about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

What guys look for in a girl?? Thanx

Eye color?
Hair color
Do you want her to kiss you on the first date?
If not when?
When is it alright to take it to second base
How soon do you want her to put it out (sex wise)
athletic, preppy or girly girl?
Skinny,muscular,chubby or fat
shorter or taller than you?
experienced or unexperienced?
Do looks matter?
Whats a major turn off?
Whats a major turn on?
Feature you like the most on girls?
Do you like it when a girl makes the first move?
If your girlfriend gains 20lbs will you stay with her?
Do you like it when girls play hard to get?
Dou you like
Would you date a girl who has slept around just for sex?
Would you date an ugly girl just for sex?
Ass or boobs?
Pretty face or hot body
Do you mind if a girl beats you while playing sports?
Make-up or no make-up?
dressed up girl or sweat pants/casual jeans and a sweatshirt
First thing you notice about a girl?

1) hazel blue or green
2) a dark color
3) of course/if she likes me
4) when u feel comfrontable
5) whenever shes ready
6) girly girl
7) doesnt matter
8) shorter
9) doesnt matter
10) no
11) attitude problem, bad personality
12) great personality, loving, trust worth, funny,
13) eyes, smile
14) doesnt matter
15) yes
16) not really
17) no
18) no
19) ass
20) pretty face
21) dont mind
22) no make up
23) casual
24) her eyes

everything up there my boyfriend said.. :) hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Is it weird for an African-American girl to say things like "Dude", "Narley", "Hot", etc.?

it is normal but it might sound a lil werid.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay so my friends going out with this guy and i started talking to him, ya kno bein nice and stuff and then we started to talk more and he is saying all this weird stuff that i should like come over cas hes lonely and he thinks his gf is going to break up with him.. but i was like no i wouldnt do that to her and yeah he keeps saying all of this stuff that is like flirting with me and im trying not to back but hes always like your being wierd and texting me and stuff... i dont wanna hurt my friend by telling her this, i just wish he would stop... what should i do please help

i think you sdhould tell your friend what has been happening because if you dont then this will turn into a big problem. she will start to think you like her mana dn that you are trying to take him away from her. and if you sdont want to tell her tell him to back off that he already has a girlfriend and he needs to stay loyal to her. hope this helps you out.
*~Stphanie~*

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i was wondering if hair removing creams, like veet resera bladeless shaving kit, work if you're shaving down below. i'm a girl by the way. thanks. i rate 5's.

i dont know if the stuff your talkin about works but i know NAIR works really good. i use the cream kind all you do is rub it on and wait for 5 minutes and whipe it off and it all comes of but you can alo use the spair on Nari stuff to. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Anyone whos really good with xangas, cood yu please gimme yur sn? I can put in layouts and music nd stuff, but i have some questions. Please leave yur sn, im not some weirdo stalker, i just need some help

i can help you out with almost everything my s/n is soin2youx0x just like my user name..he he he/
*~Stephanie~*

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how do you report people ? im not planning on reporting anyone. but if its nessary id like to know how to. just in case but i probally will never have to. but how do you ? ill rate 5's for people who give nice answers and are helpful

all you do is go to this site http://www.advicenators.com/abuse.php and read what it says and it tell you how to do. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok well this guy his name is kevin and we've hung out like 2 times with other people and the first time we played ghost in the graveyard and hes like i got becky (me) and he kept like picking me to be it cuase i wasnt playing and then the second time we were at park with my frend sarah and these 3 other guys and like we were there for a long time and if i said something funny he would always laugh and like he would look at me and he is absoluatly HOT and i like him alot and i dont know if he likes me ... cause im not the girl who would go out with a guy i mean i never have so what do i do?

well it sound like he likes you. my advice to you is to take a chance and ask him out. tell him how you feel and he probably(more then a 80% ) chance does to.. there is always going to be a first time for everything so this will or can be your first time. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay i have a stupid virus on my computer!! do you know how to make my computer go back to the day before it happend because i just fixed everything and my brother went online and the virus is BACK after a week of being gone. Im so mad and i really really need someones help!!!!

