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advice

I recently startd chatin with s guy and finally I met him on a blind apparentli we ended up at his house.. Then he started kissing me out of my own will and however we made out,I felt bad after it bcos I hardly kno him and we just saw eachother for the first time.. So he asked me out after I told him how I felt and I said yes.. We are just a few days old and he wants to have sex with me I don't know if this is real or is he fooling with me and tells me that he loves me.. He also hasn't made our relationship publis too I am confused I need advice...

Hey there,

Okay the fact that he started kissing you against your will shows that he is pushy and forceful.
You said it yourself you hardly know him. So I ask you this why would you consider having sex with someone you hardly know?
It seems like he is only after one thing. And one thing only.
Real love doesn't develop over a few days or weeks. It takes real time to grow and mature. That person has to prove they are utterly devoted to you and you only. There has to be trust honesty and commitment. You have to feel completely comfortable with them. You have to really know each other and your personalities. It took me and my boyfriend well over a year to say we loved each other.
It sounds like he is only telling you what you want to hear to get into your pants.
Don't be fooled. Back out before you get seriously hurt.
He hasn't even made your relationship public? All the warning signs are there. He sounds like a jerk.
My advice would be to end it and move on. Keep yourself busy with friends and hobbies and someone special will come along soon.
Good luck and much

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While I was on my period, i decided to stop taking my birth control & had sex WHILE i was on my period. Now i'm 20 days late, is this an imbalance because of my birth control, or could i be pregnant? help please!

Hey there,

Did you have unprotected sex? Because if you did there is a very high chance you could be pregnant.
It's very possible you could have a hormone imbalance. However it is more plausible that you are pregnant. Take a home pregnancy test. It's the only way to know for sure. If it turns up negative go to the doctor for a blood test to determine a possible hormone imbalance.
This can be easily regulated with pills.
Good luck and I hope I helped
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13/f. I need advice....
I really like this guy in my class. He's funny, smart, loud, athletic and easygoing! Oh but did I mention popular? I heard from my friend that he likes me but how can I be sure?(cause we're totally opposite yet I can see us together.).

Hey there,
Okay well take note of the way he acts around you.
Does he flirt a lot? Smile? Make eye contact?
What is his body language like?does he find ways to touch or brush up against you?
It's always hard trying to gage if a guy likes you. The only for sure way to tell is to put yourself out there. Flirt and see if he flirts back.
Talk to him get to know him :) Find out his interests. Ask for his number? add him on facebook.
The worst that can happen is he only wants to be your friend. Which will suck at first but hey a friend gained is better than none at all. And plus there will be plenty more guys. You're only thirteen after all.
So give it a go! You'll never know unless you try.
:)
good luck and much

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I'm 11 and my boyfriend is twelve and I wanna kiss him and he wants to kiss me but he says not yet we hav been together sx months what do I do

Hey there,

Don't rush it. It will happen when it happens. Remember you are both still really young! There is plenty of time for kissing. He is probably extremely nervous. It's likely this is his first kiss and he wants to make it as perfect and as special as possible.
He probably doesn't want you to think he his a bad kisser. Have a talk to him and ask what is holding him back.
Other than that honestly just be patient it will happen. I didn't have my first kiss until I was 14.
Good luck and much

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I have this problem of saying things i don't mean and last night i said "Fuck YOu" to my boyfriend over voicemail. I called a minute later and apologized for what i did. It just slipped out i didn't mean it. But he said that he can no longer be with me. Is there anything i can do to make it better?

Hey there,

Why exactly did you say fuck you? Did he say something you didn't like or to offend you? Or were you just joking?
Either way it seems pretty harsh that he no longer wants to be with you after that.
We all say things in the heat of the moment that we don't mean. If you have sincerely apologized then there isn't much more you can do if he is going to be immature about it. Try apologize one more time and if he doesn't want to hear it well then move on. Someone that immature is not worth your time or effort.
Good luck and much

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My boyfriend broke up with me on Tuesday, about a week ago. Things were kinda like different like 2 weeks before that but we weren't fighting. We never fight. He just told me he wasn't happy but it wasn't me and not to worry. But it ended, unfortunately

He said he was so nervous to come over and do it and he was shaken up. He said he has been thinking about what to do for a little bit and even when he said he wasn't thinking about it, he was thinking about it. He said he made lists, wrote things down, cried at night, read my notes that I gave him, but he said he thinks it's best that we be done right now and if it's meant to be, we will be together.

