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I have this friend and she hangs out with me all the time and stuff but shes kinda mean to me and sometimes it gets to the point where im so sad that i cry . what should i do?

um...if i were you, i would most deff. stop hanging out with that so called "friend" of yours. no true friend would bring their other friend down. we have friends to build us up and encourage us. get some new friends.

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So I'm curious. When I cuddle with my boyfriend, I tend to kind of wrap around him, but I always end up laying on one of my arms and it gets uncomfortable really fast. What the heck do I do with my arm?
Like, I'll be laying on my left side (and arm) with my right arm wrapped around him, but my left arm ends up going numb...
Weird question, yeah, but that's why it's under random weirdos.

well. um..you could always just move.. i mean its not like hes going to break up with you if you cant lay on your arm cuz its asleep. just tell him and switch sides or something. ..its not rocket science

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hello...
the other night i went to my friends b-day party and the girls(and guys) triple dog dared me to call up this guy (hes kinda a nerd) and ask him out just to see what he would say...
so i called him (not thinking of what i was getting into) and he said yes. so anyway i saw him at the coffee shop the next day and told him what my friends dared me to do...and BIG MISTAKE i told him who dared me. now he is "plotting revenge" against them...
do i tell my friends what is going to happen to them or not?

BTW: im 13/f and dont tell me that i was retarded for doing that because i already know that. WILL RATE enless its a smartass answer.

well, sounds like you already know that was a bad decision. so i wont go in to that. i think the right thing for you to do would be to go to your friends and let them know exactly what you told me. that it was stupid of you to call him, and that that was rude on your part. and you accidently let it slip that they were the ones who dared you and that they are in some sort of danger with this kid because he is planning revenge. all you can do is appoligize, and mabey talk to that kid, and see if you cant talk him out of it. if your friends are mad at you, then you cant help that. the truth hurts sometimes.

hope i helped

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hey nice site!

okay, me and my boyfriend have been together for a while, i'd say about 9 monthes or so. now he is starting to act really weird, and he dosent treat me the same. he is starting to treat me different around his friends and he dosent listen when i want to talk about it. what do i do? help please!

oka, first of all, i would have to say that mabey you might be pestering him too much about the problem. and if he is being more distant from you, mabey there is a reason why and he just dosent feel like talking about it. i know its tough, but just back off a little, and when he realizes that he misses you, he will come back. have you tired asking him in a nice way if anything has changed between you two? if you guys are fighting more often, mabey you should not spend as much time together. only the strong survie in love. if its not ment to be, i know there are tonz and tonz of other guys out there just dying to be in your boyfriends place. all i can tell you is have patience. everything works itself out in time.

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