First off I am a girl who's 19 and I have always liked men but a while ago I met a new coworker who is also a female and instantly felt a connection with her and I’ve had a crush on her ever since. Were freinds on social media and it seems like she could be bisexual because she has posts of her with another girl that other people commented things like “your such a cute couple” but she also has posts with guys. I’ve liked her for about 6 months now, and she recently got a boyfriend. I’m not sure when or if either of us is going to leave the job but I just got a better one and if things go we’ll I’ll probably be leavig in a few months also, I have a feeling she might be leaving too. But I still like her and need to know if she ever liked me to move on, I wouldn’t be asking her to dump her boyfreind and go out with me, I just want to know if she ever liked me or had a crush on me. And I’m not sure how to say it because if she isn’t bisexual and is against it then I don’t want to offend her or wierd her out so how should I word it? And do you think it’s a good idea to tell her?
If she just recently got a boyfriend then telling her might not be a good idea because you'd not want her to think that you have gone into a panic after she got together with someone and so is why you're now telling her how you feel about her.
On the other hand, if all you really want to know is whether or not she felt anything for you then I can't really see the harm in wanting to know. How she may react though is anyone's guess. She might be offended or may find it flattering, there's not really any way to know.
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So...what should I say?
This will really be up to you. The best thing to do is try speaking to a teacher who you feel comfortable with as it will make it easier for you that way. Just tell the teacher you need to speak to her about a personal matter in private then just go from there and explain what is happening with the other kids and how they are making you feel.
As I said in my other message you can also speak to your parents about this and ask them to speak to the school to see if they can do something about it.
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Like I dont personally know what to do ...cause wont my teacher tell my mom?
Your teacher might actually do that, I think your teacher would be obliged to do so but it will be one way to do it as it'll mean you don't have to tell them yourself (but they will likely ask you about it). In all honesty I'm not sure if they would tell your parents but your teachers may be able to do something about it (and if by some chance they don't then going to your parents about it would be the best thing to do so they can speak to your teachers and put the point across that something needs to be done about it).
What has happened isn't your fault at all - this is something you need to remember.
It's a difficult decision to make and it could well put you in a difficult position too as your parents will want to know what happened. However, at the same time you shouldn't have to deal with that kind of behaviour from anyone especially with how bad it is making you feel.
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Hello,
So I met a guy at my internship that i got for the summer and we really hit it off. We have been hanging out a lot and becae really good friends. We have started having sex but nothing about our relationship status has been declared.
In a couple weeks we are both moving back home, which is about 6.5 hours away from each other. I really like him and would like to make it work so that if we were to start dating we could stay together and see each other as much as possible.
Before a couple days ago he hasn't really said much about going home but the other day he brought up how close we are to the end of summer, i asked if he was happy to be going home and he said will be sad he doesn't get to see me. Some of his friends have came up and visited them and he took me to meet them and introduced me.
I'm not really sure where his heads at and I really dont want to say anything about our situation until we leave because if the conversation goes badly I still will have to see him at work everyday until the end of summer.
So do you guys think that I should wait for him to bring it up? Do you think he'll even bring it up at all? Or should I bring it up? and if yes, what should I say to him?
Thank you in advance
In a way I agree with what misspiggy is saying but all you can really do on that is live and learn.
As for the situation at present, it might be a good idea to bring it up in a conversation with him and see how it goes. The thing is at this point he could be thinking the same thing as you and is thinking he will wait until you bring it up in which case waiting until the last moment to bring up something like that would probably not be the best of ideas. On the other hand he may like you but sees it as being nothing more than what it might have started as - just casual sex with nothing serious.
I personally think it might be a good idea to try talk to him whenever you can more for you so that you know where you stand on things. I mean you should ask yourself if he is not serious about you both being together then is this something you want to pursue? I can't really decide myself if he will bring it up. He might because he wants a relationship from it all or he may want it but won't say anything because he feels you don't want the same thing. As you can see there is a dilemma here because he could be thinking the same thing as you. Best bet in my opinion will be to talk to him yourself. If things don't go well then yes it could become awkward at work but then you need to decide what is more important to you: knowing where you stand or just carrying on hoping he feels the same.
