Okay so i like this guy and he came over tonight with 2 of my other friends. and they left early and it was just me and him alone. but he didnt even try to kiss me. How do you like you all of a sudden start making out. i mean what do you just out of no where start kissing i mean. what are some ways if your siting close to get him to kiss you.
- play a little flirty game with him. be like "you want the remote? try and get it ." hopefully he will play along and try and get it..you can start to tickle him out of nowhere..hopefully he will do the same to you..
-so your sitting on the couch..slowly inch closer to him..rest your head on his shoulder and just cuddle with him. (i know it takes guts but i dont thnk he would reject that)
-turn the tv off..look at him..maybe run your hands through his hair..and go in for the kiss
*the person who said "it doesnt happen...only in movies" ..is wrong. ive had a bunch of things that are like ' movie perfect' things happen to me..so dont listen to that. alll it takes is someone who has the guts to just do it..go for it head on.
i know you can do this..go for it! :) [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
kaylasays answered Sunday October 16 2005, 11:09 am: Hey,
If he was alone with you..and he didn't try anything..then he probably wants to wait a little bit. You may not think so..but guys aren't always thinking about making out. Sometimes they just want to cuddle and be cute with you.
Next time he comes over just like rest your head on his sholder or something. He will most likely put his arm around you (eventually if not right away). Hopefully by getting close to him he will kind of realize you're ok with being touchy. [ kaylasays's advice column | Ask kaylasays A Question ]
snarfism answered Sunday October 16 2005, 9:28 am: The guy might not be aware you like him. try out of nowhere asking him a question like "So, do you ever think a relationship between us would work?" Maybe he'll get the hint. And if you're not ready for that or if she just sorta shrugs his shoulders, when he leaves just give him a hug and tell him you had a really nice time. Maybe after a few more get togethers, he'll come to you. [ snarfism's advice column | Ask snarfism A Question ]
LoveNJstyle answered Sunday October 16 2005, 8:45 am: wow i think everyone has been in this sitch and boy does it suck! from experience...it doesnt work. i really want to help but 9 out of 10 times it doesnt happen...unless its on tv. it happens often there. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
orphans answered Sunday October 16 2005, 2:36 am: I know this is probably not much help, but it really does come naturally. When you go in for the kiss, those things just happen without even thinking. Just go with the flow, because you don't think about that when the time comes.
♥ Hannah [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
beachhun101 answered Sunday October 16 2005, 12:52 am: wow sounds like me. i have this little "study group" and one of them is my ex whom i kinda like now. so my parents left and we were alone-and we wre talkin bout sexual things but we never did anything...kinda sucks huh? but anyways for advice. sounds cheesey but look into his eyes-people get the hint there. then lean in a little bit. start sitting in a tight space together so your bodies are pressed close to eachtother. also before talk about intimate stuff, like boyfriends/girlfriends. maybe mention you like him (if he already doesnt know). give him little hints by touches, words, and being close and flirty! hope it works!have fuN!
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