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Scared To Death
I've had a girlfriend for about 5½ yrs now and I really love her and all and I want to move our realonship up a bit and I don't know how. I was thinking about making love to her when it was the right time for her but im just afraid she won't be happy with my size. Were both virgins and I really don't want to hurt her. Do you think moving our realonship up a bit is worth a shot?
Also do you think 11 inches will really hurt a girl badly, especially if shes a virgin?
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it would hurt her but every vergin girl gose through pain on their first time.
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Well first I wanna say that's awseome that you've had a good long relationship with someone! =) And because of that long relationship, I don't see why you guys shouldn't move your relationship up a bit, I mean obviously you guys care about eachother and love eachother alot. First I would dicuss this with her.. see if she's ready to have sex. And yes 11 inches would probably hurt her, but then again sex hurts the first time anyways so she'll hurt no matter what. Just go nice and slow. And be safe! I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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dang, lol!! umm yea it will hurt her, but it usally hrts your first tiem around anyway. i think uit will be fine, i mean its not like you could shrink it down to a smaller size and a lot of girls would love it to be that size, but i say talk to her and ask her wat she thinks..
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well im onli 14 but i think you are ready but i unno bout her. i think its vey special dat both of you are virgins so ask her if shes ready if she aint den u gotta respect that. and i think ani size wil hurt the first tyme. but i think its better to be bigger.11 in nyce nyce hehhe. hope i helped.
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If your relationship isnt in danger, and you guys are perfectly happy with each other and dont want to see anyone else, than i dont see any reason to move it up a notch. If things are going fine as is, then leave it how it is for now. Talk to her about it and see if shes ready to take that step, and make sure that she doesnt think it will change your relationship for the worse. Im not sure about that size issue, I do know girls can only feel about 4-5 inches of a mans penis anyways, but since shes a virgin, it might hurt, so go slow and ask her how shes feeling [ if it hurts ] every step of the way. if you do decide to do that.
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THis is really odd for meh to answer to but i just want to help lol.. Well to be honest yes 11 inches would hurt her so I suggest you finger her first so she will loosen up.
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Holy shit, yeah I think it will hurt her but even if she wasn't a virgin it would hurt still because a girl, woman get's tight again every 24 hours (if she masturbates it won't hurt as much) I think it's a sweet idea that you want to move your relationship up a bit and that you waited that long just to have it I mean god I first had sex with my boyfriend on the 2nd day we was going out and I wasn't a virgin and we only have been going out for a year and like 5 days to this day.. I know it's young but I can't say anything about it. Tell her that you do want to move your relationship up a notch before you make a move and if it's alright with her. Just look at it at this way you are going to do it at some point. But I'm just saying it will hurt her so don't go jabbing it in there and going really fast, okay? It will only hurt for the first 5 minutes if you guys last that long. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't :(. Good luck if you guys do.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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i would say go for it but before you do have a talk with her about it like dont say what size it is just be like how do u feel baout moving are relationship up a level and if she does just when you start having sex when you take you clothes off let her see for herself. iknow sounds wierd but it just might work.
hope everything works out.
love jess
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i think you should talk to your girl about it and ask her how she feels about it. and dont surprise with the size thing. the bigger it is the more it hurts because the more goes in. so yea but just talk tio ehr about and if you guys both love each other then it worth a try. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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it depends on your age and your religion i guess. talk to her about it. maybe she wants to too, but you have to be careful she doesn't take it the wrong way. i mean, the next step doesn't have to be sex. get her opinion on it.
good luck!
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the first time..yea it would..but if you both love each other then dont you think its worth it?
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