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There's this girl, Rayna. She's so mean. And anyway, I was talking to this guy on facebook whos really great, and she comments him and tells him that he should stop talking to me and that shell "explain later." and ive never even talked to her, so shes just doing it to spite me. So anyway, would it be a bad idea to message her saying "what did rayna say about me?" And should i say something else?

no, just ask him what that was all about. you have a right to know, it is about you. i would avoid talking to her though. it would cause more drama. just message him about it.

-hope that helped!♥

I feel really weird asking this lol but I need help. See I never know exactly when I'm going to get my period, but I briefly know around which time it comes. I was wondering, if it was okay to put a tampon in when you think it's coming soon, but you don't have your period. I dont want to get that toxic shock syndrome or anything like that, so if anyone could help me out that would be great =]

no i wouldn't suggest doing that. im pretty sure toxic shock syndrome is from the blood being stored though, not just from a tampon. basically its bacteria that's building up. i would suggest wearing a light pad or a pantyliner. here's a website-

http://www.kidshealth.org/parent/infections/bacterial_viral/toxic_shock.html

-hope that helped!♥

This summer i am going on a school trip with all my friends. There is going to be a pool at the hotel we are staying at and we are very excited to be going swimming. The problem is is that a lot of guys are going and other girls and all the girls have boobs and they will be looking good in their bathing suits and the problem is is that i dont have any and i dont want all the guys to be looking and lauging at me. It is very embarrising and i dont want all of them to see my flat chest. I dont care if it is just girls but there is about 20 guys coming to and i know they will all be looking at my friends and i am very self concious about it. I am flat. I cant help it. i will be humiliated even if they dont laugh or look at me. Please help. thanks!

i have like, no boobs myself, & if you get a bathing suit with extra padding or one with a clip in the middle that pushes things up & together it should help a bit. but anyways, dont worry about it. you dont want a guy that just cares about your boob size anyway. plus, a lot of guys dont even care.

-hope that helped!♥

my kodak digital camera is being weird. when i turn it on the screen says the kodak logo thing like normal, and then the screen turns black and it shuts off..but the batteries arent dead because ive changed them so many times to make sure that wasnt the problem. help?

make sure your camera is on the right setting, meaning like if its turned to view mode or picture mode. every camera is different so im not sure which one is correct. test that a few times. if it doesnt work then i'd suggest getting it looked at.

-hope that helped!♥

what is the best/prettiest brand of foundation to use...please dont reply unless you can give me an example such as a picture of you wearing that specific brand so i can see what it looks like

for foundation i use Jane. yes, i got it at walmart for a quick fix & actually ended up really liking it. i don't think the picture will help much because every person is different. it's pretty cheap so you can always get it & if you don't like it don't buy it again. a lot of friends use maybelline also.

-hope that helped!♥

if a boy keeps playing around with you and everywhere you go somehow he is there and when he always get closer to you and hugs you alot but like in a takling way and he always comes talk to you when your talking to another boy does that mean he likes you

every guy is different. think of it this way-would you get closer to someone/hug them if you didnt like them?? im guessing he does like you. you just need to talk to him & find out how much & if he likes you way more than a friend or what. like i said before, every guy is different & they all act differently.

-hope that helped!♥

Alright, this is kind of out of the blue, but does anyone know what the, i guess, shades are in old fashioned movies where people get dressed behind? Its kind of like an accordian, and they would put it in the corner, and get changed behind it..

THANKS.

i actually think they're called room dividers. i used google images & typed in 'room divider' & it came up. try that.

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my stomach always growls during school. even if i eat breakfast, it actually growls more later in the day. if i don't, it just does it kind of during my first class then stops. it's so embarassing because i feel like everybody can hear it and if we're working on something idividually i like panic. i drink water so that kind of helps. we're not really allowed to eat during class. is there a way to avoid your stomach growling?

that happens to me a lot during school, especially in the morning. if you drink a good amount of water before you start class, it should help. also try chewing gum. if you feel it starting to growl [because sometimes you can] just start coughing. that's what i do sometimes haha :) the gum seemed to work for me though. there's not much you can do about it.

