okay im 13 , 5 foot 6 and have really smalll boobs. like i mean their an A and i have frnds who are 4 foor 11 wiht bigger boobs. Its really embarresing when i wear a swimsuit etc. Does anyone no of anything i can do 2 help. Expeacilly with the swimsuit thing. THANK YOU!
Well everyone comes in different shapes and sizes. At your age, it's difficult to tell how big your boobs will be eventually and there isn't any way to make them bigger. When you are old enough and your boobs have stopped growing, you can have operations that will make them bigger but that's a long way off. For now you just have to make the most of what you've got an accept it. As for the swimsuit thing, there is stuff you can do to make them look bigger when wearing one. Obviously you can buy padded ones that will boost your chest but you can also get ones with ruffles and frills because nothing over the top will look tarty, it will just make your chest look larger. Underwired ones are also good as they will give a bit of a boost, most padded swimsuits will also be underwired. I suggest you avoid chicken fillets as it would be embarassing if they slipped out of place and it's likely that they would. It would also be a bad idea to wear string swimsuits as they aren't flattering and will just make your boobs appear smaller.
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i got my period for the first time thursday night and today is saturday.. it was like kinda heavy up until friday night..is that supposed to happen? cuz like now its like i didn't even have my period because its barely coming out..someone please help me and tell me if this is normal
When you first start your period it will be all over the place. The legnth will be irregular as will the flow and the cycle. Don't worry about it, it's perfectly normal.
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Im wondering if my period should be coming soon. I've done some reading and I found out that I have most of the "signals" *Pubic hair, boobs are growing, growth spurt, underarm hair, discharge etc.* But its been this way for almost a month and nothing coming? Should it be coming soon? *Btw im 13*
Periods are generally the last thing that happens to you during puberty. You do seem to have all of the signs but hang on a little while because you have only had them for a month. Most girls start their periods around one or two years after they begin to get discharge but we're all different. It's likely that you'll get your period some time in the next year so if you're worried about it, I suggest you wear a pantyliner to keep you fresh if it comes.
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I know I'm going to be kissing for the first time tonight. I'm nervous and excited. I need every pointer on what to do, where to start and so on. What was it like your first time making out?
The first time I ever properly made out with anyone was towards the end of last year. It was with my first serious boyfriend after school one day. We had tried before but I had freaked out and hadn't been ready. When we finally did, it just came naturally. We both knew it was going to happen and I just looked at him and we kissed.
There are no real tips I can give you except to do what I did and to relax. Try to keep your mind off it until it happens because then the kiss will come more naturally. Don't keep thinking about it and panicking and wondering when the kiss will happen, what will happen etc.
You might want to take some mints or chewing gum with you to make sure you have fresh breath, a kiss with someone with bad breath is always horrible.
As for what you actually do, it's hard to explain. It honestly does come naturally, I know that's very cliche but it really is true. You will know when the time is right and you will know what to do. If it isn't right then it wont happen, don't worry if it doesn't because the chances are that it means you weren't ready, trust me.
After all, there's nothing like a first kiss.
Good luck!
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Is it bad not to masturbate.... cuz i'm 14.f and i've never masturbated... i think its kind of gross...
Whether or not you masturbate is completely up to you. If you don't feel comfortable doing it then don't worry about it, it wont harm you if you don't do it.
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Hi.. i'm wondering like.How does your hymen breakLike what kinds of sports break your hymen.And also,how much pain is it when your hymen breaks?
The amount of pain depends on the girl, most girls don't feel any pain or even notice it, especially if it breaks during sport. You may feel a short lived small pain but if it breaks during excercise then this is unlikely. Sports such as horse riding, cycling, running and gymnastics can break it but there are others. You can also break it by using tampons, masturbation and of course sex.
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what album is the Backstreet Boys song What Makes You Different on?
Well, I'm no Backstreet Boys fan but it's on the album Black And Blue.
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i dont know who sings this, i think its R.H.C.P. but im not sure and i dont know the name of it either. i've tried going to google and everything but nothing comes up. the lyrics are
"i don't ever want to feel like i did that day, take me to the place i love, take me all the way"
anyone know who is or what its called? thanks.
It's called Under The Bridge and yes, it is by Red Hot Chili Peppers.
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What would you consider a make-out? Tounge or no tounge? I think my friends and i think they are different things. Can you help me?
Making out is with tounge, without tounge it's just a plain kiss.
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Ok so here is my problem i have a really low self eestem i sould nt cause i hear that i am pretty alought and tons of people like me [cheak our my advice column to see pic] but my self- eestem is still really low i hate the way i look and i am never happy i feel like i can't so anyhting right and everything i do i screw up. please help me.
Reality.
First off, I looked at your column and you are beautiful, you honestly have nothing to worry about looks-wise.
I'm alot like you. People tell me I'm pretty, beautiful, hell some even say I'm sexy but I don't believe a word of it. At one point I hated myself so much I was slitting my wrists and crying every night. I'm much better now and I'm happier too, I'm still not too confident but more than before.
The trick is to WANT to be confident. You have to have self belief. If you don't, then there's no way you could ever believe you are a good, intelligent, beautiful person.
Try this excercise. When you are next walking alone or in a group, hold your head up, stick your chest out and smile. It will make you look a whole lot more confident than you are and if you look confident then you will feel it too. At first, you might only be faking the confidence but as you get used to it you will start to be it. When you wake up every morning, look in the mirror, smile and say "I am a beautiful person."
