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This One Guy.. haha
Okay, Ill try and keep this short, but don't count on it.
Anyways, there is this guy that i work with. He asked me for my email address and wanted to talk to me, only until i found out later that he liked me. (I have a boyfriend, by the way). So, we started talking for about a week or so, and asked to hang out. I said "I dont think that my boyfriend would appreciate that.." and he said bring some friends, so i brought my two best friends. Now, he likes my best friend or me, i have no clue. Then recently, he had a girlfriend..and broke up with her because they 'werent hanging out' a few days later. I think he still likes me or my friend and he is really hard to read sometimes. A couple days ago, his best friend James (he was hanging out with us too at the time) broke up with his girlfriend and was sad and likes my OTHER best friend...this is just complicated... and then told me to get this guy who 'likes me' a valentines present, i said no because that would be rude to my boyfriend, so i think something is going to happen and i dont like it...
My question is, i have no idea what to do, i think he has a plan to get me something on valentines day... but i dont understand why because i thought he liked my friend? i have no idea.. im just very very confused, can someone help me and give me suggestions on what to do in this situation? Anything will help!
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The best thing I can tell you to do is this: If he gives you a gift for valentines day, reject it. Of course, this will hurt his feelings, but he knows you have a boyfriend, and has understand you are rejecting his gift out of respect for your boyfriend. Valentines is a day for sweethearts, you aren't his, and he knows that.
I, personally, would be insulted if a guy completely disregarded my husband and gave me a valentine because he liked me. I know you aren't married like me, but you obviously care about your boyfriend, otherwise you wouldn't be so concerned about all of this. Correct? So it makes it the same general concept.
I guess that if he does try to give you a gift, your confusion will be cleared up, and you can make him understand that you are already spoken for.
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you should probably ignore all of it. it will eventually cause drama with your boyfriend if it didn't already. valentines day is for you and your boyfriend, not other guys so if he does get you something, just say thank you & you appreciate it but you do have a boyfriend. you should also let him know about all of this. don't worry about who he likes though. now, if you're interested in him, then that's a different story & a problem you need to work out with your boyfriend, him, and your friend.
-hope that helped!♥
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