-hope that helped!♥

what is a stomach infection?

there's not something called a 'stomach infections'. there's a bunch of things that are considered stomach infections. for example, a few of them would be-
acid reflux, e coli infection, etc. etc. it breaks into sections.

here's a website-
http://www.stomach-fitness.com/stomach-infection.html

those are all the types you can have. if you actually have a stomach infection, i would suggest looking through them [by clicking on each link] & see if any symptoms match up to yours.

you can also google other options.

-hope that helped!♥

I have blue eyes and in every picture I've seen with me in it my eyes turn red. Every single time. If I were to wear brown eyeshadow, would that reduce the redness and make my eyes show up their natural color? Also, are there any other eye makeup tips that would be a solution. I know photos could be fixed by computer, but I don't want a reason for fixing..

its not actually the color of your eyes, but it's the flash of the camera. here's a website-

http://www.newton.dep.anl.gov/askasci/gen99/gen99087.htm

maybe try not using flash if you are indoors & try using natural light such as the sun through windows or lights in your house. obviously if you're taking pictures outdoors, the sunlight will affect it with the flash of the camera.

for makeup, i guess you can try using darker eyeshadows such as brown. you should test out certain colors & see which ones come out best with your pictures.

-hope that helped!♥

16/m.
ryt theres this girl i really like and i have know for like 10 years now. we have always been friends. about 3 years ago we started hanging out like all the time and i fell in love with her. i didnt tell her because my best friend was really in to her so i didnt want to do anything cause he is my best friend and it would have been like stabbing him in the back. so i contiune 2 be really good friends with her.

but about 2 years ago i started hanging about with the wrong people and we slowly drifted apart. we kind of stayed friends just with the conversations on msn and that but we stopped hanging out.

but recently (well about 6th months ago) when the new school new year started i sat next to her in a couple of classes we gradually built back up our relationship from before we started to hang out again. it was really good but as our relationship built back up so did my feelings for her.

just before new year there we were at a party and a we talked all night and we hugged for a long time at the end. then at new year my friend had a party and we talked and dance for alot again but i just wasnt able to tell her how a felt. this all gradually had been building up in me and i have started to become really depressed about things at this point she had notice this to.

so a month ago she had a party but this time she ignore me for most of the night for reason still unknown but then at the end of the nigth she started talking to me and i kind of made it obvisles (soory about the spelling) to her that i had feelings for her and the way she replied was that she had feelings for me to.

but in the last couple of weeks she has been talking to me much on msn or myspace and when we do talk she jst replies by saying kl or something similar. i have asked her why she has been so quite and she just says its nothing. but i recently found out that she and her friend have been going out with a couple of my best friends and not been telling me and my other friends this has really annoyed me and a couple of friends.

i questioned my best friend who had been going out with her what was happening and he said nothing and complety lied to my face about them going out. and now all of a sudden she is been talking to me constanly on msn again. am so confused what to do if i ask her out and she wat she says but she just seems to be messin me abou. and now the depression has came back and it is really bad ave been falling out with my friends and at the latest party i punched a wall and discolated my knuckle.

it feels quite good to be able to get it all out and any help would be appriocated thanks

i think you should just talk to her about it. nothing bad will come out of just talking. its not right for your friends to lie about things like that. her feelings are probably confusing if its just going back & forth. you should sit down & talk face to face & sort everything out. that way, you both know where you stand & what feelings you have for each other. if it doesn't work out, you can always be friends, but you'll have to move on by meeting new people & trying different things. seriously think about if you want a more than friends relationship with her & if you can trust her. it seems a bit shady that she wouldn't tell you about what happened with her & your friends, but that is just my opinion. keep trying if you seriously have strong feelings, just watch yourself & prevent yourself from getting hurt. good luck :)

-hope that helped!♥

on the PSP commercial w/that guy trying to find the girl and she ends up being at some club ya whats the song they're playing?

thanx a bunchesss!

this is probably the commercial you're talking about-

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cTlf1IlkToI

the song is called out of control by kenna.

the poster of the video left a comment with it.

