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does he like me?
ok so there's this guy who i really like & we're friends & everything & i know he doesn't have a girlfriend [& like me has never had one, except in my case a boyfriend] & i want to tell him how i feel, but i'm too nervous because i'm scared he doesn't like me back. i once talked to him online for 3 hours straight, which i never did with anyone. he's really great to talk to & the sweetest guy i ever met. but is there a way i can figure out if he likes me or not? or to have him find out i like him, without having to tell him or having it get rumored or told by a friend? please help me if you can. i will rate you if you want.
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Well what I would do is flirt with him and see how he reacts. If he flirts back, then he might possibly like you, but if he doesn't, then I'd just forget anything happened and stick to being his friend because you don't want to ruin the relationship you two already have. Or another thing you can do is the next time you talk to him, ask him who he likes and if it's anyone you know...and then maybe even tell him you like someone he knows, so in a way it's sorta hinting but he probably won't figure it out cause guys aren't the best at that sorta thing =P but maybe also try asking his friends who he likes or maybe have one of your friends ask him. If none of that, then I'd just suggest asking him out. Sometimes you can't be afraid, cause you always gotta think WHAT IF? WHAT IF he did like you and you never asked him out? You'd have lost the possible chance at a relationship with him. So sometimes you just gotta take a chance. Be like," Hey.. I gotta tell you something. I like you alot. I don't know how you feel about me, but I just needed to tell you that because I just wanted to get it off my chest. If you don't feel the same way please let's just go back to friends, because I don't want to ruin our friendship over this and I promise it will not be awkward it will be the same as it was before." ( or something like that ) and you don't have to tell it to his face.. you can always text, IM , say it on the phone, write it in a note, etc. I hope I helped!
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MELii
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you have to talk to him about it, because he could really like you. you have to get past being nervous er scared er anything, and build up courage. there isn't really a way to find out how someone likes you, because everyone is different, and they act different. i wouldn't really play games if i were you, but i mean i guess you can hint it that you like him. if that doesn't work then you really need to talk to him.
good luck!
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if you dotn want a friend of your to tell him then what i think you should do is try flirting with him a lot and see if he flirts back . and what you can also do is see how he flirts with other girls. if he flirts with you more then he might like you a lil more. what you can also do is go to the mall r movies with him and see what eh does. like dont make it like a date just bring some of your friends and get some of his friends to go and see what happens.but that is the easiest way because guys are stupid more then 50 percent of the time and when a girls trys to explain something to them without saying "i like you" they dont get it..lol. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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i think the easiest way to deal with a problem like this is have your friend that wouldn't say anything wrong tell him how u feel. u never know, he might even ask you out! good luck
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Well, I have this kinda trick, ehm.. tell him that you like a boy who has been talking to you online for three hours straight..If he doesn't get it, give him more clues..till he finally realized that the boy is himself..Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
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Alrighty, if you want to find out if he likes you, see how he acts around other girls. If he acts the same around them as he does to you, then he might just think of you as a friend, If he treats you better than them, then maybe he DOES like you, etc. Just be flirty around him and he may be smart enough to get the message that you like him.
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