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Hi. I'm 15 years old and a sophmore. Two summers ago I got into a casual relationship with a guy 3 years older than me. What I didn't know about him before hand was that he was depressed and suicidal. He trapped me into getting in a relationship with him that I never wanted, making me think that if I didn't he would kill himself. I talked him out of suicide 3 times, each I was balling on the floor usually cutting with a razor. Nobody knows I did that. He also had anger issues. Very bad ones. One minute he would say he loved me, the next he would tell me I'm a selfish b*tch and worthless and should die and should go to hell etc. I cut more because of it. He made me insecure about my weight and i went from 138 pounds to 10p and im 5'6." I was anorexic, eating only a few bites a day, and a far from accurate view of my appearance. I thought I looked fat when I was stick thin. I felt worthless. But I got throught it. I got through all of it, entirely on my own. It was the worst year of my life but I have learned so much from it. I want to share my story, to encourage others or just so I won't feel like I'm hiding my past from the world but I'm scared and don't know how. Help!
To get through something so terrible is quite an achievement and is something to be very proud of. Never forget though that there is always help out there with things like these.
As for getting your story out there, adviceman49 mentioned many ways you can do this. I have a friend who went through an abusive relationship many years ago who decided to tell her story through a youtube channel, often doing some talks about things that she went through and being an inspiration to those who may be going through the same thing and showing them they can break free from that kind of abuse. This is just one of the ways she decided to share her story. There are many groups on things like facebook and other such social media. Even on here you would be in a unique position to be able to offer your help to many people who might be going through the same thing. They are more likely to listen to you because unlike many who will just say what they think is the right thing to say (or what the person needs to hear) you are someone who can speak from personal experience.
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So I lost my virginity at a young age. I will be 15 soon and I lost my virginity to another 14 year old about 6 months ago. I'm not ashamed of this at all, he was my boyfriend, we'd talked about it before and I felt ready. However, as much as I'm okay with what I did, he was kind of an idiot and it ended quickly and that was it. I was upset about it, and his best friend who was angry at his friend partly for the reason he treated me, comforted me about it. We then ended up getting close and we did most things but sex. He was really lovely and I liked him a lot, and we weren't actually in a relationship but we were more than just sexual stuff. But he ended up wanting to get back with his ex girlfriend. That wasn't his fault and it just ended and that was it. I still didn't feel like a slut but I still kept it from my friends, worrying they wouldn't want to know me if they found out, they didn't know I was like that. I'm quite a high achiever and I dance and sing and have plans with my life and no-one expected me to do anything like that. But after my exes best friend ended things I just went off the rails. What happened wasn't his fault or hers or mine but I couldn't help feeling so rejected and unloved and I just seemed to lose all respect for myself. Since then I've sent naked pictures to multiple guys who just asked. Not people that I love, which 5 months ago would have been totally against everything I stood for. I've also relapsed with a past history of eating disorders and I just don't seem to be able to look after myself anymore. I have tried to take steps in improving though, I've opened up to my friends about what's happened, but even since telling them I've sent pictures to a past crush again and upset them. This boy was even someone that my best friend was 'talking too' although I wasn't aware fully of what was going on between them, I still shouldn't have done it. I'm just struggling to feel loved and wanted and I'm not sure how to stop messing up like this, because although my friends say they'll stick by me whatever, they're angry, and worried, and well I want to be strong for them and stop doing these things... Help?
I think adviceman49 has said pretty much everything I was going to say.
One thing I would like to add though is not to punish yourself for what happened. We all do thinks for reasons we sometimes don't understand or for reasons which at the time seem so certain. When I met my first girlfriend and we ended up doing things (we were both virgins at the time) I thought I made the right choice but after some months when we broke up it felt like it was the worst decision I could have made.
All you can really do is just learn from these things that have happen. As for the sending pictures to people - all I can say on that is not to do it again for your own safety, even if it's someone you are close to and such. With how old you are it would only cause problems in the long run.
Get some help though, especially with the eating disorder and with how you have been feeling rejected and unloved.
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Lately I've been dieting, but my birthday is coming up and I'm having a party to celebrate me becoming 17. I want to be able to enjoy myself but I'm afraid I'll gain weight. I decided it would be best to take some supplements for metabolism boost, but I would like some recommendations considering I've never taken any before. I'll be celebrating my birthday this weekend and next weekend is the party. Vacation is the beginning of next month and then comes my sister's birthday. So that's why I want some pills for this. and something I can buy at walmart please because that where I go every week. But nothing expensive please. Something around $10. Thank you!
