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Im Kenzie.
I don't fit under any stereotype.
Im not judgemental. I hate people that are. That's why I act the way I do.
I try to surround myself with people that can help me overcome being shy. It seems to be working.
I don't have a lot of friends. I wish it was different.
I love being unique.
I don't know what I would do without my boyfriend James. He's the only thing that keeps me sane these days. I can talk to him about anything.
I play a lot of video games, and listen to a wide variety of music.
Im loud and obnoxious. I can't help it. This is what happens when people help break me out of my shell. Pretty soon, it becomes a habit and people start to see you for who you are. Not for who you pretend to be.
I hate liars,fakes, backstabbers, shit talkers, and drama queens. Save your shit for the people that are just like you. You'll get along great.
I hate it when people go with the trends. Be yourself.
Im mature for my age. But at times I can be immature.
I love thunderstorms. Standing in the rain is just so fun.
I watch a lot of movies.
People underestimate me, and when they do, they lose me as a friend. Don't do it because you'll miss me when im gone.

advice

This summer i am going on a school trip with all my friends. There is going to be a pool at the hotel we are staying at and we are very excited to be going swimming. The problem is is that a lot of guys are going and other girls and all the girls have boobs and they will be looking good in their bathing suits and the problem is is that i dont have any and i dont want all the guys to be looking and lauging at me. It is very embarrising and i dont want all of them to see my flat chest. I dont care if it is just girls but there is about 20 guys coming to and i know they will all be looking at my friends and i am very self concious about it. I am flat. I cant help it. i will be humiliated even if they dont laugh or look at me. Please help. thanks!

The first thing most guys notice about girls IS NOT the size of their chests. There are swimming suits out there that make things look a little bigger if you are really self conscious. I don't think you have anything to worry about though.

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I'm 17/f. I've never been kissed before or had a boyfriend since middle school. But that's besides the point. Now there is this guy I like who's in one of my classes and I have no idea what to do! Obviously, I'm terrible at flirting/getting guys to like me because if I were any good at it, I probably would have had a boyfriend in the past 3 years. I really like this guy and stuff, but I have really low self-confidence and I think he's too popular for me and he'd never like me and whatever. Whenever I try to talk to him, I just get all negative and think that he'll never like me because no guys ever really notice me, even though I know I am attractive, but I'm quiet and mature-ish. So how can I get him to notice me more because I feel like I'm really awkward around him. Any tips for someone who's terrible at flirting?

I think that you should jut talk to him and try your best to not get shy. Im still shy around my boyfriend and we've been dating for almost 3 months now, but right now things are improving. If you just talk to him and show him what you're really like, he will likely do the same and you could really hit it off. Don't think negative thoughts because if you end up talking to him, it is possible you could keep dwelling on it. Being mature isn't a bad thing. He could be mature too. I know what it's like to not get noticed by guys. When my friends are hanging out with a group of guys and they say/do something I think is funny, I laugh, they look over and smile then a conversation gets going. It may work..

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i'm not fat, but like when i wake up in the morning my stomach is somewhat flat. but as i eat throughout the day, my stomach kind of grows! at the end of the day, my stomach is pretty big. even if i eat 1 bowl of chicken noodle soup my stomach is huge! i really hate when this happens. like in school right after lunch when i only eat a salad my stomach is pretty big and it's really embarassing, i usually suck in to keep anyone from seeing my big stomach. what can i do to keep my stomach from doing this?

It's possible that you may just have a really fast or really slow metabolism or digestive rate. Some people digest food rather fast, and others don't. It's completely normal. The same thing happens with me, but when I drink water my stomach seems to get a little smaller.

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ok well, im pretty much fine with the way i look and such, and im pretty skinny, but my ribs are kind of chunky, haha, well, i have my ribs then it caves in to where my stomach goes and its really weird looking. people are always telling me that it looks like im sucking it in, but im not. is there a certain way i can do crunches to target the upper part of my abs and ribs? and i dont need everyone just saying that you cant just target one part of your body to exercise, because crunches obviously are targeting your abs.

Well, exercising could help you out. Doing crunches or anything that could help you gain muscle could make your ribs less visible.

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