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should I quit this relationship or not
I recently startd chatin with s guy and finally I met him on a blind apparentli we ended up at his house.. Then he started kissing me out of my own will and however we made out,I felt bad after it bcos I hardly kno him and we just saw eachother for the first time.. So he asked me out after I told him how I felt and I said yes.. We are just a few days old and he wants to have sex with me I don't know if this is real or is he fooling with me and tells me that he loves me.. He also hasn't made our relationship publis too I am confused I need advice...
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Slow down girl,you just met him,and you met him off the internet.So you don't know his true personality and who he really is.You never know,he might turn out to be an awesome person,or he might be after the sex and the bad stuff.Plus,the fact that he kissed you on the first date shows that he's there for the sex and pleasure.I think you should get to know him better,see where he's from,know about his family,and the environment he comes from.And after you do,then you will decide if you guys were meant to be.Concerning sex,please don't rush things,and don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.Stay strong and wise.
Goodluck :)
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Hey there,
Okay the fact that he started kissing you against your will shows that he is pushy and forceful.
You said it yourself you hardly know him. So I ask you this why would you consider having sex with someone you hardly know?
It seems like he is only after one thing. And one thing only.
Real love doesn't develop over a few days or weeks. It takes real time to grow and mature. That person has to prove they are utterly devoted to you and you only. There has to be trust honesty and commitment. You have to feel completely comfortable with them. You have to really know each other and your personalities. It took me and my boyfriend well over a year to say we loved each other.
It sounds like he is only telling you what you want to hear to get into your pants.
Don't be fooled. Back out before you get seriously hurt.
He hasn't even made your relationship public? All the warning signs are there. He sounds like a jerk.
My advice would be to end it and move on. Keep yourself busy with friends and hobbies and someone special will come along soon.
Good luck and much <3
Jess 18/f
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