I need advice! me and my bf are going to camp HELP!
Question Posted Wednesday September 24 2014, 6:14 pm
so me and my bf are going to camp with the rest of our grade and i dont know what do because i want to try and get my first kiss with him without anyone seeing what to do and if i dont ill be fine but it would be way harder in school you have time i am going april 8 am 2015 please give me advie tell me the instructions for 3 days of the first kiss plan but its the last day the third day so if ya want i have a 2 hour bus drive to the camp maybe that will help and i have one full day with him but around alot of people and teacher so maybe you could help me please please please help!!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? ammo answered Wednesday September 24 2014, 9:59 pm: If this guy is your bf then just do it when the time feels right. Seriously... don't try and plan this out because all that will do is just cause a lot of tension, make you nervous and in all honesty it will just spoil the special moment because you will be more worried about the plan than actually focusing on the moment. When it happens it will just happen. He may even be the one to make the move and kiss you, you never know. I can quite honestly say that I have never taken the charge in kissing someone before and it has always been them who took the charge because I am always too busy planning it and wondering when I should do it (I think they just got fed up on waiting for me to do something).
solidadvice4teens answered Wednesday September 24 2014, 8:25 pm: I'm going to state the obvious. If you want to kiss someone do it already. There's no way you or any teenager can or will wait until April 2015.
Furthermore, why put yourself in an uncontrollable situation where others can ruin it for you rather than do so where you feel safe and comfortable with the other person?
There's a whole bunch of time until then but you should shoot for as close to the present than way off in the distance. it's no big deal or anything embarrassing either.
It's natural. If you want to be kissed tell him or just initiate it. You don't need a camping trip that is so far off or this perfect setting or moment planned... You negate the problems with said trip that you are expecting. If already together this really shouldn't be an issue or difficulty between you. Has to occur eventually. No worries. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
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