My first love did me horribly wrong. And now he just forgot about me and I don't think it's fair that he gets to be happy with someone. What happened to karma? It's not fair he needs to get what he deserves. How can he just walk away like that. I just want to get over him and not care what do I do?
JustJessOx answered Monday April 30 2012, 4:59 pm: Hey there,
It may not be fair but that's life. He has moved on and now you must do the same.
There is no point sitting around being bitter angry and jealous over it. He is not worth it. You are wasting your time and your energy. You deserve better. Be the bigger person. He can walk away like that because he is a selfish person who obviously has no respect or regard for other peoples feelings.
One day he will know how it feels to be hurt. But it's not up to you to inflict that hurt.
To get over him you need to be strong and hard on yourself. Keep busy. Hang out with friends do things you enjoy. If you find yourself starting to think about him distract yourself. Delete his number don't look at any of his social networking sites and let go of the jealousy. It will take time but you will feel soo much better for it trust me.
In time someone better will come a long some one worthy of your time. Just be patient and enjoy being single for now without the stress and drama of a relationship.
Good luck and much <3
Jess 18/f [ JustJessOx's advice column | Ask JustJessOx A Question ]
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