It didn't end bad for a beakup. I said "I can't hate you, I can't be mad at you, I can't call you a dick or a douchebag or an ass. All I hope for you is that you find happiness because you deserve to be happy and you deserve the very best. And if you need anything you know I'm here for you and my door is always open for you." Then we hugged and I gave him a kiss on the forehead. He said that killed him to hear that and he doesn't deserve it and I deserve to he happy.. he was crying a lot .. He kept apologizing and saying he is sorry. He hates hurting me. I know he is hurt by it.. he said he will always be here for me and if I need him to call or text. He said he will still bend over backwards for me

He has only had 3 girlfriends, including me and I know his last two ended up bad. The first girlfriend was a psycho apparently and the second one cheated on him, and then there was me. I know he has been hurt in the past and it kills me that people hurt him because he is the sweetest guy I have ever met in my entire life. I keep thinking that maybe since I was the first person to actually give a damn and who actually cared more about him then about herself, that maybe without knowing it, it freaked him out. He has been confused lately. And something is telling me it's because he was scared because he found someone who really and truly cared about him.

He said to me like a month ago that he was falling in love with me and it scared the shit out of him. He would ask me if I could see myself with him in the future and I said yeah I can, can you? and He would say "Yes I can. I can see us going to my cabin, the beach, a bunch of other places. I can see a lot with you down the road." And he said to me before that we would need like 30 air conditioners in our house because I'm always sweating and hot.

I keep thinking that maybe this summer when we are both at home and we have time for ourselves, space, and everything, we come back to school and we can work things back out. He said that it isn't me, that I never did anything wrong and that's why deep down I feel like we can work through this. We have an online class together next year and he said that we would study and whatnot together.

That makes me think that maybe we can try and work things back out. But I don't know.

I told him that I still want him in my life and he said I know and I want to still be in your life too. He said I was never a bad girlfriend and to never think that. He said he is always going to worry about me and he still cares an awful lot. He said he didn't mean to make me feel this hurt, not at all. He kept saying he's truly very sorry for everything. Idk something is telling me deep down that we can work through it. But I don't know if that's wishful thinking or me being stupid.



I went out with my friend on Sunday night it was her 21st birthday. My ex-boyfriend didn't come along cause he had a lot of work to do and honestly who goes out on a sunday. hahah Instead, his roommate came with us. Everything was fine until my friend and I were going to go back to another friend's apartment to have more drinks and whatnot and our guy friend who came out with us asked me what I was doing. and I said "what does it matter? I have no one that cares anymore" and he said "yes you do" and I said "he doesn't care anymore, he doesn't care so what the hell does it matter what I do now" and he said "he does care. he does" and I said "no he doesnt!" and he said "stop it! yes he does. if he didn't care about you why would he be texting me all night asking me to make sure you are okay and to make sure nothing happened to you."

Well then I started crying. You know how that goes. You have one two many drinks in you and sometimes your emotions go crazy. My guy friend was like "he does care.. he's just being a confused guy right now. you just need to be strong." I forget what else he said but it was along those lines.

We still talk and whatnot and we see each other in class, but now that classes are over and summer is rapidly approaching I'm freaking out that it's gonna just be done.

I've been getting many mixed signals lately. I don't know if he might be realizing he made a mistake or maybe it's just me wishful thinking. :/ It's just really confusing. :(


I'm so sorry this is so long and I appreciate it so much that you took the time to read and respond. I honestly just don't know what to think or do or anything. I was just hoping maybe you would have an idea or some helpful advice or something. :) Again, thanks so much for your time.

