So I'm curious. When I cuddle with my boyfriend, I tend to kind of wrap around him, but I always end up laying on one of my arms and it gets uncomfortable really fast. What the heck do I do with my arm?
Like, I'll be laying on my left side (and arm) with my right arm wrapped around him, but my left arm ends up going numb...
Weird question, yeah, but that's why it's under random weirdos.
I actually had the same problem, because i am a "random wierdo" but my friends never took me seriously when i asked them.
Your best bet is to just lay like that and when your arm feels uncomfortable, switch sides. Let your boyfriend know that it is uncomfortable for you and maybe he can think of something. What i do now is just lay on top of him (dont take that the wrong way) that way i can cuddle but im not cutting the circulation off in one arm. lol. great question.
bsaylor23 answered Saturday August 13 2005, 11:23 pm: Well a good start is to like not put your arm under him and IF you HAVE to put it in the skinny part from like under his hair cut but before he's shoulder so your arm is not like squished between the area your cuddleing and his body. and if that don't work then make him cuddle you for a while or tell him "Hey my arms numb" or if your to embarssed try to just slid it out from under him. Well hope all works well and Good luck. [ bsaylor23's advice column | Ask bsaylor23 A Question ]
FallOutgiRl answered Saturday August 13 2005, 3:56 pm: well. um..you could always just move.. i mean its not like hes going to break up with you if you cant lay on your arm cuz its asleep. just tell him and switch sides or something. ..its not rocket science
HyperactiveMiss answered Saturday August 13 2005, 2:58 pm: Solution? Don't lay on your arm! Lol, easy. Well...sort of. You know how if you stretch out your left arm it can be a "pillow" for your head and your boyfriend's head? It might get numb eventually, but it won't be as bad as your body on top of your arm. Or you could also move your arm so that it's on top of your boyfriend's head and just use your hand to stroke his hair. Just some ideas. Hope this helps! [ HyperactiveMiss's advice column | Ask HyperactiveMiss A Question ]
orphans answered Saturday August 13 2005, 2:03 pm: yeah i kno, it happens to me all the time, you could put you arm underneith him like behind his back - that is what i do and it feels a lot more comfortable. hope this helped lucee plz cld u rate me? :) [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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