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Me and my friend are very close and we have been friends since first grade I get jealous when she hangs out with other people but yet I want to and I do hang out with other people. I feel bad and want to stop being like jealous of her having other friends. Please help me. Oh and I'll rate and give comments.
xoxpamela (link)
perhaps if you branched out and made some other new friends you wouldnt feel quite so jealus. or maybe you could even try and be friends with her new friends? a bit of space between close friends never hurt any1, if you see each other 24/7 arguments and fights are bound to occur. hope i helped ~*~lucee~*~ please rate me xXx


I was due for my period about 10 days ago and it sitll hasnt come...is this bad??and when will it come again?
(i have had it for about 3 or 4 years now)

rate 5's for anything

ohh and im not pregnant (link)
sometimes if your under stress or you are worried about something this can make your period late, im sure that there is nothing to worry about, but if your period is over 2-3 weeks late i would go and see a doctor just to make sure that everything is definatly ok. if you are still worried about it then talk to your mum, friends or even a teacher or nurse from school. hope i helped ~*~lucee~*~ plz rate me :)


What do you say when a guy asks you out. I'm only thirteen, so things don't come naturally. Do you just say "yes"? But that sounds like when someone asks you to marry them!! I think too much about simple things. CAn someone help mee?!?! Don't call me dumb please because you're just stating the obvious!

I'll rate honestly. (link)
just saying yes doesn't sould like when someone asks you to marry them.

if you don't want to say yes, then just say sure or something, but trust me, saying yes is normal, and does NOT sould like you're about to marry them.

but if you dont like ther person that's asking you out, then say no. it might be hard, but it's better than saying yes and being stuck with them, and then it'll be even harder to brake up with them later.

just say "i really like you a lot, but only as a friend. i'm sorry" or something like that.

but if you DO like the person and you can picture going out with him, then just say yes. but make sure that you feel really comfortable around them, and that you're not shy around them.

hope i helped!!


ok.. well i went out with this guy ( lets call him bill) for the whole summer.. and we kept breaking up and getting back together.. and then i dumped him and then 7th grade started and we both liked eachother.. so he asked me out and i said yes. we went out for a few weeks.. and then i dumped "bill" cause i liked a different guy.. lets call him bob. after a few weeks bob asked me out.. we went out for a week. a few days ago at the school dance, bobs friends were telling me that he was gonna dump me.. so i dumped him first. but i really didnt want to.. and then some people started telling me that he wasnt gonna dump me. and then my friends went over and he said he wasnt going to go out with me again cause i dumped him.. and i think i still like bob.. but idk i might have some feelings left for bill.. and a few minutes ago he said that he liked me again and he was gonna dump his girlfriend.. he asked me if i liked him and i siad yes.. and so after he dumps her we are going to go back out again.. but i think i like bob more than i like bill.. but i dont think hes going to go out with me again.. so what should i do ? go with the one that i kinda like and likes me(bill) or should i wait for the one that i like a little more ? (bob)
- extremely confused (link)
if you like someone else other than your boyfriend, then you should brake up with him.

liking someone other than your boyfriend is just going to make trouble for you.

tell him that you really like bill and everything, but it's just not really a good time to have a boyfriend right now for you, or just say something like that.

and since you like bob more than bill, you should tell him. tell him that you heard some rumors going around that he was going to dump you, and you really didn't want him to dump you so you just dumped him first.

let him know that you stil have feelings for him. if he likes you too, then maybe you two can get back together.

but before you two get back together, make sure that you really like bob more than bill.

but if you're not sure that you like him more, then maybe you should take some more time to think about it, and maybe you just need to take a break from it all for a while.

because remember, there's nothing bad about being single. there's a lot of plus sides to it too!

if you tell bob that you still have feelings for him, but he says he doesn't have feelings for you, then you need to move on, and tell bill that you're ready to get back together.

maybe bob might just say that he doesnt like you because he's playing hard to get or something, but if that's it, then that means that he doesn't love you enough to go out with you again.

because if he really loved you, then he would admit it himself!