ps we are both 21

Hey there,
Thank you for inboxing me :)
Im sorry I'm late replying!
Okay well it definitely sounds like he loves you a lot.
It's clear at the moment he doesn't quite know what he wants. He loves you but is confused. Maybe the thought of commitment is freaking him out? Did he actually give you a reason for the break up other than it wasn't your fault?
If he has broken up with you he needs to realise he can't be involved in the decisions you make any more. Sure he can be there as a friend and look out for you but not to the point of becoming obsessive. It was sweet that his friend said he cared about you but that shouldn't have stopped you going to the apartment if you wanted to.
You need to decide is it worth putting your life on hold for a guy.
Because that is essentially what you will be doing.
Waiting. Until he makes his mind up and figures stuff out. And when he does who's to say this type of thing won't happen again?
You can work through it only if he is willing to give it another go. It has to be a two party thing. You wanting it and him not isn't going to work. You're just going to drive yourself crazy.
Try sit down with him and have a proper talk. Tell him you need to know his reasons. You deserve at least that much.
No matter how much you love someone sometimes you just have to let them go. What use is it wasting away your life while you wait for someone else to figure themselves out? When you could be out enjoying yourself and living your life in the mean time.
The fact that falling in love with you scared the shit out of him is a strong indicator that he is not ready for commitment despite saying he could see himself with you.
I think you were on to something when you said the fact that you are not like the other girls who hurt him scared him.
Perhaps that is what he is used to. And doesn't know how to handle it when he isn't being hurt. Like he's afraid to let his guard down for fear of being hurt. That is something that is always going to hold him back unless he learns to deal with it.
So in a nutshell I would advise you to have a heart to heart see where you stand and then seriously consider moving on. As hard and painful as it may be. Way up the pros and cons in the long wrong.
If he wants to give it another go ,go for it by all means but he has to prove to you that he isn't gonna leave you again down the line.
I'm sorry I couldn't be of more help. This is a difficult enough situation as it's hard to know why exactly he left you other than being confused. It doesn't really make sense.
I understand how you must be feeling. But be strong. If anything you will still have a great friend in him Don't let that go if you can help it.
Good luck and Much

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I need advice! 12/f
There is a new kid in my class but I don't socialize with him that often. How do I socialize with him without creeping him out? Thanks!!!

Hey there,

Just talk to him! :) get to know him. Be friendly. Get to know his interests you have an abundance of things to talk about. School, movies, music, tv you name it.
You won't be creeping him out by getting to know him. Chances are he will be happy that people are making an effort with him being new and all.
Take the chance and put yourself out there you have nothing to lose. You may just make a great friend in the process. Add him on facebook if you have it or ask for his number once you get talking.
Good luck hope this helps
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Ok, so my boyfriend wants to finger me and its gonna be me and him's first time and I haven't even started my period yet is it ok for him to finger me?? Oh and he is 16 and I'm 15, Thanks.

Hey there,

Yes it's perfectly fine :) whether or not you have started your period makes absolutely no difference.
It might be a little uncomfortable starting off as you're not used to it. Make sure he is gentle and show him what works for you!
Good luck
Much

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My first love did me horribly wrong. And now he just forgot about me and I don't think it's fair that he gets to be happy with someone. What happened to karma? It's not fair he needs to get what he deserves. How can he just walk away like that. I just want to get over him and not care what do I do?

Hey there,
It may not be fair but that's life. He has moved on and now you must do the same.
There is no point sitting around being bitter angry and jealous over it. He is not worth it. You are wasting your time and your energy. You deserve better. Be the bigger person. He can walk away like that because he is a selfish person who obviously has no respect or regard for other peoples feelings.
One day he will know how it feels to be hurt. But it's not up to you to inflict that hurt.
To get over him you need to be strong and hard on yourself. Keep busy. Hang out with friends do things you enjoy. If you find yourself starting to think about him distract yourself. Delete his number don't look at any of his social networking sites and let go of the jealousy. It will take time but you will feel soo much better for it trust me.
In time someone better will come a long some one worthy of your time. Just be patient and enjoy being single for now without the stress and drama of a relationship.
Good luck and much

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my girlfriend for 6 months says to me it is ok if we have a threesome but it has to be with another guy i say ok! that was 2 weeks ago and she never mention it since. now should i make it happen to surprise and please her or wait till she brings it up again? and is it too soon? if i go thru with it will it mess up are relationship?

