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Trip unwanted at the moment
This summer i am going on a school trip with all my friends. There is going to be a pool at the hotel we are staying at and we are very excited to be going swimming. The problem is is that a lot of guys are going and other girls and all the girls have boobs and they will be looking good in their bathing suits and the problem is is that i dont have any and i dont want all the guys to be looking and lauging at me. It is very embarrising and i dont want all of them to see my flat chest. I dont care if it is just girls but there is about 20 guys coming to and i know they will all be looking at my friends and i am very self concious about it. I am flat. I cant help it. i will be humiliated even if they dont laugh or look at me. Please help. thanks!
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The first thing most guys notice about girls IS NOT the size of their chests. There are swimming suits out there that make things look a little bigger if you are really self conscious. I don't think you have anything to worry about though.
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You're not the only one with this problem - I'm sure others are thinking the same thing.
Next, there are bathing suits that maximize what you do have - check them out.
But finally, guys just don't care. Seeing you in a bathsuit is still better than seeing you in your clothes. They'll still get excited.
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i have like, no boobs myself, & if you get a bathing suit with extra padding or one with a clip in the middle that pushes things up & together it should help a bit. but anyways, dont worry about it. you dont want a guy that just cares about your boob size anyway. plus, a lot of guys dont even care.
-hope that helped!♥
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Well not all guys want girls with big boobs. my sister and my best friend are extremely flat chested. their boyfriends love it. so dont stress!
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Hey,
Don't fret!
Just wear a bathing suit with some padding.
There's a lot of cute ones @ Victoria's Secret that will (I quote) "maximize your cleavage" - as ther person below me said.
& Again, as the other advice giver[s] said, you're not going to be the only one going on this trip who's self concious.
And if any guys have the NERVE to say anything, make fun of their flabby stomache, hairy legs, or anything to that affect.
I'm sure that you won't be the only one that doesn't have boobs.
Good luck, have fun hun!
If you need anything, leave me one in my Inbox.
:) Jam
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Before you get yourself worked up, remember that every single person on that trip is body concious. I don't know anyone who doesn't dislike atleast one thing about their body. You might think all the guys are going to be looking at your chest, but many of them will be looking at themselves, hoping no one is looking at thier nonexsistent six pack.
If you have a small chest,it probably means you are naturally thin and you already have something going for you. I bet some girls would kill for your slim figure.
There are many ways to enhance a small bust, like bathing suits with padding and a built in push up bra. Check out Victorias Secrets website, they have great bathing suit tops for maximizing cleavage.
If you are confident in the way you look, nothing else will matter. You'd be suprised at how a good confidence attracts a guy :)
So be happy with your body, flat chested or Pamela Anderson. The only way you can love another is if you love yourself.
Best wishes,
-DearAbby92
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Get one with cups that are small. It wont look like youre padding, itll look good. Some guys like small.
And choose a very flattering bathing suit. a bikini works well with a small chest.
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