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wHY diDnt hE cALL?! i LIKe hIM!


Question Posted Sunday August 14 2005, 1:39 pm

Ok... so i have a total guy problem! sorry if this is to long! i am 17 years old and there is this guy that works with me, but at a different location if you get what i mean. (hes 21) well we were in a parade for work and he was all over me! we were hanging out like the whole enitre time! so then he asked for my number and we hung out that night. (he had people over at his house) and we all got totally wasted... and i ended up staying over there. (just me) and i ended up doing everything but sex with him. so the next morning i left and he said that he would call me after he got done with work and he never did! then i went on vacation for a week and i came back and he didnt call me either! i dont know what happened! his friend told me i was to young for him, and i asked him and he said no. or was it because i hooked up with him? or wHy?! i totally need help... because i really like him! thanks so mUch!

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shutupnkissme98 answered Tuesday August 16 2005, 3:17 pm:
it seems like it wuz just a 1-night stand. sry to say.but you could call him and if he still isnt interested then just forget about him and move on.

hope i helped XoXo

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MELiixMARiiE answered Tuesday August 16 2005, 1:15 am:
I am a guy who is 22 and just graduated college, thisis a typical hump and dump situation, unfortunatly you are younger and more susceptical to older men. Just learn from the exp. and don't let it happen again.

-ps i am this melii's friend shes obviously a she

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karenR answered Monday August 15 2005, 4:56 pm:
Does he know you were gone for a while? If not let him know you were and are back.

Call him if you like him. If he doesn't seem interested, then you can move on. Give him a call first though and maybe ask him out. He may not admit it like his friend did but, the age may indeed be a factor. Depending on where you live it could get him in trouble. I am sending you a link to a chart that will tell you the age of consent in each state. Check your out and have the info if he mentions it.

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blondebombshell33 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 7:42 pm:
hEy HUN! iM super soRRY! bUT iT seeMs Like He MaY hAVe usED u... oR mAYbe Wsant intrested... seriously... guys lOVE when girls play hard to get! so maybe he was turned off when you were so willing to be with him...! the age thing could be a difference... alot of guys want 2 wait till girls are legal 18+... maybe he was looking for a friendship and he is flirty by nature and then when you guys hooked up, he feels awkward!(dont u hate when that happens!) he probably wasnt looking for a relationship... since hes 21, college life, partying eTc... but good luck bABe! i hope i helped! and plus... there are a mILLiON guys out there for ya!
xOxO, aLeX

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abercr0mbiie143 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 2:10 pm:
guys are gross sometimes. he might have been using you just for everything, but im not sure. i mean i know you might like him but i think you need do sumthing different, because if he doesnt call you then theres sumthing wrong


<3

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Sunday August 14 2005, 2:05 pm:
it might just be because he forgot i mean goes are r really stupid at times and very forgetful.. if you have his number trying calling him and tyalking to him and asking why he just didnt call you back.. or even if you dont have his number get it from his friend. tell gim how you.. otherwise i think you might want to try and move on because he could hvae just used you for your looks because if what you said he didnt even talk to you and gfet to know you. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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xomegaroni answered Sunday August 14 2005, 1:52 pm:
hmm..sorry to say this but it seems like he kinda used you, er wanted you for your looks. if he really took interest he would've called you back by now. maybe he juss wanted a one night stand. i really don't think it's the age thing, because he took interest in you before he knew your age right? it seems like an excuse. try to get in contact with him to see how he feels, and tell him how you feel. i know it's difficult to tell people your feelings for them, but it'll be worth it.

good luck!

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