Hey there,
Okay this can be a very contentious issue. Some would have no problem with threesomes others would see it as wrong and detrimental to the relationship.
If you decide to go through with it you have to be 100% sure and ready to deal with the consequences and emotional baggage that comes along with it.
If she hasn't mentioned it and it is bothering you then talk to her about it. Ask her why it interests her and does she not feel completely happy and satisfied with you. You have to make sure she is doing it for the right reasons. It may be a sexual fantasy of hers. Some couples are into swinging etc.
you have to make sure she has no feelings for this other guy. Ask yourself how are you going to feel watching another guy touch your girlfriend.
If its something that is going to be a fun enjoyable experience for both of you well then by all means go ahead if you are both in agreement.
Good luck and much

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Can anybody kill me? Seriously...

20 years old from greece

Nobody Is going to kill you. That would be murder.
Or euthanasia whichever way you look at it.


Jess 18/f

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My mom coughs and spits up mucus everytime we go walking around the park in the morning. She has diabetes, glaucoma and she has had pneumonia. She coughs a lot and spits up mucus but she does it a lot after we walk in the morning. She coughs and spits up mucus when she smells smoke or smoke from food or when its hot she starts coughing. Is it because she used to have pneumonia or that she smokes?

Hi there,
Okay I'm not a doctor and the only one who can tell for sure would be a doctor. However It sounds to me like catarrh.
It's where mucus or phlegm drips down the back of the nasal passageway and the throat.
I have a similar problem myself. It usually happens more when I am stressed and it's heightened when I am sick. It's pretty harmless more of a annoyance really. My doctor prescribed tablets to keep it under control and that helped a lot. So it could be that. There are a lot of things that trigger catarrh. Also given that she smokes could really worsen it. It could also be associated with smokers cough. It could also most definitely be associated with the pneumonia!
She needs to see a doctor straight away to sort it out.
It could be something minor like catarrh smokers cough or an after affect or pneumonia. Or it could be much more serious. Encourage her to go.
Good luck and I hope this helps
Much

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I'm a 16 year old female who was sexually abused two weeks ago, and knows about the pain and awful trauma that follows. My abuser is in jail, and I feel good knowing he won't do it again. Last night, a 19 year old guy kept on asking me to have sex with him, and he was very inappropriate and not giving up, even after I told him I was a virgin. He later apologized when I told him I was calling the police, cuz he was really scared. I feel if I don't tell on him, he might actually hurt other girls, and I don't want to take responsibility for that. But he didn't actually do anything. Should I tell on him? I don't want to ruin his life...

Hey there,
Let me start by saying how sorry I am that you were abused. I commend you on having the strength to report him that takes a lot of courage.
It also takes a lot of will power to have said no to this 19 year old. Again Kudos for that many would have caved in.
Hmm this is a tough situation. Given he didn't physically do anything but it can still be seen as sexual harassment. In my opinion if you did report him he probably wouldn't go to jail given the lack of evidence. It would literally be a case of he said she said. You know your word against his. However it might indeed give him the shock into not doing it again.
Its a case of trying to decide okay is he actually a sexual predator or just a horny teenager desperate for sex?
What he did was wrong no doubt about it no one should be pressured or forced to have sex. But there are some selfish guys out there who will push their luck.
Its up to whether to report him or not. If I were you I would just so the police could keep an eye on him to make sure he isn't a threat to other girls. But don't expect too much to happen given the lack of evidence.
Good luck and I hope this helps
Much

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I was talking to this guy for about a while. We planned on hanging out and then he said it wanted it to be just us,so it was obviously a date. I was busy for about a week so we didn't really talk. Then I went to text him and he seemed really distant. Then the next week I found out he's dating this other girl. Obviously I was hurt and just stopped talking to him. This happened in March. Now today he "bumped" into me,gave me a hug and asked how I was. He walked with me to class and this is awkward but he bent over so I could bump into him and was really flirty. I didn't want to be rude to him then but im still really angry about what he did. Today I went and checked Facebook and he's still dat
ing the other girl. I feel like he's a jerk that doesn't deserve my time but I still like him. What should I do?

