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I'm Jessie. I've been on here on and off for about 7 years. I'm 22 :) I am currently in my final year of college studying English and new media
I'm from Ireland I dye my hair way too much. I've been blonde,brown,brown with blonde,black,red,and blonde again!I love helping people I found advicenators when I was just 15 and didn't understand the world! I feel I have matured with this site. The people on here are amazing and I love coming on here in my spare time to be there for people in need. I won't tell you what you want to hear because that's not advice it's just fooling yourself. I try to help in whatever way I can I try not to judge and try to relate to a situation if I can. :) If you don't like honesty then you won't like my advice.
If you're kind enough to rate me please leave a comment letting me know if I helped! I love hearing that I have!
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I have been featured 4 times. :)

advice

(Rating: 5) thank you! but how can i ever PROVE i am a virgin if i broke my "hymen?" dont girls lie about this all the time? i know my friends do.
(Rating: 5) Thank you Jess!! (:
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much!(: We are still dating and his amazing personality os growing on to me(: I hope we do as great as you with you're boyfriend(:
(Rating: 5) Thanks for the advice, I did really look upto my dad as a child and I have explained where my issue is, I think he understands :) x
(Rating: 5) Thanks a lot. You really helped.
(Rating: 5) thank you so much. it is so nice to have someone who just listens and offers kinds words to you!
(Rating: 5) Thank you alot! Your input was greatly appreciated =)
(Rating: 5) Thank you very much!!:D
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for the help I really appreciate it and can relate to your response
(Rating: 5) thank you so much:) best advice i've seen:) we do hang out sometimes but all he really wansa do is make out and i dont but i feel bad saying no:L anyways thankyou so much and i will be having this in mind ;)
(Rating: 5) That was the best advice ever! Thank you so much <3
(Rating: 5) Thanks:)
(Rating: 5) That's really nice of you, thanks!
(Rating: 5) I'll do it!Thank youuuu!:)
(Rating: 5) Hey! Your answer helped me a lot! Thanks :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you very much. C:
(Rating: 5) Thanks! The only problem with that, is my mom is immature, inconsiderate, and not a mother at all. I take care of her kids more than she does. And my aunt is against him. & other than that i have no unlce, grandma or grandpa besides on my dad's side. other than a grandma of my siblings, who doesn't have an opinion as she doesn't know him. But thanks for the advice!
(Rating: 5) I appreciate the information. I was a steady 145 till my first delivery, 200 after and now 245 after last delivery. My family are all heavy set people so its not surprising I have trouble losing weight. I dont have any more excess hair then normal, im not super hairy by any means lol but I always lose a ton of hair in the shower (from my head. I rock a pony tail alot due to being a mom of two very active boys, not alota time for me to "doll up" ) I have beenn tested for endomtriosis it was neg. I know of pos and doc doesnt think I have it so she didnt run tests. I dont have a family prac and I am indeed refering to my ob/gyn. The bleeding picked up a small amount and has now stopped completely for the last 5 hrs. Im having low back pain which I normally dont have with period. Thanks Jess <3!
(Rating: 5) Thanks. I appreciate your advice!
(Rating: 5) Aww thank you so much for answering my question!!
(Rating: 5) You are so right! I've done my part, so I have no regrets. I'm kind of glad we aren't friends; she's 19 and NEVER has money, so its hard to hang with her; when I always have to pay. I feel a relief. Thank you Jess!
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much! (:
(Rating: 5) That is easier said than done... That will take years and years! I don't know if I should tell you this but I literally have had a crush on him since I could talk. Then we moved away. During all that time I "got over" him, or so I thought. Then in 2007, we met again and when I found out I got excited, too excited. Then HE kissed ME, now, in 2012, we moved back and he still lives here, and once again, I thought I was over him. But I was wrong. Once again. Now do you think you could do something like that? Because i'm a very strong person and I can't even do it. Thanks for the answer though. I really do appreciate it. If I sound mad, i'm sorry, but I'm really not angry. EDIT* I wasn't angry at all. I understand. So many people have told me that. I'm not putting my life on hold at all but I am waiting. There's another guy that I really like at school and I really hope he likes me. So no, I'm not losing sleep over him. I know many people will disagree and say that I need to COMPLETELY forget about him, but I know that even when I'm married, I wouldn't have been able to forget about him. Thanks again so much for the advice. You made me look at it in a completely different way.
