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okay i really need help on this...me n mah boyfriend have been together for a year n 3 months since sunday...but it seems like all we do is fight...but i know deep down in my heart we r meant to be....but we fight over the most dumbest things...like tonight...we was at the fair n i didnt wanna ride this one ride...n he got all pist n shit...n we fought n like always..he ended up cryin n i told him i was tired of fightin wit him n that things was gonna havet to change n he asked me if i was gonna break up wif him..n i said no...of course...cuz i love him way to much...but sometimes i feel like i should just to see what else is out there...but i cant bring myself to it...its like god is tellin me not to...like we r meant to be and just stick wit it..and also he claims that he dont know why he acts the way he does...(in yellin and cryin all the time bout stupid shit)...and i dont know what to do or what to believe or anythin else...someone plz help me!

a lotta guys are like that... and a lotta couples fight... i think u guys need a break tho... just to see what its like without eachother... and than'll you'll both realize if u really wanna be with eachother or are better off without eachother...

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Ok, there's this guy that likes me. And he's the nicest person you would ever meet. He's so content with who he is. And i love that, and everything about him. But he's bisexual and it kinda creeps me out. I mean, im not homophobic and i love bisexuals and guy people. But i've never gone out with one, and i just think its kinda weird. Like i would kiss him, and realize that he's kissed boys before and stuff. I don't know. Is it bad that i don't wanna go out with him just cuz he's bi?

It's not bad its ur opinion... if thats the way u feel than thats the way u feel... and u should never question ur feelings cuz u cant do much to change em... try to give this guy a chance... cuz if u dont u might be missing out on sumthing great...

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Ok, I know that this is a really dumb question, but I'm gonna ask anyways.

I went out with this guy for about 5 months. We broke up for a while (about 6 months), and now we are back together.

While we were broken up, I hooked up with a friend's friend from out of town. My boyfriend doesn't know him, and there is an outside chance that they will one day meet, but I'm not all that worried about that.

For some reason which I can't explain even to myself, I feel as if I should tell my boyfriend. I don't feel guilty about the hookup, because, well, we were apart. I guess I just feel that he should know. But I don't want to mess anything up in between us.

So... to tell or not to tell... that is the question? (Sorry for the cliche, I couldn't resist.)

If it makes u feel really guilty, is constantly on ur mind, & u truly do love him, than you should tell him...

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i have thin/medium thick hair and i have no idea what to do with it! its naturally curly but it turns out frizzy so i usually end up straightening it and that takes a while.. can anyone IM me on AIM/AOL with any suggestions on what to do, then explain how to do them? i'm on all AIM the time so dont worry about me not being on.. my sn is xXxHaRtBrOkN5xXx thanks!! (it would be easier to IM me and tell me the hairstyles, but if you dont have AIM/AOL just leave it on here! thanks!)

use curls up hair serum... im pretty sure it would help (make sure u follow usage directions)

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What do women really want from a guy? What will make a girl want you so badly it hurts?

It really does depend on the girl... but what i think most girls what is LOVE... show a girl that u really do care about her and would do anything in the world for her... if u show her this im sure she'll want u really bad and the thought of losing sum1 that would do anything for them is really scary so she would want u so bad that it would hurt...

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okay this is an extreamly random question but the other night i was watcing the movie french kiss and for those of you who've seen it the french guy luke he said that when he first fell in love with a prostitute that he had to pay more money to kiss her than to have sex with her... why is that?

Ive heard that in a lot of movies... but its cuz a kiss means more than sex to prostitutes cuz they give sex all time and its meaningless so a kiss is worth a lot to them...

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Im 16 and hAve never had a b/f before i think it cause im afraid like ill get asked out and ill sey yes but then a dya or two later ill get scared and break up ive even tried becoming really good friends with them first so i get to know them better but i still break up what should i do

Next time u get asked out... GO... lol im sure you'll have fun :)

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I have this friend who i have known for whole life..... we r the same age but i am in a higher grade(long story) also i moved away from the town we lived in together and i hang out with people that are older and she is jealous of my best friend but shes sooo immature to me and i try to act myself but i she isnt into it and she is weird to me.....i love her sooo much she is on of my best friends what do i do?

Ask her if sumthing is bothering her... point out that u feel like sumthing is wrong...

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I was wondering that lemon lemonade help your hiar high lighted in the sun. what if putting pink or starwberry? I just wondering.. oh yea and if you do put lemonade your hair sit in sun. you dont just pour in your hair? will surger make hair more yucky and oily? 3rd qestion after all that do have wash it????
Thanx

um lemonade doesnt make ur hair lighter... lemons do... dont bleach ur hair at home... i did that & it damaged my hair...

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Alright heres the situation.. I have this friend, his name is Chris. Anyways, we are like best friends, i guess you could say. We talk alot hang out pretty often. He has a girl friend and i am single. Do you think he likes me if he does the following.. always smiles when he looks at me, always ask who i like, is really nice to me, and hugs me all the time.. i am really confused i dont know if he likes me or is it just a friend thing? Thanks in advance!! -xXoBrianna

it may be a friend thing... but if he likes u... thats not really a good thing... cuz if he starts going out wit u... he'll probably hug other girls and stuff... would u be ok wit dat?

