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For Christmas I thought it'd be cute to do a '100 reasons I like about you' for my boyfriend. I've got quite a few, but I was wondering if yall had any that you would like to share about YOUR boyfriend. I'm sure it'd apply to mine also.

thats a cute idea. well i dont exactly have a boyfriend but i though crush would be just as good lol. umm, best personality, prettyest eyes, sweetest smile, best catcher (baseball), most amaizing musician, and stuff like that lol.
h.i.h.
simone

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(I'm 13/f) If a guy I like and I mean REALLY like has a girlfriend...do I back off or is it against the rules to flirt a little bit?
-Ace

its fine to flirt and all but if you want a chance with him wait until he breaks up with her. you wouldnt want to get into a fight with the girl though because that would be kinda tough on your relation ship with him also. so take it easy and be patient.
good luck!

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do guys know when a girl is there first kiss?

*K

probablt not. if youd tell them then yea.

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Everyone tells me that glow in the dark tampons are a bad idea. Am I the only one that thinks I could make millions off of it?

its a kool idea lol but i dono youd have to make it so that girls wont get infections from it. but i think its a kool idea :D

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simple question, long story behind it, but i want to know, what do girls want in guys?

every girl has their different dream guy. like for instance i like funny, sweet, music talkented, sport guys lol while my friend goes for the total bad boy. dirty, smart a$$, dare devil. i think you get my point. but all i can say is if your just yourself then im sure you'll find a girl that like the way you are. just dont try to be someone your not.

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Im really really scared about getting my perdiod i have no idea when its comming like no idea. Im scared one of my friends will find out or i will be the last one. My crush is in like all my classes. And the nurse had pads and tampons and stuff but Im scared when im gon aget it

i think every girl is worried abour first getting it. i know i was. but usually you'll know when you have it. you'll probably start having mood swings or your stomach will start to hurt a little. if you have it during school just go to the nurse and they'll help you out. if you have it at home. just talk to your mom and she will help you with the whole thing.

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what should you wear under the spandex you wear in volleyball??

well you could go with out underwear. but if thats not comterble just regular underware or a thong, if thats even comfterble. whatever you feel best in.

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is it weird that im almost 15 and ive never had a boyfriend? could it have anything to do w/ my height im almost 5'9" and i just dont know why guys dont like me is there something wrong w/ me? i just get so fustrated when i see my friends w/ there boyfriends anyways, please help!

omg i feel the same way!! i mean i start to wonder if theres something wrong with me. then sometimes i just think well maybe their too shy to ask me out.. but then thats still not an answer thats good enough. but i mean i dont think theres anything wrong with not having a boyfriend yet. most ive mine havent had one yet either so i dont know, maybe well have more luck than the others later on in life.

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Ok here u goes. I'm 17/male. And there's our neighbor sta**/Female who's 30. The problems that I think she sexually desires me. It all starts when she began to smile to me 2 month ago just after we moved to this new neighborhood. Anyway I was surprised last morning when she called me while passing her house. (She was outside and I respond her). So she handled my hand and moved it inside the shirt &I touch her breast. I can't deny that I felt erotic in that moment." I WANT U": Were her words. She told me that she wants 4rom me to have sex with her. Then I removed my hand quickly saying that I am late for school and I run away.
I am confused….should I refused or agreed?? Because she really success to seduce me and SHE'S REALLY HOT and SEXY and I am physically attracted to her. I know that she's older… What should I do????
Ps: I flirt many times and had sex 3 times.
Thanks 4 advices. Justin
Email:justin_frogy@yahoo.com











that's your choise. but just think. what if she gets pregnant? would you be willing to live with her and take care of the baby with her? or is it just a mean time crush.

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My dream is to become a singer.. Do you have any tips on how I could get out there? Or any adresses I could send some demos to?

well to get your self know or your name out there you could try talent shows or if your city is doing a town festival or something ask if you could be in it.

