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Question Posted Monday August 15 2005, 6:30 pm

Is it weird for an African-American girl to say things like "Dude", "Narley", "Hot", etc.?

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willyoucatchme answered Thursday August 18 2005, 5:16 pm:
No, I think it is fine for someone of any race to say whatever they wish as long as it doesn't offend someone else.

Love ~Ash~

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shutupnkissme98 answered Thursday August 18 2005, 4:13 pm:
no! anybody can talk however they want. and its not weird.they are just words and nobody owns them so say them if you want to and if someone tells you its weird tell them to fuck off.

hope i helped XoXO

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elmzer214 answered Thursday August 18 2005, 3:22 pm:
NO she is proably trying to be like us!

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XxTxX answered Tuesday August 16 2005, 12:24 pm:
No not at all..That is there taste in what they like to say..And even i f people thing you are weird for saying it..You shouldnt care what other people think of you..You are your own person..Hope I helped`

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xo_jenna_respects_ox answered Monday August 15 2005, 9:43 pm:
I don't think that is wierd! Say whatever you want to, unless it's mean lol. If it is part of who you are, say it! Hope i helped!

Thanks,
Jenna

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rockstarxlove answered Monday August 15 2005, 9:41 pm:
I think thats fine! =) dont worry about it being weird. If its your personality & you want to say it, go ahead.

♥ nicole

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VainTaraLynn answered Monday August 15 2005, 9:23 pm:
I dont think that its wierd at all. Just because your african american doesnt mean that you have to use all the ghetto talk that most do. [ hope that didnt sound racist or anything ]

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orphans answered Monday August 15 2005, 9:13 pm:
no thats not wierd at all if this person is you then you should be just fine those are avrage words that everyone can use and even if you are black everyone is the same on thse inside you shouldn't be limited to how you talk just because of your color thats just plain stupid...hope i helped

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Alexandria answered Monday August 15 2005, 8:50 pm:
No!!! Why would that be weird? Any one can say that. If you said it to me I wouldnt think it was weird at all. If any one thinks you are weird then they are not true friends. I hope this works out! Thx!

~Alexandria

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brittani32 answered Monday August 15 2005, 8:39 pm:
no not at all i have several of them that are friends of mine and they all say things like that... especially "that's hot" they say that just as much as i do hehe so nope dont worry! you are fine!

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blondebombshell33 answered Monday August 15 2005, 8:33 pm:
definately not! theres not words that only certain races can say! seriously i think thats so stupid! so say what ya want giRL! tHaT wOuld bE hOT aNd nArLeY! hAHHA!
xOxO, aLeX

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3HOLLYWOODxGLAM3 answered Monday August 15 2005, 8:00 pm:
um why would it be weird!? so just because someone is darker than another person means they cannot use the same vocabulary!? ABSOLUTLY RIDICULOUS.. if ANYONE has a problem with that.. i give you FULL permission to say it 24/7 just to piss them off = D

and thedrinker is just a shitass..
dont listen 2 them = )

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Monday August 15 2005, 7:51 pm:
it is normal but it might sound a lil werid.
*~Stephanie~*

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airjet106 answered Monday August 15 2005, 7:39 pm:
yes its normal for them but it might sound werid though

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azngemini answered Monday August 15 2005, 7:20 pm:
that's totally fine. my friends' school has kids that just came from china, can barely speak english, and they call each other, "niggers". anyone can say whatever they want, no matter what ethnicity they are. i know most surfers and preps say Gnarley, but just because they say it the most, it doesnt mean they actually OWN it and that it's not like it isnt ok for anyone else to say it. you shouldnt worry because you can say whatever you what, free speech shouldnt have limitations.

hope i helped :)

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xomegaroni answered Monday August 15 2005, 7:20 pm:
nahh it's juss your personality and doesn't really have any affect on your race.

-hope that helped!

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ABCDEF answered Monday August 15 2005, 7:13 pm:
haha of course not! why would it be?

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FunnyCide answered Monday August 15 2005, 7:04 pm:
No more weird than it is for a white girl, or a Cherokee girl, or an Asian girl, or an Australian girl to say those things. I say "Dude" .. not "narley" and not "hot" very often... unless I'm referring to soup! But I love my "dude" and "rock out" and "sweet". No one should be rascist. See, I have this ... issue. Not a problem, just 'something'. I cast two shadows. No, I'm not a simease twin... I'm Cherokee, but I look white. If anyone hates Cherokees (or any Native American tribe) I can find out - cause I look white - and then I can confront the person. Technically, I'm full blooded Cherokee. Born with fair skin, raised in the south, I'm 100% Cherokee, and 100% white. It seems complicated, but I am. Just because some people don't think that an African-American girl should say those things because of her skin color doesn't mean you shouldn't say them!! If you want to say them, SAY THEM! In fact, I'm proud of people who don't give into peer presure about fads, clothes, words, hair, makeup etc. :-)
-FunnyCide

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Yclipse answered Monday August 15 2005, 7:03 pm:
I don't think so, but other African-Americans might make fun of you. They make fun of me for "dressing white", so they may make fun of you for "talking white" But, I see no problem with it.

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dazed_and_confused_alot answered Monday August 15 2005, 6:45 pm:
no because ppl from all walks of life use those terms but do what u will
striperella

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t0xicParadiSe answered Monday August 15 2005, 6:45 pm:
not its not weird at all say what ever you would like and if someone is against you saying that and has a problem with you saying it just ignore them

if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥

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cookierat123 answered Monday August 15 2005, 6:39 pm:
HECK NO! look, we have rap singers that are white and thats not weird. its not like white people made it up or anything! come on now! dont be racist! im sorry if that sounded rude but im TOTALY against racism!!!!!!!!!!!

come one people! where is your heart?
♥ leah

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KatLynn answered Monday August 15 2005, 6:37 pm:
No, except for 'narley'. It'd be weird if anyone said it.

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Teza answered Monday August 15 2005, 6:35 pm:
I dont find anything wrong with that. ;D

&& I don`t think saying narly is weird at all. I say it! Lol

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