Hey there,
Okay you summed it up in a nutshell when you said "I feel like he's a jerk that doesn't deserve my time"
You're right he IS a jerk. And a player at that. Sorry to be blunt but it's obvious he had you and that girl on the go at the same time. When you were busy that week he must have decided to go with the other girl. And now he is flirting with you because he still thinks he can have you whenever he wants. Don't give him the satisfaction. Trust me I know I've been there. It's soo hard because they can be so sweet and charming then the next minute cold and disinterested. But you tend to forget about all that crap when they are being really sweet.
But don't you will be playing right into the palm of his hand otherwise.
If he really liked you he would have text you when you didn't really talk to see if you were okay or what was going on. But he didn't he flitted off with some other girl.
Left it to you to initiate conversation.
He isn't worth your time move on to someone who will truly appreciate you.
In the meantime don't flirt with him don't even acknowledge him. If he texts ignore it or be really short. Let him know you are in control here.
Keep busy with friends and other activities to keep your mind off him. Before you know it someone better will come along.
Good luck hope I helped
much

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I'm sorry if this should be in the family section but this is about a conversation I had with one of my best guy friends. I'm 16/f

Well somehow we got into the topic about how guys can't date or hook up with their best friends sister, so first question is shouldn't that be up to the sister? Shouldn't she get a say in this?
And then he started talking about how it's because brothers are protective of their sisters and I understand it's because they don't want to see us girls get hurt but why can't they realize we can take care of ourselves we aren't babies and don't guys understand that whether they like it or not we will get hurt, it can't be prevented. Is this just by instinct or something?
But don't get me wrong I am greatful that u guys have my back I appreciate it I just don't understand some of the reasoning behind it
Thanks and I hope my questions were clear

Hey there,
I guess it's pretty much a loyalty thing between guys.
You're right it should be as much the girls decision as the guys but unfortunately it rarely is. It's just another silly aspect of society and what is deemed "acceptable" and "unacceptable"
You would think a guy would be happy his friend wants to date his sister seeing as they trust them the most.
But for some reason it's almost always seen as betrayal.
Of course this is a general stereotype there are some guys out there who are dating their best friends sister.
A lot of it could also be down to jealousy. The guy may feel pushed out and left out if his best friend suddenly got with his sister. He would have less time to spend with him. When he comes over to his house instead of spending time with him he is there for his sister.
Switch the roles around. How would you feel if your best friend got with your brother?and suddenly you rarely saw her or hung out with or anymore? pretty sucky. That can be another reason behind it.
My cousins brother got with her best friend and at first she hated it but she soon came around once her friend made time for both of them. That's the important thing should this situation arise that all involved are not left feeling ignored or pushed aside.
That's my take on it anyway I hope it helped!
Much

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I self injured in high school, I'm almost 20 now, been clean and I wonder why does no one talk about it? I just mean, there are so many kids out there who struggle with this, and those kids turn into adults, I mean, I still struggle with my addiction sometimes, but why aren't people getting educated about it? It makes me upset that the topic is so "taboo" that it's completely closed off. So why not open up the topic and help our own? I just don't understand. I'm just confused and this is something I'm passionate about. Any answers for me?

Hey there,
Firstly let me start by congratulating you on over coming your problem that takes a lot of strength determination and courage.
I completely agree with you. The lack of education and prevention on self harming is appalling.
People don't like to talk about it because they don't like to admit that there actually is a problem.
Instead they close their eyes to it and pretend it's not happening. When in reality it's all around us and is a serious issue.
Every day we are seeing more and more awareness for the likes of depression and suicide so why not self harming?
It in itself is a key component of both isn't it?
If you are so passionate about it I'd suggest you go about raising awareness yourself? who better to advocate support than someone who has been through it themselves? You could help raise awareness by going to schools and giving talks setting up fundraisers a charity maybe a website or something?I know It's a long shot but it's worth looking into if you care about something.
I suffered a drug induced mental breakdown after my drink got spiked 7months ago and mental illness is something I have now become passionate about and would one day like to raise awareness on in the future.
There is no limit to what you can do once you set your mind and heart on something.
I wish I had more answers for you but I don't unfortunately.
Why not search for some websites or organizations about self harming?surely there are some. You could become involved with them!
Good luck and I hope I helped.
Much

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18/f

So my boyfriend fingered me for the first time today and it HURT. What can I do to make it more comfortable?

