risk. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
pinkskyline answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 4:45 pm: Well, it looks like your in a bit of a dilemma.
There's nothing you can do if you don't like this bloke apart from tell him the truth. It will just hurt him more if you hold out any longer.
It doesn't mean that your best friend can't see his brother, because when she comes round, she can go round to his herself.
I know this is hard, but do not go to the exes friend. At least not for a very long time.
You could split up friends, and that is not nice at all!
Think about what you do carefully first, and if your really sure, ditch your boyfriend, but do not touch his friend for a looong time! [ pinkskyline's advice column | Ask pinkskyline A Question ]
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