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Am i right to be mad?
I was talking to this guy for about a while. We planned on hanging out and then he said it wanted it to be just us,so it was obviously a date. I was busy for about a week so we didn't really talk. Then I went to text him and he seemed really distant. Then the next week I found out he's dating this other girl. Obviously I was hurt and just stopped talking to him. This happened in March. Now today he "bumped" into me,gave me a hug and asked how I was. He walked with me to class and this is awkward but he bent over so I could bump into him and was really flirty. I didn't want to be rude to him then but im still really angry about what he did. Today I went and checked Facebook and he's still dat
ing the other girl. I feel like he's a jerk that doesn't deserve my time but I still like him. What should I do?
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One day when you and him are casually talking just pop up the question and say, "Hey! by the way, Aren't you dating that one chick?" then say "Yeah, what's her name again?"
If he's still rude be rude back.
If not just act like you don't care.
You have to act confident, don't let anything bring you down.
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Talk to him! I mean, if it was obvious that he thought you guys had a thing too back in March then he just gets a girlfriend then you have a right to talk to him! Just be like "so how come you never told me you had a girlfriend, back in march when we had a thing?" and if he keeps flirting with you like that then yell at him! or just ignore him when he flirts with you. If he just drops you for another girl then he's obviously not worth it. There are better guys out there!
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Hey there,
Okay you summed it up in a nutshell when you said "I feel like he's a jerk that doesn't deserve my time"
You're right he IS a jerk. And a player at that. Sorry to be blunt but it's obvious he had you and that girl on the go at the same time. When you were busy that week he must have decided to go with the other girl. And now he is flirting with you because he still thinks he can have you whenever he wants. Don't give him the satisfaction. Trust me I know I've been there. It's soo hard because they can be so sweet and charming then the next minute cold and disinterested. But you tend to forget about all that crap when they are being really sweet.
But don't you will be playing right into the palm of his hand otherwise.
If he really liked you he would have text you when you didn't really talk to see if you were okay or what was going on. But he didn't he flitted off with some other girl.
Left it to you to initiate conversation.
He isn't worth your time move on to someone who will truly appreciate you.
In the meantime don't flirt with him don't even acknowledge him. If he texts ignore it or be really short. Let him know you are in control here.
Keep busy with friends and other activities to keep your mind off him. Before you know it someone better will come along.
Good luck hope I helped
much <3
Jess 18/f
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If the guy is in a relationship then he isn't available. When he asked you to hangout with him and you were busy he could of assumed that you weren't interested and moved onto someone else. Also something to think about but if he is flirting with you while he has a girlfriend what makes you think if he ever dated you he wouldn't flirt with someone else? Maybe you are better off friends and you could explain to him that he is a really nice guy but maybe you could ease up on the flirting.
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