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ok.. well i went out with this guy ( lets call him bill) for the whole summer.. and we kept breaking up and getting back together.. and then i dumped him and then 7th grade started and we both liked eachother.. so he asked me out and i said yes. we went out for a few weeks.. and then i dumped "bill" cause i liked a different guy.. lets call him bob. after a few weeks bob asked me out.. we went out for a week. a few days ago at the school dance, bobs friends were telling me that he was gonna dump me.. so i dumped him first. but i really didnt want to.. and then some people started telling me that he wasnt gonna dump me. and then my friends went over and he said he wasnt going to go out with me again cause i dumped him.. and i think i still like bob.. but idk i might have some feelings left for bill.. and a few minutes ago he said that he liked me again and he was gonna dump his girlfriend.. he asked me if i liked him and i siad yes.. and so after he dumps her we are going to go back out again.. but i think i like bob more than i like bill.. but i dont think hes going to go out with me again.. so what should i do ? go with the one that i kinda like and likes me(bill) or should i wait for the one that i like a little more ? (bob)
- extremely confused
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if you like someone else other than your boyfriend, then you should brake up with him.
liking someone other than your boyfriend is just going to make trouble for you.
tell him that you really like bill and everything, but it's just not really a good time to have a boyfriend right now for you, or just say something like that.
and since you like bob more than bill, you should tell him. tell him that you heard some rumors going around that he was going to dump you, and you really didn't want him to dump you so you just dumped him first.
let him know that you stil have feelings for him. if he likes you too, then maybe you two can get back together.
but before you two get back together, make sure that you really like bob more than bill.
but if you're not sure that you like him more, then maybe you should take some more time to think about it, and maybe you just need to take a break from it all for a while.
because remember, there's nothing bad about being single. there's a lot of plus sides to it too!
if you tell bob that you still have feelings for him, but he says he doesn't have feelings for you, then you need to move on, and tell bill that you're ready to get back together.
maybe bob might just say that he doesnt like you because he's playing hard to get or something, but if that's it, then that means that he doesn't love you enough to go out with you again.
because if he really loved you, then he would admit it himself!
~hope i helped~
P.S. sorry if i took a while to answer that, my brother's been hogging the computer so i never got the chance to answer you :p
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