Pills such as these do not always work and more importantly many of them can be loaded with chemicals and other unhealthy products (especially the cheaper ones).
If you are spoiling your diet for a few weekends you shouldn't worry about it. Many people diet all week and then have 'cheat' days on the weekends where they can eat what ever they like. I personally think you should avoid any kind of tablets such as these mostly because there is no guarantee they would even work. If you really need to use them I can only suggest you research the ones you decide to take thoroughly so you know what you are taking. You could also try and consult your GP on advice on this if you already know which you want to take just to make sure your doctor can give you the okay on them.
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Recently I added a question but did not register im extremely bad about that. So ill retype my question and hopefully someone can help....so here it is...kinda embarrassing
Im slim thick I have a big breast and a huge butt boys seem to be way to attracted and its killing me they make dirty jokes about me, and touch me the way I dont wanna get touch ...I wrapped my self with a jacket on my waist like all over me. I have no idea what to do. I cannot talk to my parrents about it ...its embarrassing. Im 13 in 8 grade! I dont need this! Gosh im so shy to speak
up I just want to kill myself its like everywhere. I dont want to be a slut. Im really too smart forthat. What should I do to help myself. I really dont like my body for all of this problem. I never earn any respect. ( forget about the sentences underneath having problems with my phone)
Igo.I dont want to be a slug.
First and foremost there is nothing wrong with you or your body and certainly don't think about killing yourself or anything silly like that. Firstly the guys who make these stupid jokes are just being childish. The best thing you can do is ignore it, unfortunately there is no way to stop people thinking stupid thoughts. As for being touched though - this is something that is NOT acceptable. No-one should ever touch you in any way which you are not happy about or have your permission to do. I know you said you are a shy person but your body belongs to YOU and so if anyone touches you in a way you don't like, make sure they know about it. If it's as big a problem as you have said I think you should speak to your parents about it so they can bring it up with your school and the teachers there because its behaviour you shouldn't have to put up with or need to deal with when going to school. This kind of behaviour gets ignored because others who are probably in the same boat as you probably think the same thing and so also do nothing about it - so in the end nothing gets done about it.
Respect is important and it's a great thing that at your age you understand this and don't want to be seen as some cheap woman. Sometimes you have to fight to get that respect and in this case coming out of your shell and telling someone about it (even if its a teacher if you can't talk to your parents directly) would be the first step in doing that. Never think about wanting to kill yourself. Every problem in life can be dealt with one way or another without having to resort to hurting yourself. Good luck.
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I am 17 and I know that i am bi but how do i tell my family. i have already come out to my friends, but dont know how to come out to my family
I guess the most straight forward way to do this would be to just tell them but I think one of the most important things to ask yourself first and foremost is how do you think they will react? Is your family open minded enough to be able to accept this news or would they completely flip? Your sexuality is your own business and not something anyone needs to know or accept as long as you are happy with it so I will say off the bat that if you believe that your family will flip at the news then just don't tell them unless a time comes when you really have to. I say this only because the last thing you need is hassle from your family about your sexuality especially if you are living with them - it could make things very awkward or difficult since some families are just not open to accept something like this.
If however you feel that your family would be open minded about this news and accept it (reluctantly or otherwise) then there's not really anything to worry about other than just how to break it to them in which case you could try talking to just one member of your family (mom, dad, sibling) instead of all of them at the same time. This way it will give you the chance to ease into the whole idea of coming out to your family and if/when you do tell the rest of your family you will know there's someone there who can stand by you to give some moral support because they already know about it. I mean depending on how you would want to go about it you could even have the person you told speak to the family on your behalf instead if that is easier? There are many ways to approach this but as I said, it all really depends on how you think your family will react to the news. If the reaction will be a bad one then you could always just postpone having to tell them just yet until you really have to.
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I work on the phones all day and it causes my throat to get very irritated and soar. Are there any natural remedies that could help. I feel like tea makes it worse?
You could always try honey to try help ease your throat, this always helps me when I have a bug and end up having a really sore throat.
There should be a number of other remedies that one can try that would be natural. If you have a herbal store where you live it may well be worth popping in to have a quick chat with them to see if they can recommend something. Some herbal/natural remedies can come with a bit of a price tag so this is something to be weary of and not all of these remedies work for everyone (I have tried various remedies for hay fever and found that some which worked great for others did not work as well for me and vice-versa).