(Rating: 5) Thanks. I thought about what you said all day yesterday and I think you're right. If I don't go now, there could be an even bigger reason not to go later. Plus, it's like you said, I'll always be able to support them no matter where I live. Thanks for the wonderful advice.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much Jess! Totally awesome advice!
(Rating: 5) Thank you. And yeah mow he's fliritng with my other friend too. Im done with jerks
(Rating: 5) You give superb advice! Thanks soooooo much!!!
(Rating: 5) thanks!
(Rating: 5) Thank you this did answer my question :)
(Rating: 5) Thankyou this helped :)
(Rating: 5) Thanx, this helped a ton :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you! It helps to know that i'm not the only one!
(Rating: 5) Thanks a lot!!!I'll talk to him about this:)
(Rating: 5) Thanks!!!!!!
(Rating: 2) i didnt cheat on him. thats the whole point...
(Rating: 5) Really lovely idea ^_^ I had thought about making him a mixed tape, and now my idea has been second! I think I'll go with this :) His favourite songs, and then throw in ones that depict our relationship :) Thank you fellow Irisher! :D ^___^
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much , yeah I know I might just go through councelling thank you though :) I will consider it with your inbox if you want.Thank you so much , im here for you too
(Rating: 5) Thanks a lot! And yes I have heard of sleep paralysis and it was something I was curious about.
(Rating: 5) Thank you :) , I hope it works out for you too :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you :)
(Rating: 5) thank you SO much for taking the time to read my question and give me such a great answer! I have really realized a lot of things by reading what you wrote to me. Aside from my mom, I needed to realize myself what makes me happy. thank you so much! You have really helped me!
(Rating: 5) Thanks that helped allot. It was informative..
(Rating: 5) thank you so much
(Rating: 5) Thank you very much. I'll keep in touch and let you know how things are going, you've really helped me a lot. ♥
(Rating: 5) Thanks
(Rating: 5) thank you! you brought up some really good points! (:
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much. I loved that you shared your experience with this. It really helped a lot, thank you :)
(Rating: 5) THANK YOU SOO MUCH!!! It worked!! Finally know how to download fonts and it works!! WOOOT!
(Rating: 5) thanks, jess. you gave me some insight. i just wish everyone could believe in one thing so some jehovah's witness isn't knocking on my door every two seconds. i probably won't ever find what i'm looking for, but i'll never stop searching. i wish the same for you. goodluck
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much! :)
(Rating: 5) yes my ma supports it . i moved to 3 places in the past 4 months now im in NC with my gma noo theres nobody here i can really talk to
(Rating: 5) You really helped me a lot and thank you for everything!
(Rating: 5) thankyou! :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you, I know all that really.... Deep deep deep down, Discipling now!lol^_^
(Rating: 5) thank you!!:)
(Rating: 5) Thank thats great advice. :) helped ALOT <3
(Rating: 5) thank you so much:)
(Rating: 5) thanks
(Rating: 5) thanks. i wasn't trying to over analyze the situation, but i guess i was, because i wasn't su re if he likes me. but i guess i'll never know til i talk to him! :) thanks again!!
(Rating: 5) I really like the baking Idea thnx!
(Rating: 5) That is exactly what I meant, that I don't want to sound like I want him to be 'up front' with his feelings and then have things be kinda weird, but hes a nice guy and so I don't think he would take it personally or anything. Yes, you did make sense and thanks :p I think we will have fun
(Rating: 5) thanks...oh and i meant to say that like..after we broke up this time it felt easier than the last time...idk why but it did...what does that mean?
