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Question Posted Saturday August 13 2005, 9:48 am

i had unprotected sex about 3 days ago. he didn't cum inside me, so i know i'm not pregnant. but could i still have gotten any stds, even though there haven't been any signs so far?

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Additional info, added Saturday August 13 2005, 10:57 am:
And no, he doesn't have any STDs. (That we know of, at least)
Also, I just stopped my period a couple days before. Could that have any effect on the pregnancy?

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cheerleader4evr answered Friday August 19 2005, 3:29 pm:
yes, some people go 10 yrs without any symtom and it nothing to do with semen it has to do with his testicles; no that would have no effect on the pregnacy, you cant get pregnant if yo had sex after your period was over HOPE I HELPED!!

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CrystalRenee06 answered Thursday August 18 2005, 3:08 pm:
YES.. STD's are big these days. You should always use a condom, unless your are 100% sure that, the person that your having sex with is clean, and that they don't have any thing, and if they are also willing to take the risk of getting you pregnant. And even though he didn't cum inside of you, you can still get pregnant by pre-cum. You really should use condoms. And there is a possibilty of having STD's.

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karenR answered Sunday August 14 2005, 1:18 pm:
Anytime you have unprotected sex, even if you used the piull out method, the chance of being preganant exists.

As fir stds, how about a chart that will tell you everything you need to know...check it out. :)

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Also for birth control info:

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LoveNJstyle answered Saturday August 13 2005, 9:15 pm:
right now, you could have both and not know it. stds dont always show up quickly and im pretty sure precum can get you pregnant sooo go online, look up all the info on this and get well informed, take a pregnancy test and get tested for stds at a local clinic. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location), hope this helps! <3

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xomegaroni answered Saturday August 13 2005, 5:46 pm:
hmm maybe. you should get both tests juss incase.

good luck!

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girdy_goo15 answered Saturday August 13 2005, 5:34 pm:
yes you could have std's. and yes you might be pregnant just get a test.

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cailoisa answered Saturday August 13 2005, 4:24 pm:
You are usually only fertile a few days out of your cycle. Your most fertile days are the few in the middle of when you're not bleeding.

There only needs to be sexual contact to spread STD's. If you've only had sexual contact with each other, for certain, then you're ok. However, there are some STD's that you can get that can do their damage before you even know they are there. Gonorrhea can cause many nasty things, including infertility and death, without you ever knowing that you have it. Women often have no symptoms whatsoever. It can also be transmitted to unborn babies without knowing you have it. That's an example of just one disease that you can get.

So, unless you are absolutely certain that you have only ever been with each other, you might want to get tested just to be safe.

...As an afterthought, be sure to report people with mean answers, such as one of the answers below. You have every right to ask a question, and you shouldn't have to read through their bull to find the help you're looking for. There's a "report abuse" button to the right.

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J0NNYSxGiRL answered Saturday August 13 2005, 3:20 pm:
you can still get pregnant, girls have gotten pregnant off of the guys precum. that's how one of my friends was conceived. so just be cafeful. always wear protection or go on birth control, or both. i don't use a condom or nething, but i'm on birth control. just be cafeful next time. it only takes once, remember that.

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Saturday August 13 2005, 2:21 pm:
if he doesnt have stds and you dont then i dont think you can get it. btu if you are worried then go and see a doctor. ad there is still a chance you got pregnant because you dont noe if any cum did get i you fro sure. take a pregnance and just to make sure ur not pregnance. hope this helps you out.

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t0xicParadiSe answered Saturday August 13 2005, 1:45 pm:
yea there is a chance you could have gotten an STD if he has one

go to the doctors and get tested

goodluck if you need anything else drop one in my inbox &hearts;

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babygirl17 answered Saturday August 13 2005, 12:56 pm:
Yes.... You could still have an std even though he didnt cum inside of you... Guys precum.... and when they stick it in thats how you can get the STD... But the best way to make sure you or him dont have anything is to go to the doctors and get some tests done... and for the pregnancy thing... I dont think that you can be pregnant.... But.. for now on... Use Protection! That is the safest way!!!

Good Luck... Hope This Helps...


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xxBrOkEnxx answered Saturday August 13 2005, 12:49 pm:
yeah he could have had an STD. go get tested just in case. 14 days after your period has the most risk of getting pregnant

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Supermanlover45 answered Saturday August 13 2005, 12:24 pm:
Yes, it is possible to have some STD's and it's still possible to get pregnant even if he didn't cum in you. When you have sex the guy is pre cumming without even knowing because he can't even feel it(please don't ask me how I know this I just know it's possible..) I think you should get checked up anyways to make sure. I doubt you do but hey you never know. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't. :(

Buh Bye,

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Sporkster answered Saturday August 13 2005, 11:47 am:
Any time you have sex you have a chance of becoming pregnant. Any time. That's why you should NEVER have unprotected sex if you're not trying to conceive. It doesn't matter if he didn't "cum" inside of you. There is pre-ejaculate (or, "pre-cum") that does contains sperm. Always always ALWAYS use some sort of birth control/protection.

If he has been tested for STD's and was tested negative, you have nothing to worry about in that area. If he hasn't been tested, you really don't know. Have him and yourself tested for STD's so you don't have to worry about it.

Remember that the only 100% effective form of birth control is abstinence.

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Informant_Girl answered Saturday August 13 2005, 11:00 am:
If you had unprotected sex, even if he did not ejalucate into you, there are certain pre-ejaculatory liquids that come out during foreplay that do contain minor amounts of sperm. There is a chance that you might get pregnant (although lower than if he had ejaculated into you directly). STDs often do not manifest themselves right away - some have a long incubation period, maybe up to months. The best way is to get tested an anonymous clinic and stop sex until the results come in. And try to avoid unprotected sex if possible or if you think it will be hard, at least get tested and go on the pill or some other sort of contraception you can take before time.

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kevin1986 answered Saturday August 13 2005, 10:54 am:
You could be pregnant, there is a thing called "precum". All it takes is one little sperm cell. You only could've gotten an STD if he has one. Does he?

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russianspy1234 answered Saturday August 13 2005, 10:27 am:
yes, and you also still could have gotten pregnant i seriously reccommend the mourning after pill which can work for up to 5 days afterwards.

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