Give honey a try though and see how that works. It may only be a short term fix for the sore throat though since I would think it is sore because you are on the phone all day and continuing this would only aggravate the soreness. You could also try speaking to your GP to see what they are able to recommend as many are aware of many herbal and natural remedies and practices so they might be able to suggest something.
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I'm gonna keep this short and sweet. Why does my boyfriend always play video games with his friends when I'm over. I realize he has friends. But why can't me and him just spend time together. Everytime I come over, his friends will ask him to play a game (He talks to them on Skype while playing)(PC). Sometimes he'll ask me if he's allowed to play because we've got into before about this and I'll tell him to do whatever he wants. If I say no he's gonna do it anyway just like any typical man. What am I supposed to do while plays. I can't watch TV because his desk is right beside it (his body is in front of it) plus he talks. He wants me to watch him play,come on now. Sometimes when I try to talk to him he won't even hear me because of his headphones. Am I making this a big deal? I just feel like that's a nice line between friend time and girlfriend time. He just doesn't see the line.
You're not making a big deal of this at all in my opinion. I am a huge gamer and love my games (PS4) but... when I have people over be it friends or even family, like my cousins (who are also gamers) my PS4 gets switched off and I focus on my guests. If they want to play some games we do so as a group. This was the same when my gf used to come over too - that time was dedicated to her and myself so no games, no long chats on the phone with friends etc.
Talk to him about this and explain your side of things and make it clear that when you come over you would like that time to be his and your time together. It is NOT a lot to ask for in my opinion at all. Most women I know would never put up with this kind of thing and although you have not mentioned your age or his age - I certainly doubt there are many women around who would be completely happy about something like this, especially if it happened all the time repeatedly. If he asks you permission then tell him no and explain why (you want you both to spend the time you have together - not you watching him play games with his friends online - he can do that any other time when you are not there). You can't say yes (because he will do it anyway) then get angry he did because all he will say is that you said it was okay.
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Hello,I've been in a long distance relationship for quite some time now,as of a week ago,I didnt hear from my guy,due to some personal problems and his dad being in the hospital. Below,I have written the text message he sent me:
''Dear___ ,So it's been long enough and I think you deserve an explanation for my absence.I've been drifting apart. mostly because I dont know what I'm doing right now.I need to get my life back on point and I just cant rely on you right now.And when I say rely on you,I mean for you to be okay with whatever life we would live together.There's a dream and then there is reality and right now its looking difficult for me becauseI cant seem to find a stable job.But Ive made a commitment from today and from nowIm going to change my a lot of my ways.And I cant keep this long distance relationship thing with us going anymore.No more photos,no more videos or anything like that.I really need to focus on my life right now instead of our life.I definately think we can work in the future but right now I need to focus on myself sincerely from the depths of my heart.I feel like part of the stress that put my dad in the hospital is my fault.I'll talk to you soon.''
So,essentially,I have different scenarios.
Either Im being let down easy,and this is my chance to exit.
Or,he wants me to wait for him to get his life together
Or he is calling it off but gave me a little hope while he runs away
Or he really means what he says.
Im very confused,first he cuts ties,and then says,yeah,we have a future.... Its confusing....
Its hard,its very very very hard,and I just want to know what to do.I love him dearly,I love his family so much.
He is struggling with jobs,and he wants a stable one,so he can get a place for us to move in together....
Thank you in advance for your advice
From the sounds of his message it seems he has a lot on his plate and perhaps feels that ending this relationship with you will help ease some of the pressure or stress so he can try and deal with things (maintaining a long distance relationship can be very stressful).
All I can gather from that message is that he is breaking things off but him saying that you could work in the future does seem unfair to you because first saying he wants no contact then saying there's a chance for you both just seems very contradictory, perhaps he is confused as to exactly what he wants. Have you tried to ask him about it at all? From my perspective it seems he is either saying it in an attempt to try and lessen the hurt he may cause from breaking things off or he really does believe that sometime in the future you both could re-connect. However, this is where you may well need to decide on how you want to proceed.