I also suggest that you join clubs or start playing an instrument. Find something you are really good at and work at it because that will make you feel like you can do things right and you're good at something.
Whenever you feel down, force yourself to smile and write a list of all the good things about you.
It will be hard but you'll get there in the end. Good luck.
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Hi rainbowcherrie,
I'm really nervous about asking this question but here goes: I'm a boy, but i feel as though i should be a girl instead. I've always had feelings like this and i even get on better with girls but i cant tell my mum or my dad because im afraid how they'll react. It's a vicious circle but i really want to do something about it like get hormone treatment or a sex-change. Im really frightened and i often have panic attacks. Please help me.
Okay, this is a tough one, I had to think for a while before I answered it.
My Auntie used to be a guy, she had a sex change so I have a bit of experience with what it's like for the family and I'll try and give you tips on how to talk to your parents.
First off, you can't get any surgery until you're eighteen so unfotunately there isn't much you can do for now.
It might help you to see a counciller before you talk to your parents, he/she will be able to give you better advice on it than me and will help you to tell your parents. There will probably be one at your school who will do a drop in clinic at lunctimes, I think it would really help if you went to see them.
It will probably be hard for your parents when you first tell them, it may be especially difficult for your dad but they love you and they will come round eventually. Just find a time when they are calm, sit them down and tell them exactly how you feel.
Remember, you are still young, your feelings may change as you grow up so just wait and see. If you still feel the same when you are eighteen then see a doctor who will being able to talk to you about the operations and stuff that you will go through.
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What is a condom?
A condom is a rubber cover that a man will roll onto his penis to protect his partner from STDs or pregnancy during sex. You can get female condoms but they aren't as common and are usually only used when they are being given oral.
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what is that wet liquid that comes out of your vagina called!! I RATE HIGH!!
It's called discharge. Unless it's red/brown in colour, then it's period flow and will be blood.
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Hi, I get really bad cramps and midol nor pampron was working, what other things can I do to get ride of my cramps? There always really bad!
Try stretching, it sounds weird but honestly, try it. Stand up and try and reach your hands up as far as you can. If that doesn't help, take a warm bath and get a hot water bottle, heat pad or heat cushion and place that over your stomach. Drink a soothing drink like hot chocolate, that should help. If none of these ideas work then make an appointment to see your doctor and ask if he/she can prescribe you with something stronger than over the counter painkillers.
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hey you have given me advice before and it rocks ur hella cool. Howd you put your picture on your colum and howd you get that layout and is there any way to make the letter pink? Do you have to b a paid user to have that stuff?
Xx ♥ Tory ♥ xX
Thank you for the compliment.
No you don't have to be a paid user.
To put a picture on your column, click the link on the left side bar of the site 'profile settings'. Scroll down to where it says 'Upload a picture of you', click browse and select the picture you want. If the picture size is too big then I suggest you sign up to http://www.photobucket.com and upload the picture you want onto that. Then go to 'profile settings' and where it says 'URL of a picture of you', put the picture url.
To change the text colour, go to 'column settings' and where it says 'page text' and 'sidebar text', put the code for the colour you want. There is a link to a page with codes for many different colours to help you.
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I am really sorry this ? is odd and what not, really i am...What does it mean for a guy to "pop a girls cherry" and how can this happen?
To 'pop a girls cherry' means to be the first person to have sex with them. A popped cherry means you have lost your virginity.
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Does it harm a baby's immune system to kiss on them.
Of course not, babies love to be kissed.
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how do u burn SONGS w/ software called ARES and no burner?? Please help....!! i give easy 5s
i just need to know what to have and some easy steps to follow! thank you so much!
Well, I have Ares, maybe I could be of some help.
When you get onto it, you will get a warning about the type of software Ares is etc. Wait until the top of the window says you are online then click on 'search'. On the left is a search box, type in the song or artist you want then click 'search now'. A list of all the track that come under that artist/song will come up. Choose one and double click on it. Now click 'transfer', you will be able to see the progress of the track you have chosen. Once it is fully completed, double click on it and it should play.
If you want to play it in another program such as Windows Media player, then click on 'locate file' and it will show you where the music file is saved so you can just play it on any music player you have on your computer.
EDIT: You added information that clearly said you weren't burning a CD and that you just wanted to get songs from the software. I apologise if I didn't answer your question but the information you submitted made your question unclear. To answer the question you wanted an answer to, you cannot burn a CD without a burner.
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I eat 3 meals a day and lately abou an hour after my meals I start to get really hungry.
I've tried eating bigger portions but it just made me feel bloated after, I've tryed halfing my portions and leaving half of it for when I do get hungry but it makes my hunger worse and I've tried ignoring it but it just doesn't seem to go away.
Is there anyway I can stop this?
Try eating little and often instead of three big meals. Have say, eight small meals a day that will fill you up without making you feel bloated. You will effectively be eating the same amount just at different times which will fill you up more than three main meals.
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ok...does anybody know how you can make your hair big...like in the 80s? like, REALLY really big....mostly blondes did this to their hair, but ive been wanting to do it, but i dont know what its called or how to make it stick up and stay up...so if u can, PLEASE reply a.s.a.p!!! thanx
After you wash it, apply a volumising mousse, concentrating mainly on the roots. Tip your head upside down and blow dry it, making sure the hairdryer is pointing up into your hair. Brush your hair messily as you dry it. When it is dry, spray it all over with a strong hold hairspray.
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