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I was wondering about Planned Parenthood. I know that you can go there and get condoms, birth control, morning-after-pill, etc. but I had a few questions. Can you just go in there and get condoms or do you have to like sit down and talk with a few people there with them asking you questions and saying make sure you're safe and ready, etc? Also, if you go there to get birth control, do they have to give you an exam "down there" or what all do they do? Plus, they don't tell your parents about it.. do they? I heard they were completly confidental. I'm just curious!! I rate high. (link)
planned parenthood (when i went there) they are supposed to give you a "check up". they have to just make sure everything is okay. & you do talk to someone about alot of stuff. like your period, how often you have sex, again, it's just for your safety. & they have to keep it confidental, it's the law (at least here it is). so yah. if you need anything else, leave one in my inbox.


does anyone know any free music downloaders that wont give your computer viruses? (not limewire though because it slowed my comp down a lot)
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Shareaza. it works really well. connects quickly. doesn't cost anything. & prevents virus & trojans from seeing what your downloading.


Ok, yesterday, I was really stressing out. I had a ton of homework, I discovered one of my friends are a cutter, and I have like 3 major tests that I bombed. I spent an hour crying in the principles office.once i got home, I got really short on breath. My chest constricted. I got really nausious and i couldn't breath. i got really dizzy and i passed out. I have no clue what happened. Can anybody help me?? Is it serious?! does it like actually have a name, or is it just me short circiting.
ppplllzzz help.
i give 5s for reasonable answers!!

signed,
anxious and twitchy (link)
you MIGHT want to go to a dr. i pass out alot. & sometimes it could be serious. & you might hurt yourself when you fall. my advice, go see a doctor just to be on the safe side.


i have been cutting myself for about 4 months now, i dont know how to stop, but i dont want to do it anymore. how do i stop and deal with my emotions in other ways? (link)
as an ex-cutter, i know that it's hard to tlak to ppl about it. my dad saw one of the scars & asked what it was. i just told him my cat strached me. & thank god he believed it. but cope with your anger/sadness another way. scream into a pillow. go outsdie & scream as loud as you can. write in a journal, or write a song or poem to express your feelings. call up a friend & tell them what you're feeling. there is so much you can do to stop yourself. don't think about it as much, you should be fine. if you need to talk or w/e drop one in my inbox or IM me. J0NNYS x GiRL. hope i helped hunn. good luck.


(13//f) ok well i have had my period before and yesterday i got it and i was bleeding like a ton. usually when i first get it, i only bleed a little and it is dark brown. but yesterday it was blood and a lot of it! and i ran out of pads so i put a tampon in and when i went to the bathroom an hour later there wsas blood all over my pantilyner ( i always wear them when i wear a tompon) so i took the tampon out and i didnt even have to like pull! it was sooo full of blood! is this normal? i know that it could have been my heavy day but normally they arent that bloody! and now it is just as bloody as yesterday!...is this normal??

please help ASAP!!!!!!!!!!

sorry, it was long...

thanks!! (link)
it's completely normal. i 1st got my period when i was in 7th grade, & it now is just starting to get normal, & i'm a junior in high school. so it took take a while for your body to decide what it's gonna do. just wait it out. don't worry about it.


This is the first question I've asked on here. I've answered a few questions, but this is the first I've asked. Here it is: It seems to me like people wanting advice should accept what's offered and "take it or leave it." I've read so many questions that end with, "and don't tell me to ______ because of _______." Not a problem. If people don't want certain types of advice (i.e. silly, stupid, sarcastic, etc.) then that would be fine. But what it seems to be most of the time is a legitimate answer. If someone is having a problem with something, doesn't it make sense to explore all options? It seems to me that some people (not the majority by any means) have something they want to hear and won't accept anything but that. Am I alone in this thought? (link)
i completely agree!!!


I'm getting my belly button pierced either today or tomorrow and I'm really kinda freaked out. Some people tell me it dosen't hurt at all and some people tell me it hurts like hell. Is it different for everybody? Has anyone gotten their belly button pierced and they piercer got it crooked or something? Thanks! (link)
mine hurt when i got it done. i got it done about 6 weeks ago. & you can die if it's peirced wrong. just make sure you go to a professional place. some place where you have only heard good things about. good luck.