You could just wait it out until he sorts things out and hopefully comes back to you (you could even tell him that you will wait for him) but the reality of this situation will be that during this period of waiting without contact at all, he could meet someone else or his feelings he has for you can change. You may well end up meeting someone else and in time your feelings could change and then what if out the blue he suddenly show up in the future at some point? It may not be as easy as just dropping everything and carrying on like nothing has happened.
I'm not entirely sure why he said what he said but this is something you should ask him - you deserve that much so you know where you stand. It will be a chance for you to be able to tell him where he stands too because if he is asking you to wait for him it isn't in my opinion something that is fair on you or him.
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Okay so I'm on the pill (the 28 day pack) to help control my periods because they used to be really heavy and I normally get my period on the Wednesday before I would normally start my new pack. I'm literally about to start my new pack but my period isn't here? Like I think it started but there's barely any blood yet I'm bloated. And I haven't missed any pills this month, I take it at the same time each day and I haven't had intercourse so is there something wrong with me?
Being on the pill, missing a period can happen. The pill effects your hormones and this alone could be the reason for you not getting your period but things like stress can also be a factor in why you miss or have a late period.
It may well be an idea to speak to your GP who prescribed the pill to you about this as it could be a minor side effect or it could well be nothing at all but it's always safer to have it checked out - for peace of mind if nothing else.
You may find the information on the following web sites of some use as well:
http://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/menstrualcycle/Pages/DoIneedtoseeadoctor.aspx
http://www.parents.com/parenting/relationships/postpartum-birth-control/side-effects-of-birth-control/
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My mom woulnt let me have a boyfriend...what should i do because im 12 but my friends are not dateing but i really want to!!
Personally I would say leave the whole dating thing until you are a bit older since there's really no rush and in all honesty enjoy being 12 because when you reach 16 (or whenever your mom is okay with you dating) you'll only look back eventually and think why didn't you enjoy the stress free childhood when you had the chance.
Why is it you want to date so much even though your friends are not dating? Is it purely to show you have superseded them or is it because there is someone you are interested in?
If there is someone you like and its why you want to date then by all means talk to your mom about it. Parents are strict because they care about your well-being but I would like to think that your mom would also listen to you and listen to reason provided its constructive - so screaming at your mom sayin it's not fair wouldn't really achieve anything but talking to her about it and explaining your side of it (if there's someone you like) she may listen and hopefully you both can come to some kind of mutual understanding. I personally think she just wants you to enjoy being a kid while you can without having to deal so soon with all the stress and complications that come along with dating. If nothing else your mom may explain why she doesn't wish for you to date and it may all make a lot more sense to you as to why she's being the way she is.
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I got the virus saying "all your files have been incrypted" and i am freaking out.ill get a computer specialist but i need to ask you smth.i got all my photos on a hard disc connected to the computer.have those files been encrypted as well? any tips? thank you
I guess this depends on what exactly the issue is, are you able to provide any more specific details?
I may not have the right answer here but try the following link:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ZXv9_h08iE
If this doesn't work and this is not the error you are experiencing then can you provide more details or describe the error in more details please?
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I am scared to report c porn because i am afraid they will blame me. i don't know why. please report these sites for me?
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please help me and report sites above!
all i searched for 2was teen! OMG! i m a girl!
Hello.
I have contacted the IWF (Internet Watch Foundation) with the information you have provided and am waiting to hear back from them in regards to this to see if they are able to deal with this or if it needs to be passed onto someone else i.e. the police.
Please note that in future if you do come across anything like this don't be afraid to report it. It's not your fault if you went to a web site by accident thinking it would be one thing and it turns out to be another (it's something that has happen to me many times). You can do a Google search for places to report web sites and you will find there are many places that can help. Don't be afraid to help out by reporting - you will be helping preventing the exploitation and abuse of innocent kids. The fact you came forward with this information you have is a very positive thing and hopefully others will also be able to do the same instead of just turning a blind eye.
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Hi! I'm a 17 year old healthy female, and my boyfriend and I had sex during my fertile week with out protection multiple times using the "pull out" method. I know that some guys don't always get it right and there Is precum, so I'm a little nervous I could've gotten pregnant. Any advice? Thank you!