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i want to know how old i will be when i die. i dont want to die at a young age. here lately i have been so worried about it. can you help me out?

well no one really knows when someone's going to die. but the healthyer you are the longer you live. So eating healthy and excersizing, staying in fit will kep you alive longer.
simone

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Her name is Allison, and she is AMAZING. I would ask her out, but I have one problem. I'm shy. What do I do to get over it?

I know how you feel. But i mean sometimes we shy people have to just take chances and over come it. we wont get anywhere if we are always shy about everything. i mean i like this guy but i dont really have the guts to tell him but then the other part of me is like i need to! so i guess just follow your gut and tell her how you think you should. weather it be in a letter, postcard, in person, in private, on the fone. but not IM. make sure you can hear her voice and she can hear yours. what ever feels most comfterable for you.
simone

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Ok, I like to sing.. and Im pretty good at it(not to be concieded or w/e) but I have the worst stage fright and everyone gets mad when I dont get up in front of ppl and sing.. Its like my personality I am really outgoing and crazy if I know you and am comfortable around you, but if I dont know you Im kinda shy and everything..how do I overcome this!?

it just takes practice. and the more youre on stage the more you get used to it. and one day youll realize that if you really love to sing you wont worry about being scared on stage and it will all pass. i went through the same thing. but maybe if you do sing on stage for the first few times maybe get a partner that can also sing so you wont be alone.

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Ok this could be long! I am in 8th grade and last year there was a kid in my class. EvEryone made fun of him and he was bipolar and had some mental problems. Well, yesterday 11/3. He attempted suicude for the second time. He jumped from the bak of a moving school bus and he is now in acoma. He broke his arm and probably his bak and neck too. He isn't dead though. ThEre was BLooD everywhere. The first time he tried to stab himself with scissors. I feel really bad because I was one to make fun of him. How can i make myself not feel so bad? ALl my freinds say im different since but im really scared for the kid. He seems like he could be nice. Plese help will rate. _-HeArtbreaker-__

well just wish for him to get better and then when its all over maybe try to get to know him, instead of making fun of how he looks or something. Maybe talk to his family and wish them luck too for him.

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How much do you guys think look really matter? i think I have to be attracted to the person I'm dating so it's always been about 40% for me. BUT, sometimes if the person isn't the hottest but has a killer personality, it kind of pushes their hottness up, you know? So what do you guys think?

i totally agree with you. i mean look isnt all that important but if they have a great pesonality the yea they definitally are more attractive.

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im 13 years old, and im afraid of the dark still. ok, let me rephrase that: im not exactly afraid, but everytime i am someplace dark, i feel very uncomfortable, like something is watching/following me. i know its not real, which is why i need help: first of all, is it weird that i feel afraid at 13, and also what can i do to make myself not scared? thx in advance ill rate all 5s!

no its not weird. eveyones scared or uncomfterable of something. actually i feel uncomfterble in the dark too, becuase you cant see anything. so then your imagination goes wild and then you start freaking out. but i guess to make the fear go away you just need to relax and not worry about it so much. i mean it sounds easyer than it seems but it will take some work.

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Occasionally I'll just catch a 'glimpse' of a girls chest when I'm talking to her, sometimes they notice, sometimes they don't. Do you think its rude or offensive? I don't do it on purpose, but I do realize when I do it. If most would rather that not happen then I'd try to stop. So what do you think?

well most girls dont really like it when guys do that. it makes them look like their not paying attantion and their imagening things that you guys imagine lol

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( im a 13/m ) and i need some awesome things to say to my gf because we are dating long distance, and over the phone i need to say some cool things to my gf like about how much i love her and stuff. I need this info asap thanks!