(Rating: 5) everything you just said made perfect sense you helped me more than any one has thank you soo much :) i am in love -tori f 14
(Rating: 4) I was thinking about your answer and we are going to have another talk with her about her problem. At this point she needs to seek psychiatric help. We've had talks before, but nothing really works. She has a problem and unfortunately there isn't much we can do for her.
(Rating: 5) Thank you very much and I have old him, he's paiet with me and says it's ok. But I guess I do have to work on it, thanks a bunch!
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much! Sorry it's been awhile. Actually my ex moved FAR away and my boyfriend and I are still together. Thanks again!
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much girl. any efford and help is apriciated =D
(Rating: 5) thank youuu :)
(Rating: 5) wow. yes. thats exactly how i feel. like that your just such a sucky person that no one even wants to try and waste the time to get to know you... but i see what you mean. thanks so much for sharing with me.
(Rating: 5) so true, i need to be myself, thanks!
(Rating: 5) you are so right. thank you, friend.
(Rating: 5) thanks this realy helped.=]
(Rating: 5) Thanks, I will try that! :)
(Rating: 5) Aww thank yooou =]
(Rating: 5) Hey thank you so much for the advice. I'll be sure to remember that in the future (: You remind me of godsgift2writing haha. You both give great advice ! Thanks so much !!!
(Rating: 5) Thanks :D <3 I mean, I do want to ask my friend Chad to hang out. I just don't want to seem like I'm trying to copy her, or seem like I'm trying to exclude her by showing that I can have more fun with him.
(Rating: 5) thank you so much!
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much jess, that was sweet of you to take the time to answer my Q. That was a good idea. Maybe I will put my # on his phone. Haah. Who knowS? Well thnxs again. Take care. -anny.
(Rating: 5) thank you for your help. i hope you feel better. god bless.
(Rating: 5) thank you ever so much, you really helped me to understand..and i'll try my best to warn her..thank you
(Rating: 5) thanks so much. i think i am going to email you about more of the situation.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for your answer. You are truly amazing and I love your honesty. Its tough to hear, but its that kind of strength I need to move on! Thank you again, so so much.....
(Rating: 5) thank you sooo much. ..last night he was hinting about breaking up with me as we were fighting then said he didnt wana talk to me anymore n left but now his status is i love my girl so much :) ....thanks tho!
(Rating: 5) Thanks a lot Jess! :)
(Rating: 5) yeah thanks. it's just hard to tell right now cause we're at an awkward stage but his friend did text me today telling me he wouldn't stop talking about how i gave him a hug the other night. so that made me happy. :] but yeah i'll just have to try and invite him somewhere. i think i might know where. thanks for the advice!
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much! This really did make me feel a lot better. :)
(Rating: 5) thankyouthankyouthankyou :] :] you rock.
(Rating: 5) Aww thank you :). You definitely helped. Probably wear a skirt because it's soooo hot. haha
(Rating: 5) Thank youuu, i ike that you'r real with me.. i mean. hes sweet sometimes, but recently.. idk whats up with him. i love him, i do. weve had alotta fights, and i dont want to start another one, nobodys perfect, but i think ill have to start a fight.
(Rating: 5) hahaa thank youuu :] but new stuff happened today, so be expecting anohter inbox. you have REALLY great advice.
(Rating: 5) thanks a ton we got back together tonight :)
(Rating: 5) thank you SO MUCH, im definetly gonna be asking you some more advice :]
(Rating: 5) thankyou (:
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(Rating: 5) thanks thoes r good ideas haha
(Rating: 5) thank you tons
(Rating: 5) Jess, You are very good at givin advice. You really helped me a lot. So thankyou for your words. You're very good at this haha keep it up. :o) . Thnks again. -anny
(Rating: 5) thankkkk you sooo much jess(=
(Rating: 5) thanks
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