my girlfriend for 6 months says to me it is ok if we have a threesome but it has to be with another guy i say ok! that was 2 weeks ago and she never mention it since. now should i make it happen to surprise and please her or wait till she brings it up again? and is it too soon? if i go thru with it will it mess up are relationship?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? JustJessOx answered Monday April 30 2012, 4:52 pm: Hey there,
Okay this can be a very contentious issue. Some would have no problem with threesomes others would see it as wrong and detrimental to the relationship.
If you decide to go through with it you have to be 100% sure and ready to deal with the consequences and emotional baggage that comes along with it.
If she hasn't mentioned it and it is bothering you then talk to her about it. Ask her why it interests her and does she not feel completely happy and satisfied with you. You have to make sure she is doing it for the right reasons. It may be a sexual fantasy of hers. Some couples are into swinging etc.
you have to make sure she has no feelings for this other guy. Ask yourself how are you going to feel watching another guy touch your girlfriend.
If its something that is going to be a fun enjoyable experience for both of you well then by all means go ahead if you are both in agreement.
Good luck and much <3
Jess 18/f [ JustJessOx's advice column | Ask JustJessOx A Question ]
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