(a website link would work too)

easy 5's guys!!!

the easyest thing to do is just tell her what you feel from the heart. because i dont really know how much you love her so i dont know lol..
hope i helped.
simone

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13/m, insanely long story short, we were friends, over the summer I realized I liked her, I told her because it was driving me insane, she wasn't sure in what way she liked me. In other words, she felt sorry for me and didn't want to hurt my feelings by telling me she didn't like me as more than a friend but didn't want to lie by saying she did like me. Don't give me any of that "teenagers don't know love" crap. Even if we don't, infatuation is a vital phase in our lives, eh? So anyway, after a while, I started dreaming about her---I even dreamt that I asked her out successfully one time!---and everything started reminding me of her... the usual stuff. I tried asking her out in person. Didn't work. So I was over her for about 3 days. Then everything reminded me of her---even more!!! When school started, we found things too awkward to talk to each other. It was just... weird. Things have started getting better though. But it was weird for about a month or two. The only way we talked was over AIM.

Then last week I started playing guitar, using my dad's old electric one and one of his acoustics, depending on which one my sister (she was also trying to learn) was using. So I was IMing her (she plays acoustic) and then I said that I was trying to learn guitar, and that my next attempt to play a piece was Another One Bites The Dust. Her response? "thats totally hott!!!" So that was pretty cool. Then the next day I walked into school and she stopped me right in front of the science room. She had dreamt about me. Apparently, I started rocking on the electric guitar, and then she joined in on acoustic, and it was cool, and then we went to the moon. She's a spaz.

But anyway, does she finally like me? Everyone said she liked me last year. My friends, my family, they were all saying it. But we were both in denial. Like one time my best friend came up to us and said, "You know, *her name*, you look like *my name*'s boyfriend!" We both dismissed that thought and walked away. But she was like flirting with me all year. And as the class loser/nerd, I'm blind to anyone dropping hints or flirting with me.

Yesterday I IMed one of her best friends and asked if she had liked me last year. ("She" being the person I liked, not her best friend.) She logged out. Does that mean something? Or did she honestly not know?

Last night I dreamt that the friend IMed me back and sent me the URL of a blog about me. It was all about how much she liked me last year. It was really sweet! And then in science class that day someone put the Spamalot soundtrack into a CD player and the only 2 people who knew the words were her and me. So we did a duet of The Song That Goes Like This. It was cool.

So obviously she's taken over my life, if I honestly call this a "long story short" which it honestly is, surprisingly. I can't stop thinking about her. Everything reminds me of her. Roller coasters? We went to a carnival together. Egypt? She hugged me on the day I made a presentation on Egypt. The game Batik? It sounds like a Greek-ish name, she's from Greece. Obviously I'm obsessed. Is there any way to stop that apart from finding someone else? Because right now I've kinda got my mind set on her...

A few more questions. Does she like me? How can I find out? I think I had a few more but I forget what they are...

A few things not to say:
-There are other fish in the sea. I'm not really looking for others, first I have to either get her to like me or to get over her. Take life one step at a time.

-You could probably pick up any girl! Not really, most girls hate me, whether it's because I'm really nerdy, I'm a loser, I talk too much, or I don't really care about my looks and thus aren't hot.

-You've got the rest of your life to live! Well, yes, but first, I have to reach the rest of my life outside an insane asylum!

Yeah... I'm sorry, when I get started on her I just keep going and going and going... sorry... I should probably shut up now. Oh, and any responses violating the ToS will be reported without hesitation. That includes unhelpful advice. Thank you so much, you don't know how much this means to me!!!

P.S. For what it's worth, she's hugged me three times... every time I've rejected it for some unknown reason... like if you've ever read Flowers for Algernon, you know how whenever he got too close to Alice Kinnian he got scared and couldn't go through with it for some unknown reason? Yeah, it's like that. I'm still partially child and I guess half my mind is ready for this and half my mind is still saying that "girl are icky" or something like that....

wow i feel the same way about this one boy. but anyway. yea its VERY possible that she does like you. and your dreams could just mean how much you like her or what you would like to happen or the straight facts. So i guess it depends on how you look on it. but ifyou really wanna know just have a talk with her. privatly. and get deep so she tells you more.

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Okay I was just wondering what is the law now for getting your permit and license? Because I heard they changed it. Well I'm 15 now and I'm turning 16 in March.

well im not sure if they changed it everywhere but here (tx) they changed it to that if you are born in 1991 or younger you cant get your permit until 16.

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