There is a very very slight risk that there can be pregnancy from pre-cum but this is something that does not happen very often at all and is only a possibility (a very remote one). I had used the same method in the past as well but since then have always stuck to using condoms simply because getting someone I am with pregnant scares the hell out of me so unless they are on the pill, I will always use protection. I would advise that you possibly look into getting on the pill as a backup. As for whether you might be pregnant there can be a very remote chance of this but I would say get yourself tested (use a home pregnancy kit and do the test twice to be certain) or go and see your GP to have the test done and see how that goes and simply go from there.
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I have lied to my boyfriend his car handle fell off so I try to fix it with some super glue he came to my house that evening and asked me if I tried to fix his hand on his car with super glue and I stood in front of him face to face and I said no so he said well I'm going to call my son and see if he done it so you got a hold of his son and his son said no I didn't do it look at the cameras that you have at your house and it will tell who did it. So the next day when he left for work I text him that I did ithe forgive me for that stupid lie but he still broke up with me because I did it face to face if you truly love somebody you shouldn't have to lie to him you should tell them the truth what should I do I asked him for a second chance but he's not listening or even talking to me
Hello. Lying to your other half (or anyone for that matter) can be a bad thing as you have seen first hand and usually it's because its either just not worth it or it will eventually get found out anyway. From my perspective I can sort of understand your boyfriend being a bit upset at the fact you lied (it's not what you lied about its the fact that you did it right to his face that he is upset about) and I think anyone in his place probably would be too. Give him a little time to cool down and then try and see if he will talk to you. Just try explain why you lied and ask for a second chance. I can't say if he will give you this second chance but at this point if you have really learned from this then I think you deserve a second chance to show this but it really will be down to him and what he chooses to do. There may in effect nothing you can really do other than just talk to him to explain your side of things and hope he is willing to put it behind you both and try again. If he is, just don't lie to him. As a couple he needs to know he can trust you just as you need to be able to know you can trust him and a big part of that is being able to be honest with each other.
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So I'm a girl who watches a lot of youtube videos and I decided to start making my own videos, but I don't know which camera is the best and etc. I'm going to do the videos to see if I start feeling well with myself, so I'm a bit nervous to make the first video. Any best camera advices? And any advices for the first and second videos? I'm shy so it's going to be hard for me, 'cause I hate to take photos and etc.This is to help me gain confidence, because I know most of the youtubers story and most of them had a not so good life like me and now they're happy and I'm trying to search for that happyness to. Please help me with those 2 questions. Thanks
Hi. I saw that this was posted absolutely months ago but came across it so decided to answer. The type of camera you need will all depend on the kind of videos you wish to shoot. If you are making videos from your room on a laptop/computer then a simple webcam will do the trick. A half decent webcam will be all you need in addition to some software to edit the recordings. The webcam will need a mic built into it or a separate microphone might be needed, this can be picked up for pretty cheap as well as you don't need a studio quality one. Other than this just make sure your room or the room where you record is well lit.
If you are wanting to make very high quality videos and are wanting to get into the whole making videos on a more serious note and have a pretty good budget you could invest in a DSLR camera (I use a Cannon 700D for my videos) but before going this route I would say pop into a camera store and ask them about the different cameras available and let them know your requirements. From there you can research their suggestions online to see if what you have picked will suit your needs.
When making videos just for you tube though in a blog manner though a half decent quality webcam will usually work perfectly as long as you manage to sort the lighting out and it will pick up sound properly or you have a mic that you can use with it.
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so me and my bf are going to camp with the rest of our grade and i dont know what do because i want to try and get my first kiss with him without anyone seeing what to do and if i dont ill be fine but it would be way harder in school you have time i am going april 8 am 2015 please give me advie tell me the instructions for 3 days of the first kiss plan but its the last day the third day so if ya want i have a 2 hour bus drive to the camp maybe that will help and i have one full day with him but around alot of people and teacher so maybe you could help me please please please help!!!!
If this guy is your bf then just do it when the time feels right. Seriously... don't try and plan this out because all that will do is just cause a lot of tension, make you nervous and in all honesty it will just spoil the special moment because you will be more worried about the plan than actually focusing on the moment. When it happens it will just happen. He may even be the one to make the move and kiss you, you never know. I can quite honestly say that I have never taken the charge in kissing someone before and it has always been them who took the charge because I am always too busy planning it and wondering when I should do it (I think they just got fed up on waiting for me to do something).
Don't worry about it. He's your bf so when it feels right just go for it. :)
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