i keep going for a wee the last few days, i've been at least 8-10 times just today i did have unprotected sex just over 2 week ago but he did pull out before he came i know people do get pregnant from the "pull out" method also im 10 days late for a period it isn't unsual for me tho but could i be pregnant? (link)
go see a doctor. only he/she could actually tell you if something is wrong for sure. & yes you could still be pregnant. again, see a doctor. don't use one of those home prenacy tests. my mom took one when she was 8 months preg. w/ me, & it came out negitive. so go see a doctor asap. good luck


this might seem weird, but i fell in love with a guy i met online. last night we talked for like 7 or 8 hours, maybe longer. but the thing is, today i remembered that i had lied to him about something. and i felt bad so i e-mailed him and told him. he just kind of laughed it off, but then he was like "so does this mean i can go out with someone else?" so then he explains to me that this whole time he liked another girl and that he can't trust me now...yet he still "loves" me. it makes me feel awful, i told him that i was a year older than i really was. he says it doesn't bother him, but yet he's confusing me by saying he loves me but he just wants to be friends so he can go out with this girl. i guess my question is..what can i do to get his trust back? i'm really going to miss talking to him the way i used to... (link)
i'm not gonan say that you wren't in love, but like, why online? find a real person. this guy could be a 50 yr old guys, pretending to be your age, & he could be a pedaphile. that's just stupidy. i'd say grow the hell up. get a real boyfriend. someone that you can actually see, & know he's not really 50 yrs old. good luck though.


I went to the movies with one of my friends that I havent seen it a couple of months and my other friends said ok have fun.Well when I got back there parents told me that they went to the Lake ( our hang out spot )So I went there and I couldnt find them.I called there cell and they didnt answer.Could it be that there blowing me off
PS They tend to get mad at me when im will other people because Im with them everyday. (link)
if your "friends" get mad at you for hanging out with your other friends, then your "friends" aren't really friends at all. have a talk with them about it. tell them you will hang out with whoever you want to hang out with, whether they agree with it or not. hope i helped some.


ok so i was to peirce my tounge by myself, cause i basicly do what i want

but my tounge is really short
i mean really really short
does ur tounge have to be a certain length to peirce it? because like the thing at the bottom of your tounge is like connected right at the tip of my tounge, so what the hell am i supposed to do? (link)
don't peirce it yourself. you can bleed to death from it, cause of all the veins in your toungue, or lose your sense of taste. just don't do it yourself. get it done by a professional.


What are some things that turn on a guy whenever a girl does something?
[Example: Biting ear, kissing neck?] (link)
biting his ears are usually a good way, also teasing him. pretend like you are going to kiss him, but pull away. the longer you do this, the more turned on the guy will get, & want you even more. hope i helped!


does any one know what a program vendor is?! my aim isnt working and it keeps logging out when i try to look at profiles or chat to 2 people. it sux!! please help! i rate (link)
the 1800 thing is a virus or spyware of some sort. spy ware ruins you computer. make sure to get rid of it asap. AIM should work better after that. hope i helped!!


okay first off im sorry this is long... okay im 13 and i have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years.. i know thats long lol.. anyways .. this year we're going to be going to dif. schools.. he'll be in middle school and ill be in highschool.. hes in 6th im in 7th...well .. i love him more then i could explain. but my boyfriend.. eric thinks ill find someone else at the highschool... i know it could happen.. but it wont because i love him.. and hey who knows he might meet someone else.. and im just so worried things wont work out for us.. what do u think i should do..? i rate all 5's !!! THANKS! (link)
wow, your really young to be going into high school. but anyways. my b/f is going into college this yr, & i'm gonna b a junior in high school. so i know what you guys mean. but just tell him that you love him, & only him. if you two are really in love, then nothing can come between yous. plus it's only really one yr apart. he will be with you sooner than you know it!

hope i helped!


ok so i hear if you take test and it comes out positive, there is still a chance it can be wrong and your really not pregnant. i also hear if it comes out negative..it can be inacurate as well and you really could be pregnant..therefore how is taking a pregnancy test a good indicator if your pregnant or not? are you supposed to take like 4 in a row and see whatever answer comes out the most?
little confused
thanks (link)
my mom took a pregnancy test when she was 8 onths pregnant with me, just to see if it works as well as they say they do. well, it came out negitive. your best bet is to go to a dr if you seriously think you are pregnant. or look up warning & syptom signs online. but pregnancy tests aren't always right.


i had unprotected sex about 3 days ago. he didn't cum inside me, so i know i'm not pregnant. but could i still have gotten any stds, even though there haven't been any signs so far? (link)
you can still get pregnant, girls have gotten pregnant off of the guys precum. that's how one of my friends was conceived. so just be cafeful. always wear protection or go on birth control, or both. i don't use a condom or nething, but i'm on birth control. just be cafeful next time. it only takes once, remember that.


Hey. What's up?

I Have an amazing boyfriend. I love him. We have been together since Feb. 2nd, 2004 (for the people trying to figure that out, its been 1 year,6months and 9 days) I Love Him, like I said. However, sometimes I think that I may like other guys. Where I work there are 2 guys who I
"like" but I wouldn't go out with them if they asked me. I want to stay with my boyfriend. I think about these other guys sometimes tho.

Any ways or tips to stop these thoughts?

I am more then sure that I am going to stay with my boyfriend. I wouldn't ever date these other guys.

How can I deal with the thoughts?

Is this normal?

(Sophmore, Female)

-Kels- (link)
you cannot control on who you like. i was in the same situation as you are in right now, not too long ago. my feelings went away with time. a few weeks or so. i think it's normal. good luck hunn ♥


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