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what do you want
simple question, long story behind it, but i want to know, what do girls want in guys?
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well almost every girl is different! i hate it when a guy smiles at me alot cause it gets on my nervs even if i like him back :-) and well i think girls just want some1 who will always be there for you and 2 trust! other girls just want a boyfriend 2 look cool and then there girls who just want sex and stuff like that. well first you gotta know that girl you like and then you'll see the answer urself and u could also talk to her!
hope i helped
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It changes from girl to girl. I personally have very specific requirements, plus fifty or so optional extras. That sounds kinda silly, like I'm talking about a computer or a house or something. But a girl is allowed to dream, right?
But there IS a basic list of essentials that pretty much every girl (presuming she likes males) agrees on:
-He cannot cheat on her.
-He cannot be a rapist.
-He cannot act like he doesn't care.
-He should tell her that she is the most attractive woman in the universe, and be sincere, even when she looks like shit.
And that's basically it. If I went into anything else it would pretty much be personal preference. But those are the top four things for (almost) every girl.
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Simle answer: what girls look for in guys is for them to just be themselves, and you got it. And whatever your long story is good luck
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ok i'll just list some things,girls like romantic guys,tell her you love her,and compliment her,show her you care,be polite (open doors for her)(be a gentleman)lol,umm,be protective of the girl,if some 1 is mean to her say something defensive in her place,gifts-girls love sweet things,try a single rose or a bear or something for her birthday,and if you truly love her get her a ring,(shows you care)everytime she looks at that ring it will remind her of you,(trust me,)leave notes in her locker(if possible)just cute little things like that basically,hope this helps,
Jasmine,
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a guy who is different from the rest, and loves her FOR her and not because she's hot or anything.
she wants to hear shes BEAUTiFUL, not sexy . she wants a guy she can go to in sweats, makeup running down her face from crying, hair a mess, baggy clothes on and the first thing he tells her is ' youre beautifl ' . she wants kisses on the forehead, or kisses in the rain . dance with her with no music, its very romantic. you should be yourself around her, cause then she will be able to be HERself around YOU.
did i help ? hope so =]
<3Jamie
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ok dont listen to that i am crying guy... hun not ALL girls are back stabbing b!tches...
i cant tell you what ALL girls would want in a guys but someone like me would want a guy that..
1) Listens and doesnt just let it go in one ear and out the other...
2) Never lies... i hate it when people lie to me.. it hurts worse than ne thing and im sure alotta other girls would say the same..
3) When u say you care about them.. MEAN IT!
4) Doesnt let their friends influence how they feel about that person but then again respects their friend when their friend tells them their g/f was caught doing something wrong (like cheating*which I'D never do at leats..)
5) A guy who can hang out w/ his g/f and his friends at the same time.. i hate guys who would diss their friends for their g/f.. thats just wrong ..
6) a guy that can be honest and tell you the truth about how your acting or if you look bad w/o thinking youll get mad at him...(i wouldnt)
7) A guy that can make a girl laugh ...love that the most...!
8) A GUY THAT WILL DEFEND THEM..
I cant say these things would go for all girls but they would for a person like me.. im not high maintanance or anything like that... i just want someone whos honest for the most part.. to bad around elmira u cant find ne of them.. :-/ but i prolly didnt help you much .. haha i guess it all depends on how the girls act in your area babe... but if you ever need someone to talk to my screen name is... CutUpAngelz013
***Kayla...
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From a guy to another guy, girls just want someone to take advantage of and someone to walk all over. They only end up caring about themselves, and their needs, and never care about what males care about.
They're all about power, and feeling more superior to guys.
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Every girl is different but i would want : shaggy hair, hot , nice , cares , always there for me and thats it .. but the SHAGGY HAiR iS THE M0ST iMP F0R ME ♥
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What kind of question is that? FUCK IF I KNOW
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Well some girls usually tend to go for the "bad boy" types. The ones that are always getting in trouble and everything. They just seem more exciting and dangerous and tough, and that's what appeals to some girls, but in the end those guys are no good. They just end up breaking the girls heart. Most girls tend to like the nice guys though that are thoughtful and sweet and can be funny but serious. Just someone they can trust and talk to and they'll feel safe with. And mostly, we want the guy to be themselves. =] I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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they want:
a guy with brains
a guy to defend them
a guy who holds there hand no matter where they are or how hott it is ouside
a guy who kisses them randomly and tells them they love them
a guy that they can get along with in a friendship and a relationship
someone they are not only physically attracted to but mentally.
someone who shows them the same amount or more of respect and love that they give
someone who cares about how they feel and can tell when there is something wrong just by the sound in their voice!
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outgoing, sweet, caring, independent, good personality, a good listener, those are the easiest ways to put it.
*~Stephanie~*
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well every girl is different but here's my opinion: i want a guy that i feel protected by.. i know that no matter what i say, he'll be there. he shows up to things, he opens doors and really cares about me. its a lot of the same qualities i look for in my guy friends: honesty, trust, some sensativity, support, understanding and a lot of fun to be with. as for looks, someone that looks put together, clean and is himself. <3
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every girl has their different dream guy. like for instance i like funny, sweet, music talkented, sport guys lol while my friend goes for the total bad boy. dirty, smart a$$, dare devil. i think you get my point. but all i can say is if your just yourself then im sure you'll find a girl that like the way you are. just dont try to be someone your not.
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crazygoober2006 gave a great answer and i completely agree with that.. Litlle things matter the most to us.. ♥ Dez
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Girls LOVE chivalry (opening doors for them, initiating the first move, etc.), looks are good, but not foremost, we love it when a guy acts cute and isn't headstrong, we love to feel protected. If something is wrong, we love it when a guy notices and is concerned. We love it if you smell good. (Guys' cologne is AMAZING!!!) We like eye to eye contact. If we are sick, we love to feel taken care of (or they at least try to make us feel better ;-) It's the little things, whether they realize it or not, that mean the most. Good luck, and I hope this gives you a heads up!
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every girl will have different answers but an awesome personality is always the best. honest, funny, kind, caring, and just an all around good guy. someone who doesn't lead you on is a good thing too.
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