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I like this guy, and we talk all the time but as friends. i mean we flirt alot and stuff. we used to tell eachother we liked eachother and we used to hook up alot (this was lke a week ago) but thenhe hooked up with this random girl on an act of drunkness. we still talk and stuff alot but not the same way, and we only hungout once since then ( other than school). i want to get over him because i see him as a different person now, but its hard becasue i always think of the time we spent together and stuff. he is freaking everywhere i look and we hangout with the same peoople. but i want to find another guy, but he seems like the only one im after. HELP me get over this gggguuuuuuy :(
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Chic, well there is only one thing to do, try to for get what you guys once did, I understand that if might be tough for ya, but you can get through it, try to talk to other guys and dont look where he is , and if your friends or his friends come around , talk about something else and try to keep your mind on another guy or something else....
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You guys weren't dating, therefore he didn't do anything wrong. You should think about this next time you decide to hook up with someone who is just a friend.
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Isin't life a bitch at times? Well it's to bad that this girl he hooked up with while being drunk (can you say "what the fuck did I do last night?) ruined your friendship basically. Well the first step in getting over him is to start seeing other guys, I know you care for him a great deal but apparently he dosen't have the same feelings for you. So I want you to start thinking of other dudes you know, in your class, on your bus, at your job (if you work) wherever and start seeing who's single and flirt! Talk, see how he is and then talk to him whenver you see him and see if he likes you back and hey who knows, you may have a new bf =) Now if a guy that likes you wants to hook up with you don't be like "well I need time to get over Joe (we'll use this name as an example)" forget him! het out there and get over this dude and find someone who just wont lead you on like that.
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Hey!
Well you've told him before how you feel, so why can't you now?
Maybe he's shy because he feels bad for hooking up with another girl and he may think you don't like him anymore.
Ask him what is up and whether he still likes you, straight out. You'll be glad you did and you have nothing to lose!
If he doesn't like you anymore and he tells you, it'll be a good kick start to just go out there and find someone new!
Good luck xxx
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Yeah, it's pretty hard to deal with. It's natural to think about him and not think you're even going to get over him, but you will. I've been there. It does take a while, but start noticing the great guys around you.
It seems like this guy is either playing games with you or is just...well, someone who likes to hook up or whatever. Talk to him about it. Ask him if he's accually interested in having a relationship with you before you try to get over him (it's horrible when you finally get over a guy and you find out that he likes you). It's a lot easier to talk over the phone than it is face-to-face because there's not as much awkwardness.
Just see what happens. Hope I helped!!
!~*becca*~!
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