1) u can kill the virus by getting a anti virus to kill it after scanning your computer. this can be bought at walmart for 20 dollars. or 2 you can restore your computer by going to start all program then goin to accerioes then restore computer. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Is it safe to trim your balls? using an electric trimmer?

would it cut u? HURT or what...

and is it ok to use it on the shaft?

please explain, and I HOPE ITS SAFE!!!

umm its not ok on ur balls.. it grabs them and it hurts like hell.. but anywhere else is fine.. my boyfriend told me that .. ha ha ha .. wella ynways hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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what is a good cursor site?

this are some site that have coursors

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=got_cod3z


http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=OMGOSH_RadCodez

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=sexsay_iconsx3

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=crimson_tears_cursors

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=Cursors_F_U

hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I'm 15 and one of my inner labias is about three times the size of the other. However, this wasn't always so. It started about 2 years ago when I started masturbating with the showerhead. (Could this be the cause of it?) Anyway, I figured it was just swollen, and the swelling would go down. However, as time went on, it only got worse. It's now a more purple-ish, darker color, and bigger. Anyways, point being, instead of it getting better like I assumed it would, it only got worse. And it's now two years later, and I haven't told anyone about it. I would really like to, but I am too embarrassed. Also, I'm afraid if my parents take me to a gynocologist or anything of that sort, they will find out I'm not a virgin anymore, WHICH CAN NOT HAPPEN. I've been a huge emotional wreck ever since, and I really need to find out more about this. Any advice, information, help, or ideas would be SO greatly appreciated. I rate 5's for any attempt. Thank you.

as hard as it may seem you need to tell soemoen. if you leave it like ti is it will just get worse. if you dont want to tlel your parents about it try tellign someone else who your trust a lot.. and i think at the gyno you make your own desicons abotu telling your parents that your a virgin or not. and if they do find out then they cant be mad at you forever.. i mean it already happened they cant change the past. hiope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey. Well, i just bought my hair straightener yesterday at JCPenny's it was $130. And i haven't used it yet but someone told me that u have to buy like some gresse or some oil to put on after or before doing it. Is that true.or can u just do it like that without putting anything. And if true can yall tell me what to buy, and were to get it from. Thanksss.
Brenda

you dont need to put anythign in your hair before or after striaghtening it. when i striaghten mine though be4 i striaghten it i put biosilk theorpy in it and it make it make my hair come out stiraghten and smooth.. but my best friend striaghtens her hair and desnt put anything in and it always looks good. hope this helps you outy. and if you want to get the biosilk theropy you can also get it from jcpenny.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok... so i have a total guy problem! sorry if this is to long! i am 17 years old and there is this guy that works with me, but at a different location if you get what i mean. (hes 21) well we were in a parade for work and he was all over me! we were hanging out like the whole enitre time! so then he asked for my number and we hung out that night. (he had people over at his house) and we all got totally wasted... and i ended up staying over there. (just me) and i ended up doing everything but sex with him. so the next morning i left and he said that he would call me after he got done with work and he never did! then i went on vacation for a week and i came back and he didnt call me either! i dont know what happened! his friend told me i was to young for him, and i asked him and he said no. or was it because i hooked up with him? or wHy?! i totally need help... because i really like him! thanks so mUch!

it might just be because he forgot i mean goes are r really stupid at times and very forgetful.. if you have his number trying calling him and tyalking to him and asking why he just didnt call you back.. or even if you dont have his number get it from his friend. tell gim how you.. otherwise i think you might want to try and move on because he could hvae just used you for your looks because if what you said he didnt even talk to you and gfet to know you. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Sometimes I have my days where I actually feel confident, but most of the days I have no self esteem whatsoever. I always compare myself to other girls, and I hate it. I know looks aren't everything, but it seems like I'd be happier and more outgoing if I just looked better. I already wear makeup, experimented with differenent hair colors and styles, and different clothes. But there's always someone who looks 348349x better than me, and it bothers me. (Even though it shouldn't.) Any suggestions on how to gain self confidence and quit comparing myself to other people?

