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I'm 17/f. I've never been kissed before or had a boyfriend since middle school. But that's besides the point. Now there is this guy I like who's in one of my classes and I have no idea what to do! Obviously, I'm terrible at flirting/getting guys to like me because if I were any good at it, I probably would have had a boyfriend in the past 3 years. I really like this guy and stuff, but I have really low self-confidence and I think he's too popular for me and he'd never like me and whatever. Whenever I try to talk to him, I just get all negative and think that he'll never like me because no guys ever really notice me, even though I know I am attractive, but I'm quiet and mature-ish. So how can I get him to notice me more because I feel like I'm really awkward around him. Any tips for someone who's terrible at flirting?
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I think that you should jut talk to him and try your best to not get shy. Im still shy around my boyfriend and we've been dating for almost 3 months now, but right now things are improving. If you just talk to him and show him what you're really like, he will likely do the same and you could really hit it off. Don't think negative thoughts because if you end up talking to him, it is possible you could keep dwelling on it. Being mature isn't a bad thing. He could be mature too. I know what it's like to not get noticed by guys. When my friends are hanging out with a group of guys and they say/do something I think is funny, I laugh, they look over and smile then a conversation gets going. It may work..
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well i can deffaintly relate to this. im 16 never been kissed and havent had a boyfriend in the longest time. but the only difference is i love to flirt. haha. but if i was in your situation, i would probably start a conversation with him. about anything. just to give him a little hint that you wanna talk to him. im sure he`ll be smart enough to realize it. maybe ask if yous` have any homework and if yous` do, theres always a study date (= eventually you will feel comfortable talking to him and the feeling might be mutial. just try not to doubt yourself so much cause it will hold you back from so many things. hopefully from you too talking it will take your mind off of thinking so much. i know you`ll be alittle shy to go uhp to him and ask him something or start a conversation but its something you have to do and eventually you`ll be so used to it, it`ll feel like nothing! i wish you the best of luck.
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try thinkin he's just like any other person, try to think about him doing silly things or something that works for me xD
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