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It's Kevin1986 here with a problem and a couple of questions. I'm friends with two guys,let's say D and J. J used to go out with a girl that I'm very close with,but not dating,although I'd like to. He's pretty obessive,talking about her all the time. Anyway,D used to like her too and they almost went out,but they had a falling out. About a year ago,a new guy,M,goes out with her. I don't care about M and neither do they. J and D want me to tell M that the girl he's going out with is a headtrip because their relationships with her didn't work. I say,it's his bed and it's job to determine whether his girl is crazy or not. I say D and J want me out of the way so they can get her,because I know she'd hate me forever if I tried to break up her relationship. Since I care about her,I want her to be happy even if it's not with me. Your thoughts on this issue? P.S I never really considered telling M this,but I want your opinions on what the real story is.

I think that J and D r tellin u to do that so that girl has sumthing against you... if she really was crazy u would know... if they think shes a crazy why dont J and D tell M themselves... why r they tellin u to do it... doesnt make much sense other than they want this girl to dislike u

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I have this friend and I have been friends with her for like 5 years, and recently I met this guy and I like him a lot, and I told her that. And this guy told me that he liked me too. Well now she is going out with him. He still calls me and say that he loves me and wishes he was with me. I don't know if I should talk to the girl or if I should stay a way from her since she stabbed me in the back. What should I do?

Dont stop talkin to her... just dont trust her ever again... and i hate to tell u this... but that guy is playin wit ur mind... if he loved u and wanted to be wit u... why would he ask ur friend out... it makes no sense what-so-ever...

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okey the boy that i like is soo shy..he is one of the shyest boys that you ever would meet but like only when it comes to girlfriends and doing stuff other than that he is like outgoing and my best frend..he knows i like him and he sed he dno wat hed do if i kised him because he doesnt make the first move..i have thought it over allot and he sed he wudnt pull away so tomorrow morning when he comes to wake me up while were laying in my bed i am going to say "heyy can i show you something" hell sey ya and im going to kiss him not an all out hook up but i am going to kiss him a little bit..and then see wat happens..were best frneds and we flirt all the time we always act like we like eachothr but we are both shy..its just like i cant wait any longer and i am going to make the first move..do you think that its a good idea? what else could i do?

yeah i think it is a good idea... theres nothing wrong wit u makin the first move... and if he blushes and stuff just hug him

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Kevin1986 here again. I've been hearing a lot about guys only look at looks and everything like that. Lemme set the record straight here. If a girl is hott,she's a lot more likely to get asked out,true enough. But very few guys will tolerate a hot bitch. We're much more likely to go for the average looking girl with a great personality. I get pissed when we're made to look the bad guy and not every guy is as shallow as you describe. And besides,who are you more likely to ask out,Brad Pitt or the nice fat guy down the street? Stop being so hypocritical.

Yup u are right ( im a girl )... not all guys are shallow... ( mine isnt) i believe that when u love sum1 from the inside... u will see their beauty reflect on the outside... sum girls are shallow... they are like i want a man thats rich, hot, and treats me like a queen... i agree with you... no guy or girl wants to put up with a good lookin asshole...

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I have a problem with opening up to my friends. I've been a big flirt for like my whole life! I even won biggest flirt at my middle school. But I havent really DONE anything if you know what I mean. Like I kissed but didnt make out. ANYWAYS i have two best friends and they havent done that either! But I have a secret. I actually have gone farther than that a couple times... I'm not comfortable telling them about it because they asked me what happened when "john" came over to my house and I told them NOTHING! so then they would know I lied to them. I dont want any answers saying something like "be honest cuz thats the best" blah blah blah!
I just dont know what to do....

You dont have to tell anyone anything u dont want to... & u shouldnt tell anyone all of ur secrets... cuz when people get mad at eachother the usually blow up and blab their secrets... if u ever feel like tellin them than tell them... but i think its best not too... they may be ur friends but what you've done is ur business...

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is it weird that i don't like anyone? i mean all my friends obsess over who they like, but i seriously can't think of anyone that i like. and im 14!

no thats not weird... sum girls are boi crazy and sum girls arent.. and its not really good to obsses so be happy that u dont feel like that :)

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I need help witht this riddle please try n figure it out fo me ok here it goes....... there is a ,man on trial and a man steps up to the stand and asks to speak, the judge says who are u the man says brother n sisters i have none but the father of this man is my fathers son, how is the man related to the criminal. $M$

Damn... this ones gonna bother me untill i figure it out... lettme know when u figure it out...

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you know how pac-sun has those cute shirts that have stuff about boys and all..and their really cute..do you know any other stores that have them?

gadzooks have em... but the one in my mall closed down... so im not sure if they are still in business...

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Can you have sex when you are pregnant??

yeah u can... its supposed to be good for the baby... but u should cheQ wit ur doctor just in case

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hey i just ordered contacts.. im gettin them the 23rd =)) but n e ways.. i need some info on what and what not to do with them in ur eyes that the docter doesnt tell me.. please help.. =)

lilcutie910

*Dont sleep with ur contacts on
*Apply hairspray before puttin the contacts on
*Apply Make-up afterwards
*change ur saline every nite
*keep a bottle of Saline in ur locker ( u can probably get a small sample bottle from the place u are purchasing ur contacts )
One thing u should really look out for is if ur contact falls on the floor or on the sink... DONT put it baQ in ur eye witout cleaning it...

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