i feel the same way i can never look better then someone else. i always think i am ugly and i always have very low self estum in myself no matter what i do.. a friend once told me this," be thankful for who you are and not what your not, you came in this world unique and you should die unique" each person is different. each eprson doesnt like something about themself.. even the most prettiest person ever doesnt have a lot of self confidence,. they think there is something wrong with themself.just keep you head up and think about the positive things. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I've had a girlfriend for about 5½ yrs now and I really love her and all and I want to move our realonship up a bit and I don't know how. I was thinking about making love to her when it was the right time for her but im just afraid she won't be happy with my size. Were both virgins and I really don't want to hurt her. Do you think moving our realonship up a bit is worth a shot?
Also do you think 11 inches will really hurt a girl badly, especially if shes a virgin?

Please Be Nice I Rate 5's

i think you should talk to your girl about it and ask her how she feels about it. and dont surprise with the size thing. the bigger it is the more it hurts because the more goes in. so yea but just talk tio ehr about and if you guys both love each other then it worth a try. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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hello...
the other night i went to my friends b-day party and the girls(and guys) triple dog dared me to call up this guy (hes kinda a nerd) and ask him out just to see what he would say...
so i called him (not thinking of what i was getting into) and he said yes. so anyway i saw him at the coffee shop the next day and told him what my friends dared me to do...and BIG MISTAKE i told him who dared me. now he is "plotting revenge" against them...
do i tell my friends what is going to happen to them or not?

BTW: im 13/f and dont tell me that i was retarded for doing that because i already know that. WILL RATE enless its a smartass answer.

i think you should warn your friend for what you did. tell them it was on accident and you didnt mean to tell the guy who did it. i dont think it would be right to have something happen tot hem unexpictedly and then it would all your fault because you didnt tell them what happened. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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right this may sound very VERY stupid but what is xanga?!?!?!?!? people talk about it all the time and i have no idea whatsoever what it is... could someone please give me any idea of what it is/or does. thnx lucee xxx

it like livejornal a place where you can write about what happened today or what your going tot do basically a jornal and what somepeople do is amek it like a layout place or icon or codes or music stuff like that hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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i had unprotected sex about 3 days ago. he didn't cum inside me, so i know i'm not pregnant. but could i still have gotten any stds, even though there haven't been any signs so far?

if he doesnt have stds and you dont then i dont think you can get it. btu if you are worried then go and see a doctor. ad there is still a chance you got pregnant because you dont noe if any cum did get i you fro sure. take a pregnance and just to make sure ur not pregnance. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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how do you make a xanga layout?
someone said you need some kind of program...
is there anyway to do it with
paint
jasc paint shop pro studio
microsoft picture it photo preminum 9

thanxx
will rate 5s..

you dont really need those stuff only if you want to make a banner btu you can find some banners on peoples xanga site but this is what you need to make the layout

http://www.blogring.net/index.php?showtopic=3258

and you just need to change the color codes to it. hope this helps you out. if you need anything else feel free to drop it in my inbox.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok so there's this guy who i really like & we're friends & everything & i know he doesn't have a girlfriend [& like me has never had one, except in my case a boyfriend] & i want to tell him how i feel, but i'm too nervous because i'm scared he doesn't like me back. i once talked to him online for 3 hours straight, which i never did with anyone. he's really great to talk to & the sweetest guy i ever met. but is there a way i can figure out if he likes me or not? or to have him find out i like him, without having to tell him or having it get rumored or told by a friend? please help me if you can. i will rate you if you want.

if you dotn want a friend of your to tell him then what i think you should do is try flirting with him a lot and see if he flirts back . and what you can also do is see how he flirts with other girls. if he flirts with you more then he might like you a lil more. what you can also do is go to the mall r movies with him and see what eh does. like dont make it like a date just bring some of your friends and get some of his friends to go and see what happens.but that is the easiest way because guys are stupid more then 50 percent of the time and when a girls trys to explain something to them without saying "i like you" they dont get it..lol. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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