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my friends bf
okay so my friends going out with this guy and i started talking to him, ya kno bein nice and stuff and then we started to talk more and he is saying all this weird stuff that i should like come over cas hes lonely and he thinks his gf is going to break up with him.. but i was like no i wouldnt do that to her and yeah he keeps saying all of this stuff that is like flirting with me and im trying not to back but hes always like your being wierd and texting me and stuff... i dont wanna hurt my friend by telling her this, i just wish he would stop... what should i do please help
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talk to him and tell him that your not interested in him at the time. he has a gf and he shouldnt be flirting and stuff with you.if he gets upset just say like maybe in the future but not rite now because i dont wana hurt my friend.
hope i helped XoXo
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i think you're doing the right thing. he does have a gf, but talk to him about it first before you say anything to your friend. explain that he shouldn't be asking you to come over and stuff since he's in a relationship and if he was single it would be different. maybe you should juss ignore his texts and stuff, because he shouldn't be doing that.
good luck!
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I think that you should tell your friend about everything that is going on between you and her boyfriend. My boyfriend is friends with my best friend and if my boyfriend was doing that stuff to my friend I would want her to tell me about it. So think about it from your friends point of view. And think about it this way, if she finds out that her boyfriend has been talking to you so much then she might get mad at you for not talking to her about it. But if you really don't want to tell your friend about it, tell your friends boyfriend to stop talking to you so much. Tell him that you want to be friends with him but you don't think that you should talk or hang out that much considering that your friends with his girlfriend.
-Hope I helped.
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Stop texting him and calling him. Only talk to him when absolutely necessary, do not go out of your way to. If your friend finds out she will be so angry with you. Your relationship with your friend needs to come first. Boys will come and go. :)
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i'd say tell this guy to back off and if this doesn't work i would tell your friend about it and explain you just ere talking and tell her what he's been doing because if she's understanding and a good friend she will understand
good luck
striperella
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Well if you dont want to hurt your friend by telling her...you're just letting HIM hurt her instead...so I would tell my friend whats up and if she doesnt listen, then theres nothing you can do.
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you should deffinantly straight up and say "listen here buddy, i think your kewl, but your girlfriend is my friend and the way you are treating he rand me is not right, i want to be your friend, but nothing more." he will back off and if he doesnt then you should aware your friend it is the right thing to do and then tell him you do not want to talk to him anymore its hard to do but its the right thing
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you got to tell your friend because friends always Always come before boyfriends..no matter what..and you should tell him that you dont like him (even if you do) and for him to leave you alone...and if you want you could ignore him...hope this helps you out
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Just tell him to back off, your friend is his girlfriend, and you would never hurt her. Tell him that he is nice but your friend is more important to you. Try not to talk to him either, because if someone finds out that your talking to him, they might get the wrong idea, and tell your friend, then everything will be messed up. Hope everything works out for you, and i hope i helped.
Thanks,
Jenna
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If I were you I'd tell your friend that her boyfriend is not loyal to her. That she needs to find better. I mean god he's flirting with you and your her friend or best friend which makes the matter worse. I think you should talk to your friend about her boyfriend doing weird things and saying weird things and just flirting with you every time you all talk. If she doesn't believe you, say I think you should I'm your friend and I've known you longer than this guy ever did and I know you more than he will. I understand you better than almost anyone else that knows you. But if she does believe you and says then stop talking to him then I think you should do so. He's a pig and wants more meaning he's a dickless prick that needs to find some groupies. If you all get into a big fight because of it just let her be for a while. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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i think you sdhould tell your friend what has been happening because if you dont then this will turn into a big problem. she will start to think you like her mana dn that you are trying to take him away from her. and if you sdont want to tell her tell him to back off that he already has a girlfriend and he needs to stay loyal to her. hope this helps you out.
*~Stphanie~*
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OK, well i think what you should do is just full ot tell him to stop flirting with you cause he is taken. Dont make it sound like you hate him or that you're trying to hurt him or warn him, just make it sound like you're not interested, and since he asked your friend out-- HE's intrested in her. Also, i think you should talk to your friend about it, even though you think it'll hurt her.. think about in the future when she finds out for herself, and YOU KNEW! the guilt would be really bad.. and i'm sure she'd be even more sad if she found out later after going out with him more than once. It's better to tell her now, before she get's TOO attached. I know it may be hard- but it's for the best. I hope i helped, and if you need any more advice i'm always here on Advicenators and my AIM sn is "Silverwolf1561".
*Jill*
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