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she said terrible things


Question Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 7:22 pm

There's this girl, Rayna. She's so mean. And anyway, I was talking to this guy on facebook whos really great, and she comments him and tells him that he should stop talking to me and that shell "explain later." and ive never even talked to her, so shes just doing it to spite me. So anyway, would it be a bad idea to message her saying "what did rayna say about me?" And should i say something else?

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xXkeepXwhatXigotXx answered Friday February 16 2007, 12:22 pm:
Ugh, been there, done that. Yeah send him a message. I think he'll be truthful with you if he's as great as you say and if you two are really friends he should be more inclined to dis Rayna as a friend.

Hope all works out. =]

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mariahwannabe answered Thursday February 15 2007, 12:52 pm:
Show her you mean buisness and your not going to take any rubbish from her.Your gonna ask him with confidence and tell him that she has been on your case for ages and you havnt done nothing.Your gonna hang with your friends and you gonna igonre here??She just dosnt start being to you for nothing but because you havnt, I suggest she's jealous of you because you with him.Go up to her and ask what her your problem?Just ignore she is just jealous.

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DearAbby92 answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 11:00 pm:
Ask the guy what Rayna said. Tell him you don't even know her, and that you have no clue why she dislikes you.

Talk to Rayna. It could be a mix up, maybe its a misunderstanding? Ask her why she doesn't like you and what you can do to change that.

If she really is just a mean person at heart, don't worry about her. She isn't worth your trouble. No one likes a person who just tries to put others down.

-DearAbby92

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Bey answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 10:36 pm:
If it is that important to you than ask but I don't think that it should be that important because she is an immature little girl. You know who you are and what you are about you shouldn'r have to worry about what anyone else has to say. If he were to treat you differently or ask you any strange questions then I would get around to asking about whatever acusations she made. But, usually honestly what we don't know won't hurt us in these situtations and finding out details only make things worse. to actually get to a bottom of a problem like this I feel the best way to "nip it in the bud" would be to act mature step to the girl and find out what the problem is. You could simply in a nice way ask her " Do you have a problem with me?" and let the chips fall fro there. But if you don't want to go there and you know if you are prepared for something like that just ignore it because she is not worth it that is too childish to worry about; let it go.

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xomegaroni answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 10:08 pm:
no, just ask him what that was all about. you have a right to know, it is about you. i would avoid talking to her though. it would cause more drama. just message him about it.

-hope that helped!♥

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