Hey there,
Okay this is completely normal especially if you haven't already broken your hymen. The other alternative is your boyfriend could have been a bit rough and perhaps tore or scratched you inside. It takes some getting used to. A lot of stretching out and such. Your boyfriend needs to get to know your body and understand what works for you. So play around a bit (there is nothing wrong with it) and find out what feels good for you. That way you can show him the next time to make it less painful and more comfortable.
Some people just don't enjoy fingering Myself included.
You may have to be stimulated before hand. Have your boyfriend rub your clitoris first and then try fingering. Do a lot of touching and kissing maybe try oral. anything to help relax you. If you 're stressing over it hurting then you are just going to tense up and chances are it will.
Try different techniques and things will start to feel better. It's a case of practice trial and error :)
Good luck hope this helps
Much

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Whenever my boyfriend is stressed out, I make sure I am there for him 100% and I always talk to him to calm him down and offer to help. This usually happens when he's stressed over work or homework. Basically I'm really verbally involved and supportive. Whenever I get stressed, over homework or just for whatever reason at the time, he often just doesn't support me the same as I do, and that frustrates me so much because I'm looking for the same from him that I give him. Am I over reacting? A lot of times he gets silent and says, what would you like me to do? I dont know if I am wrong or not. 20/f

Hey there,
Okay firstly I do not think you are over reacting at all.
You're right to want the support of your boyfriend it's only natural.
especially since you invest so much time in supporting him.
He probably finds it difficult in knowing what to say or do to make you feel better. Perhaps it's hard for him to express himself in these types of situations. I have a friend like that who gets all awkward whenever someone is stressed or upset.
Have a talk to him. Tell him exactly how you feel. How you feel under appreciated when he doesn't support you as much. Tell him what you need from him in return. Suggest ways that he can help you. I know you might say you shouldn't have to but if it's hard for him it'll help.
Ask him why he doesn't show as much interest in supporting you.
Is it because he doesn't know what to do or simply that he doesn't care?If it's the latter (which I'm sure it's not) Then you really need to rethink the relationship.
Good luck and I hope this helps.
Much

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I really want a boyfriend!! A lot of people I know have a boyfriend and I don't. I have heard someone say,"Just flirt." I don't want to though!! Please help me!

*h3rmioneg*

Hey there,
Firstly don't be in such a rush to get a boyfriend, I know it's hard seeing other couples but it will happen when it happens :) You don't want to come off desperate.
It can be frustrating but the right guy will come along when the time is right.
You have to put yourself out there though. It's scary and daunting and the fear of rejection can hold a lot of people back but if you don't try you will never know or get anywhere.
If flirting is hard for you just talk to guys. Get to know them. Ask them to hang out. Start texting or facebooking.
Maybe see if any of your friends boyfriends friends are single and you can maybe double date?
In the meantime don't get too hung up about not having a boyfriend. Enjoy being single while you can. Before the stress and commitment that comes with a relationship.
Good luck and I hope this helps
Much

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There is this guy I've been best friends with for 5 years now and I know the saying that all best friends eventually fall in love. Well I think I'm starting to like him but I'm not really sure. I guess I'll have to give it time but he is not the type that would admit likeing a girl. He has never had a girlfriend and is shy on that side of things. But he makes me happy and has never let me down. What should I do? If I tell him I like him now and he doesn't back, things could get real ackward. Thanks.

Hey there,
Okay If I were you I would give it time.
These feelings you are having for him might pass or they might develop more.
As you say you are not quite sure at the moment and that's okay.
About three years ago I was in a similar situation. I started to like my best friend but I was a bit sceptical in case he didn't like me back. and I would ruin the friendship I gave it a month or two to see if my feelings were real. I found that I couldn't stop thinking about him no matter how hard I tried. So I took the risk and it paid off. We are still together to this day.
Give it time. Then you have to decide whether its worth it or not. Look for signs that he likes you back like obvious flirting body language etc.
You need to decide whether to put yourself out there or not. Of course there are obvious pros and cons and you have to be prepared for both. If he truly values your friendship and doesn't feel the same way he shouldn't let it come between you two forever.
Sure things will be awkward for a while but then they will go back to normal. Again I had an experience with this before. It was 6th grade I told my really good friend I liked him but he didn't feel the same..he was awkward for a while then it just went back to normal :)
Good luck with whatever you choose to do. Hope I helped
Much

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