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WARNING: this may be confusing...
hello...
the other night i went to my friends b-day party and the girls(and guys) triple dog dared me to call up this guy (hes kinda a nerd) and ask him out just to see what he would say...
so i called him (not thinking of what i was getting into) and he said yes. so anyway i saw him at the coffee shop the next day and told him what my friends dared me to do...and BIG MISTAKE i told him who dared me. now he is "plotting revenge" against them...
do i tell my friends what is going to happen to them or not?
BTW: im 13/f and dont tell me that i was retarded for doing that because i already know that. WILL RATE enless its a smartass answer.
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i'd definitely tell your friends..ask him what hes doing ..act cool about it so he doesnt suspect anything..n then tell your friends. that sucks :/ good luck ♥
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i wouldnt worry abou tit. tell you rfriends what happened but he probably wont do anything to them anyway so dont get stressed out over it.
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I think you should tell your friends what happened, or what's going to happen to them. If you don't, and they find out that you knew about it, they will probably be furious at you, more than they will if you tell them. this may be confusing to you, but it might work. at least they know what will coming so they are not so suprised. Anyway this nerd might not be telling the truth, he might just try to scare you. But you never know. I hope i helped.
Thanks,
Jenna
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dont worry about it. unless that guy is a serial killer or some diagnosed-maniac.. ure friend is gonna be okay. dont stress over it. trust me.. i've "plotted revenge" for waaay bigger reasons than that. and... i can tell that since that guy reacted in a "ooh... im gonna get back at them..." way.. it means hes embarrassed.
dont bother telling your friend, she is gonna be fine.
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I would let your friends know what he said, because friends are more important than boyfriends or guys. Just give them a heads up on what he said, and if it gets to anything extreme then tell an adult or authorities. Since you guys are only 13 I doing it will be anything too intense, but do give them a heads up. & your not retarded for doing that, everyone makes mistakes.
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Okay, as you already know, that was kinda mean...but I understand peer pressure.
You should definitly tell your friends, because you could never know, he could be serious. Some people can be really messed up like that.
My friend got threatned to be killed by someone she thought was a friend, so you should be really careful.
What i'm saying is that you should definitly tell your friends.
Melissa <3
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TELL YOUR FRENDS. wut if sumthin bad happenes if you don't tell them.
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definately tell your friends. they should understand, because you had to tell him it was a joke. you couldn't juss let him go on thinking you guys er dating er lie to him about it. they shouldn't get mad, plus maybe you could talk to him about it, saying that it was juss for fun.
good luck!
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well, sounds like you already know that was a bad decision. so i wont go in to that. i think the right thing for you to do would be to go to your friends and let them know exactly what you told me. that it was stupid of you to call him, and that that was rude on your part. and you accidently let it slip that they were the ones who dared you and that they are in some sort of danger with this kid because he is planning revenge. all you can do is appoligize, and mabey talk to that kid, and see if you cant talk him out of it. if your friends are mad at you, then you cant help that. the truth hurts sometimes.
hope i helped
<3 falloutgirl
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I wouldn't say 'retarded' but..
I would tell the guy that it wasn't entirely their fault. I mean, they can't MAKE YOU pick up the phone and ask him out..You're the one who did it and you should take part in the blame. But maybe this kid is some physco freak - And in that case, tell the person who dared you wants happening.
♥ Brooke
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I`m not gonna say that you were retarted or anything because you're not and I know how ya feel. I did it before and I felt bad too and I thought it would be funny too. You need to talk to him again. Tell him it wasnt their fault and that you decided to do it. If he does anything to them that you will be extremly mad and that it just isnt right. Apologize to him and just be nice to him. Def. tell your friends because they need to know.. he better not to anything pshyco!! Good luck babe!
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Hmm. Ask him not to plot revenge against them because that really won't solve anything and could lead to something much worse. Don't hint that off either, just be straight-foward about it. If he doesn't listen, then I would tell your friends that if it is something serious.
Try and see if you can make up for it with the guy you called. Ask him if you could make it up to him by going to watch a movie or something like that. No not as a date, and I'm sure you probably wouldn't want to anyways; it'd be taking a hit for the team if that got him to stop 'plotting revenge'. If that doesn't work, try being his friend. Maybe he'll get over it if he realizes you really didn't mean to hurt him. Try not to make it sound like you'll do anything just to get him to stop [because he may think you'll forget about him once he stops]. If you make it seem like you are desperate, that might push him into wanting to do it more. If all else fails and you cannot get him to stop, then tell your friends. Make sure you tell the ones that you can trust and know they wouldn't do something like that and 'plot revenge' either.
Remind the guy that it was just a joke. Remind him too that luckily you found him the next day to tell him about it too. Hopefully that will tone things down a bit for him, because he's taking things a little too far. Good luck.
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Yes I would definetley want to tell them, and warn them. I would suggest them not to mention anything to him and go up to him and flat out apologize. Just have them be like," Look, ___ we're so sorry about what we did to you.. we thought it would be funny at first, and then after awhile we thought about it and we realized that that was a really rude thing to do.. we didn't think about your feelings at first, and we just wanted to say we're sorry..." and don't make them sound obvious like they know what you told them so he doesn't get angrier that you told. Because have you heard some of the stories of what happen whenever some people get pushed too far? School shootings, deaths, etc. It doesn't sound like it's going to be that drastic of a "revenge"..but you never know.. those people thought that the person they made fun of wouldn't go that far, and they did. =/ just apologize him and be very kind to him from now on...also, try asking him what his "revenge" is and see if he'll tell you that too. I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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I think you need to tell the person that he is "plotting revenge" against, so that he has some warning...jus in case this "nerd" is some sorta psycho or somethin.
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you should tell your friend what happened and try to talk the guy out of the whole "plotting revenge"
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i think you should warn your friend for what you did. tell them it was on accident and you didnt mean to tell the guy who did it. i dont think it would be right to have something happen tot hem unexpictedly and then it would all your fault because you didnt tell them what happened. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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if i was you i would tell my friends. thats probably what a true friend would do..
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you should tell your friends that he knows just so they can watch their backs. you could try and find out from this guy about what it is that he is going to do. i doubt it will be anything to dramatic but it could be worth finding out. hope i helped xxx x
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If you don't want to go out with this guy. I guess you should call him up and tell him it was a dare and you shouldn't have done it and apologise.
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