-hope that helped!♥

Can you tell whens the last time someone logged on to Facebook?

nope, that isn't recorded. like the other columnist said, you can check their newsfeed & see what they've done whenever. it's not set up like myspace.

-hope that helped!♥

Okay, Ill try and keep this short, but don't count on it.

Anyways, there is this guy that i work with. He asked me for my email address and wanted to talk to me, only until i found out later that he liked me. (I have a boyfriend, by the way). So, we started talking for about a week or so, and asked to hang out. I said "I dont think that my boyfriend would appreciate that.." and he said bring some friends, so i brought my two best friends. Now, he likes my best friend or me, i have no clue. Then recently, he had a girlfriend..and broke up with her because they 'werent hanging out' a few days later. I think he still likes me or my friend and he is really hard to read sometimes. A couple days ago, his best friend James (he was hanging out with us too at the time) broke up with his girlfriend and was sad and likes my OTHER best friend...this is just complicated... and then told me to get this guy who 'likes me' a valentines present, i said no because that would be rude to my boyfriend, so i think something is going to happen and i dont like it...

My question is, i have no idea what to do, i think he has a plan to get me something on valentines day... but i dont understand why because i thought he liked my friend? i have no idea.. im just very very confused, can someone help me and give me suggestions on what to do in this situation? Anything will help!

you should probably ignore all of it. it will eventually cause drama with your boyfriend if it didn't already. valentines day is for you and your boyfriend, not other guys so if he does get you something, just say thank you & you appreciate it but you do have a boyfriend. you should also let him know about all of this. don't worry about who he likes though. now, if you're interested in him, then that's a different story & a problem you need to work out with your boyfriend, him, and your friend.

-hope that helped!♥

I am wondering what to get my long distance boyfriend for valentines day. We have been together on and off for a little over a year now and we agreed this valentines day that we would not spend a lot on eachother since that is money we can put towards seeing eachother when we are on breaks from school. Neither one of us is super romantic so I don't really want anything too mushy.

Any ideas of what I could do for him for Valentines day?

i think the best thing would be something cute & something simple. i'd say to get him a nice card & candy. basically it's saying you're thinking of him, but it's not like you guys are engaged or anything. also, you could add in something personal that you know he likes.

-hope that helped!♥

i've had my license two months.
today, i turned left on RED.
:(
i have trouble telling left and right sometimes
i know, i'm 16. i dont know whyyyy.
so i wasn't thinking. all i did was look for cars. no cars were coming.
i made the turn.
when the turn was finished, i realized that i had just turned LEFT. :(
do you think im going to get a ticket in the mail?
IM SOOO WORRIED.
unbelieveably worried.
please help.

probably not. i think most likely if that would have happened it would have been caught right away. just try paying closer attention next time. since you made that mistake once, even if you do get a ticket, you'll definately remember not to do that next time.

-hope that helped!♥

if you have your periods can doing excercise make them lighter?

it doesn't make the flow lighter. it helps reduce cramps & you'll feel a bit better.

-hope that helped!♥

is it ok to do intence exercise with them

i have them & its okay as long as you drink a lot of water before, during, and after. you should know your limits so stick within them.

-hope that helped!♥

if i have minor heart palpations is it bad to occasionally drink alochol??

i have heart palpitations myself. ive never dranken alcohol, but i'd suggest not to drink it. i mean, maybe a cup once and awhile isn't bad, but not more than that. for me, caffine really makes it palpitate so obviously stay away from drinks like those.

-hope that helped!♥

ok so i was wondering what would you reccommend a razr or another pic phone? i have altell if that counts. pros and cons please and thankyou!

a lot of my friends have the razr. some like it, some don't. everyone's opinion is basically different, so like the other columnist said, i would suggest talking to someone at the store & trying out the model they have.

-hope that helped!♥

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