~hope i helped~

P.S. sorry if i took a while to answer that, my brother's been hogging the computer so i never got the chance to answer you :p


I have had really bad razor bumps under my armpits for awhile now. I have tried everything! I use shaving cream, I have used creams, I have tried different types of razors. I dont know what else to do they're embarrassing. Please help! (link)
Oh my god, I had the same problem in the summer. Here are some tips:
Make sure your underarms are wet enough.
When you put on the shaving cream, shut off the water, so it isn't running.
LOAD on the shaving cream. Work it into your skin; don't just slap it on.
Before getting out of the shower, run the cold water so that it will close your pores under your arms, so therefore, no bacteria will get in and it will reduce the number of bumps.
I really hope I helped. Good luck with this!


i dont know what to say or how to explain it really. im just simply, unhappy. i used to be happy, i dont know what happened. everything just feels so useless and people just suck. no one cares about anyone but themselves and i feel like im at a loss and i always find me second guessing myself. whats wrong with me? how can i be happy again? (link)
i was just like you a couple of weeks ago, i spoke to my friends and went out to places where i know i used to be happy, like the cinema i enjoy going there so it was a 'happy' experience. if you find that you cant talk to your friends talk to a member of your family or even a teacher. its amazing what you will feel like after telling someone how you feel. if you find that doesnt help just put an email in my inbox and ill help you. hope i helped a little bit.
xXxluceexXx
please rate me if you think i deserve it


I just learned how to do box and whiskers but im not really sure. I have to make one and I have all this data and what do I do if there is one number that is shown more than ones do I write it out twice? Do I have to write out all the number on a line then do the box things? Help please and thank you! (link)
im not very good box and whisker diagrams either but if you are studying GCSE's? then there are plenty of books that can help. or you could try the bbc bitesize learning help system. go to
www.bbc.co.uk and the click on learning and you should be able to find out what it is that you need help on.
plz rate me if you think i deserve it
xXxluceexXx


My boyfriend and I are going to a holloween party and we are dressing up as babie and ken. Does anyone have any good ideas to makes us look like that? Thanks so much! (link)
Oh wow! That's a great idea! Haha I wish I could be able to think like you =P
I'd say put on like a WHOLE ton of foundation or whatever (even on your boyfriend, because Ken is SOO perfect haha). Put a LOT of gel in his hair. For you, just wear alot of eyeshadow and eyeliner and try to make it look really perfect and not all smudgy if you know what I mean.
I hope I helped.


OKay i'm trying to make a new screename.. but i don't know what to do.. i can't think of a good screename.. so i need some help..here's a lil about me!!!

I'm 15 years old..girl..name is jenny..love One tree hill, and chad michael murray..im in love with this guy matt.. were not dating though.. umm i like to sing, dance, write.. and yea.. i live in chicago.. chi-town as we call it..

i would really appreciate some good screenames!! (link)
x0 daNCer JEnnY 0x
*~future star~*
[[ ChI-tOwN sWeEty ]]
--fUTurE MRs.mURraY--
[* JEnnY *]

I don't know, those aren't the greatest, but I tried.
I hope I helped.


okay... 12/f 5"3 and for halloween im hanginn with a bunch of my friends and probly going trick or treatingg... but i have no clue what to be i want to be cute and kinda sexy but not slutty
any suggestions??
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Be a butterfly or bumble bee! I got my butterfly wings from the dollar store like 2 years ago, and they're really pretty. For antennas, you just paint little styrafoam balls, and then stick some pipecleaners in them. Then you just put them on an old headband. It's simple!
I hope I helped.


okay, 2 questions...
1. I straiten my hair , and i wanna look good and everything, but it seems like my hair is thinning day by day, what should i do??

2. Okay all the girls in my school wear Abercombie..and if i don't wear it i feel like a dork.....so if i were to go shopping there, how much would a whole outfit cost....jw...




PLEASE HELP!



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depends on the outfit.

yeah i wear abercrombie. if u want

jeans: $60-80
Shirt: $19.50-40
Shoes: $24.50-30
Skirt (denim) $47.50-60
jacket (fur) $80.50-300
jacket (demim) $50-90
skirt (material) $`19.50 - 40
sweatshirt: $`30.50 - 50.

peace out girl scout


I have wavy hair and i hate to straighten it any advice on how to do it nice every day before school(which means it has to be quick)with out straightening it

Easy 5 for any advice at all!!! (link)
You could use mousse and scrunch it to emphasize your waves. You could also do very loose braided pigtails and secure them with a tight hair elastic. You could put it in a loose/messy ponytail. I hope I helped.


HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think I might be getting my period and I'm really scared! I started off having just a little bit of disscharge about three years ago, now its getting thicker and thicker. Am I getting my first period, if not should I have a gynecological exam?
Thank You!!!!!!!!!!!
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It sure sounds like you're going to be getting your period very soon. I wouldn't advise you to go to the gynecologist, because discharge is very normal for teenage girls. If you're not already, start wearing pantyliners everywhere you go. They are cheap and work great. It will protect you from discharge making you feel gross and staining some of your underwear. And, another great thing about them is that if you have your period (unless it's heavy which is rare) and you're wearing one, it will protect you from it leaking out before you change to a pad or tampon.
I hope I helped.


Okay so i like this guy and he came over tonight with 2 of my other friends. and they left early and it was just me and him alone. but he didnt even try to kiss me. How do you like you all of a sudden start making out. i mean what do you just out of no where start kissing i mean. what are some ways if your siting close to get him to kiss you. (link)
I know this is probably not much help, but it really does come naturally. When you go in for the kiss, those things just happen without even thinking. Just go with the flow, because you don't think about that when the time comes.
♥ Hannah


I am really shy around guys but I think I come off as standoffish. I don't mean to be shy...I just can't ever think of anything to say. Is this why guys don't like me?
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Hey, I'm exactly like you. I don't think it's necessarily why they don't like you. They just don't notice you as much as the other girls. But I'm sure if your personality showed through, they'd see you're a wonderful person & would probably be more attracted to you. The truth is, guys like girls who are outgoing & confident. This doesn't mean you need to change yourself, but try throwing in a few comments every now & then; even if they are completely random. Atleast get comfortable enough around them to where coming up with things to say comes naturally. :)
♥ Hannah


alright guys. well. tonight i think i'm going to the movies with my boyfriend. and he wants to see into the blue. you know the one with jessica alba and the REALLY hott guy with the nice 6pack abs? alright. well the problem is that if we go i know the whole time he'll be like in his head thinking goddamn she's so fine blahblah about jessica alba. but i'm not like that when i'm with him. and i bet that later on he'd tell me how hot she looked in different sceens and stuff. so i'm like... well i'll see if i can go to that one even though i really don't want to.

i really don't think thats a "couples" movie.
thats like. horny guy alone. do you agree?

and if like you were me (if you're a girl) would it bother you that like he'll talk about that stuff after the movie, when he know's that you wont talk about how hot the guys is?

please help as soon as you can. (link)
well just make out with him during the jessica alba parts, i would rather be making out then watching a clothed jesica alba


What do you think is better to get? An ipod or another mp3 player. I heard that a zen micro is really good. Does anyone have them? What is the advantage and do you enjoy using it. Or does anyone else have something different that they think is better? (link)
well it really depends on how much music you like

ipod holds more songs in exeption to the nano


my parents make fun of me. i pull my hair out (i have trich) and my parents make fun of me.

my mom knows, i have microwave food because it comes out soggy. if i eat soggy food i get sick.

so she made me mashed potatos in the microwave. and im illergic to potatos!

and then i told her that and then she said "go shave your head!"

someone please help me! please im really upset! (link)
well you need to talk to your school counsolors about this. they always know what to do about parent problams


ok i am 5'4" and i weigh 106.5 lbs. am i overweight? is it irrational to think that i am fat???people tell me i worry too much i dont c y though.please help!
also latley i have been feeling guilty after i eat. help with that too plz. (link)
no, i'm 5'5'' 150 your fine


I live with one of my best friends in a 2 bedroom apartment. She got a cat before we moved in, but after a month or so I noticed that my eyes were hurting and i can never wear my contacts anymore. Come to find out, i'm allergic to her cat. She keeps it in her bedroom while she is not home, but then she takes her out and she is free to roam anywhere except my room. It still isn't working with her keeping the cat in her room. How can i tell her that my allergy is becmoing quite painful and i cant stand to have the cat around anymore? (link)
you are going to have to tell her straight... "did i tell you im alergic to cats?"

Or if she wont get rid of it, you might have to move out!

peace out girl scout




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